In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella discuss the concept of body coverage as a form of appearance control in cults and white supremacy. They explore the loaded language and thought-stopping cliches used to enforce modesty and control women's bodies. They also touch on the intersection of race and body coverage, highlighting the policing of black women's bodies and the privileging of white beauty standards. The conversation delves into the influence of cult language and the importance of challenging and deconstructing these harmful ideologies. The conversation explores the limitations placed on professional women in terms of appearance, the power of language, and the impact of beauty standards. It delves into the intersectionality of race and gender, the control and behavior prescriptions imposed by appearance standards, and the need for representation and diverse perspectives in positions of power. The discussion also touches on the troubled teen industry, the importance of storytelling and language, and the potential for change in the political landscape. The conversation explores the themes of identity, white supremacy, misogyny, and the pressure to conform to societal expectations. It delves into the experiences of being a woman and the challenges faced in navigating patriarchal systems. The speakers discuss the importance of self-acceptance and finding one's own mission in life. They also touch on the power dynamics within cults and the need to redefine success on one's own terms.

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Takeaways

• Body coverage is a form of appearance control used in cults and white supremacy to enforce modesty and control women's bodies.
• Loaded language and thought-stopping cliches are used to shut down critical discussion and maintain the status quo.
• The policing of black women's bodies and the privileging of white beauty standards are examples of how body coverage intersects with race.
• Challenging and deconstructing harmful ideologies is essential for dismantling systems of oppression. Appearance standards for professional women can be limiting and reinforce patriarchal norms.
• Language is a powerful tool that can be used to attack or empower. Beauty standards are often about controlling women and prescribing behavior.
• Intersectionality is important in understanding the experiences of different groups.
• Representation and diverse perspectives are crucial in positions of power.
• The troubled teen industry and its impact on individuals' lives is a significant issue.
• Storytelling and language play a role in shaping our understanding of the world.
• Change is possible, and it requires challenging existing systems and norms. Identity is complex and can be defined by both what it is and what it is not.
• White identity is often defined by not being black, while black identity is not defined by not being white.
• Societal pressure often leads to black people being marginalized and white people feeling the need to defend their identity.
• Misogyny and sexism are not the same as hating men; they are about opposing harmful beliefs and behaviors.
• Criticism and judgment from others should not dictate one's self-worth or define their mission in life.
• The pursuit of success should be redefined on one's own terms, rather than relying on external validation or societal expectations.

Sound Bites

"Body coverage is a big thing in cults, right?" "White privilege is such a loaded term" "White privilege is a thought-stopping cliche" "So often the first response is just to attack because language is so primal and fundamental to us as humans." "People have no clue what I'm doing. And you could tell, because they're just so upset that I would name myself White Woman Whisperer, that I would even address white women and not be one because then they're so confused." "People say Swifties are a cult. I'm like, what are they against?" "Whiteness has always been, we can't live with you and we can't live without you." "What I hate is misogyny and sexism, and I love men that aren't that."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Yarn Discussion 01:18 Deconstructing White Supremacy and Cults 05:15 The Power of Language and Loaded Terms 10:34 Thought-Stopping Cliches and White Privilege 14:16 Questioning and Challenging Language 16:16 Creating Spaces for Marginalized Voices 17:59 The Art of Knitting: Patience and Practice 18:25 Body Coverage in Cults: Appearance Control and Conformity 25:46 Policing Black Women's Sexuality: Stereotypes and Double Standards 31:58 The Evolution of Beauty Standards: Tools for Control 36:04 Self-Acceptance and Challenging Societal Norms 39:57 The Intersectionality of Identity and Appearance Control 41:45 Challenging Stereotypes and Expectations in the Military 46:20 The Power Dynamics of White Supremacy and Patriarchy 48:58 The Importance of Diverse Perspectives in Positions of Power 52:13 Valuing Lived Experiences alongside Formal Qualifications 57:58 Rethinking Traditional Games and Systems 01:07:11 Reevaluating Goals and Finding New Missions 01:07:57 The Importance of Self-Care and Self-Acceptance 01:11:30 Defining Success on Your Own Terms