We're bad at learning names and we don't know what to do about it! How long after you meet someone until you abandon learning their name and they just become "dude" forever? Have you ever accidentally misgendered someone? Have you been misgendered? We sure have and the more we talk about it the worse we seem. We explain what encourages people that talk to strangers out in the open. Fast food drive thrus are meant to be quick and easy, unless you can't order quickly and then you need to rethink your life. Half the show cant order food. We're all going through it this week so join us while we spiral out of control!!