If you've ever responded to your husband's relapse by giving him the silent treatment for an entire day, melting down in front of your whole family, or telling him you're not sure the marriage can survive – that was me eight years ago. Matt's first relapse happened on our family vacation to Yellowstone, five months after I discovered his porn use, and I was absolutely devastated. I ignored him, spiraled about our future, and had no idea how to handle the crushing pain.

In this episode, Katie shares the story of Matt's first relapse versus his most recent one and the shocking difference in her response. You'll discover why his relapses don't send her spiraling anymore, how separating from his behaviors actually creates a closer marriage (not the emotional divorce your brain predicts), and the exact shift that turned relapses from devastating events into simple information. When you stop making his struggles mean something about your worth, his relapses finally lose their power over you.

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