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In this episode of Better Skills. Better Doctors., I unpack the trap of chasing achievement as a path to worthiness or lasting happiness. Using examples like Paris Syndrome, holiday letdowns, and the emptiness that follows big wins, I explore the cultural myth that things will be better “once you get there.” 

I break down the “have-do-be” mindset that keeps so many of us stuck, and offer a different lens: fulfillment comes not from the finish line, but from who you become in the pursuit. 

If you’ve ever felt like hitting your goals didn’t deliver the satisfaction you expected, this episode is a powerful invitation to reframe why you strive, what’s truly within your control, and how to stop living for the next milestone and start living your life now.

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