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I used this week's episode to channel my frustration when one of my weekly groups came to a close. Trust was violated and the facilitator violating trust didn't acknowledge or own up to his behavior. I marveled at how uncomfortable people can be with conflict, myself included. Do I name the elephant in the room? Do I remove myself from this game of pretending? It takes courage to deal with conflicts honestly. Most people opt to sweep problems under the rug, clinging to the concept of being the ideal family or the ideal group. They choose dishonest harmony rather than honest conflict. It's a delicate balance speaking up when everyone else is invested in dishonest harmony. Here's to not sweeping problems under the rug. Here's to learning the skills of addressing conflicts constructively. Here's to the courage and authenticity to live into your truth. Here's to discerning how and when to address conflict honestly. Enjoy the podcast!
By Dr. Deborah Adamy, PhD., LMSW, LMT4.9
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I used this week's episode to channel my frustration when one of my weekly groups came to a close. Trust was violated and the facilitator violating trust didn't acknowledge or own up to his behavior. I marveled at how uncomfortable people can be with conflict, myself included. Do I name the elephant in the room? Do I remove myself from this game of pretending? It takes courage to deal with conflicts honestly. Most people opt to sweep problems under the rug, clinging to the concept of being the ideal family or the ideal group. They choose dishonest harmony rather than honest conflict. It's a delicate balance speaking up when everyone else is invested in dishonest harmony. Here's to not sweeping problems under the rug. Here's to learning the skills of addressing conflicts constructively. Here's to the courage and authenticity to live into your truth. Here's to discerning how and when to address conflict honestly. Enjoy the podcast!

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