If you've ever caught yourself thinking "I can handle the porn, I just can't handle the lying" or threatened your husband with "if you lie one more time, I'm done with this marriage" – you're missing a crucial piece of the puzzle. Maybe the betrayal itself feels manageable, but the constant lies and deception are what's really eating you alive. You tell yourself that if he could just be honest about his struggles, you could work through this together. But what if the lying isn't a separate character flaw you need to fix?

In this episode, Katie reveals the uncomfortable truth about why porn and lying are actually part of the exact same problem, and why trying to logic your husband into honesty will never work. You'll discover the real reason behind the lies (hint: it's not because he doesn't love you), why your ultimatums about truth-telling are setting both of you up for failure, and the mindset shift that changes everything. When you understand what's really driving both behaviors, you'll stop fighting two different battles and finally know how to respond in a way that actually creates lasting change.

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