With the best rope-origin story we’ve every heard, listener Dropellet sends us a message with a few great questions, centering around her and her husband’s entry into kink. Fox and Mya discuss her message in the episode, covering:

* How the way you enter rope affects your rope journey

* How kinky rope really is

* What the responsibilities of those doing rope to those who are watching - and what they aren’t

* Can you even tell whether something is kinky anyway just by watching?

* How to get started learning rope

* Why the concept of a ‘normal body’ is unhelpful (and how kinky and popular doesn’t represent the kind of people who you’re likely to see at your local event)

* Taking back ownership of your kink social media feeds