Hi everyone! In this episode, I sit down with my amazing co-host Alexis for the first time in two months, and there's so much to catch up on! Alexis has recently welcomed her beautiful baby into the world, and I couldn’t be happier for her.

We dive into her journey of adapting to motherhood while juggling her passion for horses. As we chat, Alexis shares her highs and lows from these past couple of months, and I’m in awe of her strength and resilience. It’s a heartfelt reminder of how valuable our friendship is, especially as we’ve been through so much together since our college days.

We also tackle the realities of horse ownership and how we manage our responsibilities as riders. From discussing who pays for vet bills to how we approach our finances within our families, our honest conversation highlights the behind-the-scenes of balancing horses with life’s demands.

We even dig into the topic of insurance and why it’s essential for our furry friends. I can’t help but share a funny yet relatable experience of feeling “horsesick” after focusing so much on caring for others—something that makes me appreciate our equestrian lifestyle even more. Alexis talks about how her life choices have changed since becoming a mom and how she’s finding her way back to her passion for riding.

As we wrap up, we encourage all of you to subscribe and join us for more genuine discussions about balancing adult life and our love for horses. This episode is filled with friendship, laughter, and some real talk about navigating our unique journeys. We hope you'll join us on this ride!

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In this engaging episode of the podcast, Kelly and I interview Alison Courtney, an accomplished equestrian trainer and coach. Alison shares her unique approach to working with adult amateur riders while helping them navigate their budgets effectively. She emphasizes the importance of setting realistic goals that align with one's financial situation and encourages an open-minded attitude when working with green horses.

Alison's journey in the equestrian world is truly inspiring. She talks about her upbringing in Georgia, her dual pursuit of a degree in occupational therapy, and how her passion for teaching blossomed through mentorship and varied experiences in the industry. We loved hearing her heartwarming stories, especially about her special horse, Chinook, and the meaningful lessons he taught her. As we dive deeper into the conversation, Alison provides valuable insights into the trainer-client relationship. She stresses the importance of trust and finding a trainer who genuinely has your best interests at heart.

We discuss the balance between pushing oneself and ensuring safety, particularly when managing anxiety around competitions. What stood out to me was Alison's perspective on setting short-term goals to help riders focus on what they can control, rather than succumbing to the pressures of competition. It's all about embracing each rider's unique journey and recognizing the challenges that everyone faces. I'm excited for you all to join us in this episode!

Whether you're an adult amateur rider or simply passionate about horses, Alison's insights are a wonderful reminder of the brilliance of the equestrian journey and the importance of supportive mentorship. We hope you find her advice as motivating as we did!

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In this heartfelt episode, we, Alexis and Kelly, explore our contrasting approaches to managing the chaos of our busy lives. While one of us thrives on structure and rules, the other embraces the unpredictability of life, and we unpack how our mindsets affect our productivity, especially in terms of horse care and achieving success in our equestrian endeavors. Our conversation delves into the nerves that come with being involved in the equestrian world.

Kelly shares her upcoming role as an announcer at the Georgia Hunter Jumper Association banquet, expressing all the anxious feelings that come with such a responsibility. We reassure each other and discuss how our own anxieties manifest in different ways but ultimately connect us through shared experiences. A particularly vulnerable moment arises as we reflect on a recent incident where one of our horses exhibited concerning behavior, prompting discussions about the responsibilities of caring for these incredible animals and the financial pressures that come with equestrian sports.

We both share a desire to seek guidance from a sports psychologist to help navigate these emotions. As we dive deeper into our experiences, we openly discuss the anxiety that arises before entering the show ring. We share stories of how we cope with these nerves, including how one of us embodies a "Karen" mentality—unwavering determination to achieve her goals. Listeners' comments are featured, giving voice to our community's own experiences with anxiety during horse shows.

We talk about the variety of horse shows, noting that while some are fiercely competitive, others offer a much-needed opportunity to enjoy riding and camaraderie. We emphasize the refreshing benefits of taking breaks and exploring new venues to revive our passion for the sport. This episode is filled with humor, vulnerability, and encouragement as we remind ourselves—and our listeners—that we're all navigating our unique journeys in the equestrian world. Tune in and join the conversation as we continue to build our supportive community! 

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In this lively episode, we dive into the fun and relatable experiences of adult amateur riders in the equestrian world. We kick things off with a humorous discussion about the hilarious skits called "The Equestrian Adult Amateur," where we poke fun at the quirks and challenges we all face as we navigate this sport.

Tune in as we share laughter and insights, and our listeners will surely relate to those “Are you talking about me?” moments! We dive deep into what it takes to prepare for a horse show, acknowledging that sometimes, adult amateurs may need a little boost—whether that's a calming shot before a big derby or just a good pep talk from a friend. We chat about how the emotional stakes run high, with adults often stressing about the costs involved and how that affects their performance, unlike the kids who seem to ride with pure joy. Our conversation shifts to the evolving horse community, as we explore how the competition has become more intense, yet the bonds within our local barns have grown stronger.

We share personal stories of supportive barn vibes, discovering that our specific community promotes encouragement over rivalry. Everyone knows each other, celebrates each other's successes, and works together to ensure a positive atmosphere. We also discuss the financial dynamics within the equestrian world, emphasizing the importance of supporting each other through leasing arrangements and shared resources. Riding different horses has not only improved our skills but has also expanded our sense of camaraderie.

Throughout the episode, we share heartfelt moments of encouragement from fellow riders who cheer us on, reinforcing the idea that our horse community is about so much more than just competition—it's about fun, friendship, and building each other up. If you've ever felt the ups and downs of the equestrian journey, this episode is for you! Join us as we celebrate the joy of riding while fostering a supportive community that keeps us coming back for more. Whether you’re an amateur struggling with pre-show jitters or simply someone who loves the equestrian lifestyle, we invite you to laugh along and find your place among the beautiful chaos of the horse world! 

