Want more ideas on how to be a better sadist in your rope play? Fox and Mya talk to respected edge-player -EM- on the podcast this week, a man whose kink risk profile is pretty out there even compared to the fetlife norm. -EM- considers rope a versatile tool in his BDSM kit, rather than considering himself a ‘rope person’, and yet is definitely a ‘name’ in the world of rope.

Among the many interview highlights, you can hear:

- How he takes things from the very physical world of whips and sadistic rope to the emotional and mental play space that is his focus

- The point at which many Dominants or Tops stop, but which for -EM- signals when play really begins

- How he built up his experience with choking his partners to unconsciousness

We got so engrossed in chat with -EM- that we had to cut the interview into two parts. Look out for the next one coming soon!