In the episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss our tendency and desire to win and be right in marriage, when the goal is to “lose”, become more like Jesus, pursue oneness, and walk in humility.

Scriptures:

Gen 2:18-25

John 10:10

Phil 2:3-4

1 Tim 1:15

1 Cor 13:6

Resources:

Removed Series from Harris Creek

Watermark Marriage Conference – Lance Sisco - Keeping Score in Your Marriage

Book – The Meaning of Marriage, by Timothy & Kathy Keller

More Than Roommates Episode 94 – How to Be a Better Listener in Marriage

Questions to Discuss:

1. Who has the harder time saying “You’re right” in your relationship?

2. Why is hard to say to your spouse, “You are right”?

3. How can you pursue a team mentality instead of fighting to be right?