Fear Is Not the Enemy

A deep dive into fear, identity, and nervous system healing with Shayleigh and Amber

This conversation is a love letter to fear. Not the kind that keeps you paralyzed, but the kind that has something to teach you if you’re willing to listen.

Fear isn’t just a symptom. It’s a story.
A signal.
A survival map from your past.
A portal into the next version of you.

We explore how fear shows up in the body, becomes an identity, and plays out in your relationships—especially with your horse. You’ll hear about subconscious beliefs, somatic healing, hypnosis myths, and the power of processing what was never processed.

You’ll also hear how something as simple as naming the fear can change everything.

And yes, there’s some fun detours: Dolores Cannon, alien downloads, AI shame, and book hoarding. Naturally.

What fear have you carried for so long it feels like part of your identity?

Where does fear live in your body?

What belief has fear been trying to protect?

What would happen if you let fear move instead of holding it back?

What virtues might be hiding inside that fear?

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00:00 – Welcome to Fear Week
02:00 – How fear shows up in the body
05:30 – Human Design and fear patterns
08:45 – Chronic fear and nervous system wear
10:50 – Naming what fear is really saying
13:15 – The virtues of fear
16:50 – Somatic processing and sensation
20:00 – Fear as identity and safety
23:30 – Subconscious patterns and hypnosis
27:00 – Amber’s story about fear of being useful
33:00 – Unprocessed fear and frozen states
36:00 – Cultural shifts and alien tangents
40:00 – Horses and fear reflections
43:00 – What to expect in the webinar