"Create in me a clean heart, O God..."
~ Psalm 51:12

How can something that affects all of us be something that we almost never talk about honestly and purposefully? Pornography has infiltrated individuals, marriages, families, and the Church, and it's time to deal with it in ways that are faithful and fruitful. In this incredibly candid episode, Pat and Kenna dive into an intimate and inspiring discussion about the impact of pornography within their marriage and their own personal journeys. With raw vulnerability, they reveal the emotional toll, struggles, and triumphs experienced during Pat's journey to recovery and their path to healing in their marriage.

From the deceptive nature of pornography's allure to the deep wounds inflicted, Pat and Kenna unpack the complexities and offer personal insights into navigating the aftermath. Together, they explore the transformative power of openness and healing, emphasizing the need for accountability, grace, and compassion in the face of addiction. This compelling episode addresses the profound effects of pornography on relationships and highlights the resilience and growth that can emerge from facing such challenges. Join Pat and Kenna as they courageously share their story, offering wisdom, hope, and guidance for all navigating similar struggles.

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Episode 34 Show Notes (Including all the great resources for overcoming pornography mentioned in the episode)

Chapters:
0:00: Introduction and Highs & Hards
11:53: When pornography is personal
20:33: Explaining this 2-part series & studies on porn
25:59: When did you know that porn was a problem?
37:08: Feeling a loss of worth & maintaining boundaries
45:00: What helped turn things around?
55:56: Getting past porn to the deeper wounds
1:00:45: Challenge By Choice

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Music: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller. Used with permission.