In Part 3 of this 3-part series on sex and marriage, Scott, Gabrielle, and Derek discuss two more barriers to intimacy couples often face. We discuss sexual expectations (sexpectations) and unresolved pain, sin, or struggles. We hope this 3-Part series has helped you have some needed conversations about intimacy.

Married Sex, by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta

Rethinking Sexuality, by Juli Slattery

#4 - We all have unmet expectations

1. How satisfied am I sexually?

2. How satisfied is my spouse sexually?

3. Where are our sexual expectations aligned?

4. Where are they different?

5. Do I feel a freedom to share my desires sexually?

6. What are some barriers or insecurities that prevent me from sharing with my spouse?

#5 - We have unresolved or unconfessed pain, sex, and struggles

1. Have I worked through any sexual hurts/addictions/habits?

2. What do I need to confess or share with my spouse?

3. Do I have a right view of intimacy?