Like a fine wine, Hoda Kotb keeps getting better with age. She takes us through the pain points of her 40s — cancer and divorce — and how all of them made her fearless. She also tells us how in her 50s, she's in a job she pushed for, and in a relationship that makes her happy. She's living her life by her own rules and sharing how you can do the same. In Mailbag, credit cards and credit scores.

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