Code4Couples

Ep 98: Leading by Example


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Law enforcement retirement is more than numbers — here's how to find purpose again. Cyndi sits down with career counselor and law enforcement spouse Nicole Davison to discuss the real challenges of retiring from law enforcement — from identity loss to shifting purpose and redefining structure. Together, they explore how officers and their partners can prepare emotionally and practically for "what's next." Nicole shares how to assess your values, explore new passions, and build a vision for your next chapter while maintaining connection as a couple. This conversation helps first responder families plan beyond the badge with intention and resilience.

Cyndi Doyle, LPC-S, NCC, and retired police spouse, helps law enforcement officers and their partners protect their relationships, build resilience, and communicate through the challenges of the first responder lifestyle. She's the author of Hold the Line and host of the Code4Couples® Podcast.

📘 Hold the Line: The Essential Guide to Protecting Your Law Enforcement Relationship → https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Line-Protecting-Enforcement-Relationship-ebook/dp/B08TPRTY9G#customerReviews

🎤 Speaking & Training Inquiries Bring Cyndi to your department or event → https://code4couples.com/training/

00:00 Intro – Why talk about law enforcement retirement 03:00 Meet Nicole Davison: Career counselor & LE spouse 10:00 The emotional transition after the badge comes off 18:00 Finding purpose and coping with change 27:00 Discovering transferable skills for second careers 34:00 How retirement affects law enforcement marriages 42:00 Planning your next chapter with vision and flexibility 44:00 Final thoughts & ways to stay connected

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