"It is necessary that the heroic becomes daily and that the daily becomes heroic."
~ Saint Zélie Martin

In this fallen world, there are particular evils that require the grace of God and the support of loved ones to overcome. Pornography certainly falls into this category. In the second half of the conversation about pornography, Pat & Kenna discuss the consequences that brokenness and addiction had for their marriage. They also recall key moments that led them to reconciliation and deeper intimacy.

Loving relationships, especially marriages, are the ones most affected by pornography and sin of any kind. And it's also true that loving relationships and marriages are one of the most powerful agents of healing on the path to recovery and wholeness. How can we restore a sense of unity and connection when hope seems lost in a relationship? How do we even begin to build trust when there has been so much betrayal? Join Pat & Kenna for this forthright conversation, and get ready to move toward authenticity and communion!

Episode 35 Show Notes

Chapters:
0:00: Introduction and Highs & Hards
11:19: Continuing the conversation on pornography
14:29: Responding to listener questions
26:18: How healing & hope looked in our marriage
41:33: Earning & building trust
50:10: United together against a threat to our marriage
55:23: Challenge By Choice

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Music: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller. Used with permission.