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In this exciting episode, we had the pleasure of sitting down with Amanda Steege at the Winter Series in sunny Ocala, Florida! As a renowned figure in the hunter/jumper community, Amanda shared her incredible journey, growing up in Massachusetts surrounded by horses thanks to her parents' influence as trainers. From excelling in pony hunters to junior hunters and equitation rings, Amanda's early achievements laid the foundation for a distinguished career. We talked about her successful establishment of Ash Meadow Farm in Califon, NJ, and Ocala, FL, where she focuses on developing young talents and coaching amateur riders.

Amanda emphasized the importance of providing a solid foundation for her clients and shared how visualization techniques help them manage their nerves in the show ring. With her horse Lafitte De Muze, Amanda recently captured the spotlight by winning the prestigious **2024 USHJA Derby Finals**, solidifying their place as a leading pair in the international hunter/jumper circuit. Plus, her recent accolades include becoming the champion at the **2023 Devon Horse Show** in the High Performance Hunter division and triumphing in the **$100,000 USHJA International Hunter Derby** at the **Hampton Classic** in 2022.

During our conversation, we explored the significance of goal setting and maintaining a positive mindset despite the pressures of competition. Amanda’s passion for Thoroughbreds and the strategy behind her training methods truly resonate with us as we discussed the future of show jumping. This episode is filled with inspiration, laughter, and practical advice that any rider can relate to. We invite you to tune in and celebrate the joy of being part of the equestrian community—along with all the incredible stories that come with it!

In this heartfelt interview, Cheryl Sims opens up about her daughter's remarkable journey in the equestrian world and her dedicated involvement with the Wills Park equestrian center. Cheryl shares insights into the challenges and successes of developing the equestrian park, emphasizing its importance as a safe haven for children and a positive outlet that keeps them engaged and out of trouble.

Listeners will learn about the Wills Park Foundation's mission to protect the equestrian facility from redevelopment, as well as the ongoing efforts to refurbish and improve the park with t

he help of donations and a partnership with the city of Alpharetta. Cheryl talks about exciting upcoming projects, including the construction of a new pony ring and the refurbishment of the barns — all aimed at enhancing the experience for young equestrians.

Cheryl reflects on her long-standing relationship with horse showing in Georgia and the Southeast, sharing nostalgic memories while also expressing her gratitude for the support and encouragement she has received throughout her journey. She touches on the joy of witnessing her daughter thrive in the sport and highlights the importance of community involvement, calling for donations and corporate sponsorships to further the foundation's goals.

This episode beautifully showcases the transformative power of equestrian sports and the strong community bonds formed around a shared passion. Join us to discover how you can get involved and make a difference in the lives of young riders! 

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In this captivating interview of the Equestrian Adult Amateur, equestrian trainer Kevin Hunter unveils his deep-seated passion for horses and the vital significance of commencing with groundwork before embarking on the journey of riding. He eloquently emphasizes the necessity of consistency in training and the invaluable lessons gleaned from fellow practitioners. The interviewer expresses heartfelt gratitude for Kevin's insights and extends a warm invitation for him to conduct a clinic at their abode come spring.

Known as "The Cowboy", this horse whisperer and trainer harmonizes with a diverse array of horses, prioritizing the cultivation of relationships and trust. He champions a gentle pressure and release method over forceful discipline, affirming the need for clarity and consistency in the delicate dance of horse-human connections. His successes with even the most challenging or traumatized horses speak volumes, and he advocates for allowing equine communication within the herd to foster respect.

Kevin Hunter, the esteemed owner of Kevin Hunter Performance Horses, has dedicated nearly three decades to the art of horsemanship. His roots as a trainer are deeply entwined with a passion for nurturing young horses and establishing a sturdy foundation. With a philosophy that melds kindness with firmness, he underscores the essence of consistency in training. Moreover, Hunter champions the importance of balance in life, ensuring that the enchanting world of horse training does not overshadow all other pursuits, earning him the affectionate title of "cowboy" in the hunter/jumper community.

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In this compelling episode, we sit down with Megan Thiel, the president of the Georgia Hunter Jumper Association (GHJA), as she shares her inspiring journey growing up with horses and carving out a successful career in the equestrian world. Megan emphasizes the significance of true horsemanship and discusses her ambitious goals for the GHJA, including enhancements to the show jumping community in Georgia and the future of equestrian sports .

Megan reveals the realities of the sport, discussing its financial demands and how passion fuels perseverance among those who remain devoted to it. She paints a vivid picture of the variety of trainers in the industry and shares her love for guiding her clients through their equestrian journeys, no matter their level of competition. With insights into the increasing popularity of collegiate equestrian teams, Megan highlights both the challenges and triumphs young riders face in achieving their goals.

Listeners will get a behind-the-scenes look at the planning and funding required to develop major show complexes like Will’s Park in Alpharetta, GA, and gain valuable perspectives on the growth of the local horse circuit.

Join us for an enriching discussion filled with passion, challenges, and the community spirit that defines equestrian life in Georgia! 🐎❤️✨

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Join your hosts, Alexis and Kelly, as they dive into the heart of the equestrian community and how it shapes their lives as adult amateur riders. In this episode, they reflect on how they met through this shared passion, riding at different barns while keeping their friendship strong. They chat about the importance of finding a supportive trainer and a positive barn vibe, plus how tough it can be when you bring your horse home and leave the safety net of your equestrian crew.

Alexis and Kelly share their own stories of loneliness and anxiety when riding alone and the struggle to keep a training routine while juggling work and family life. Listen in as they discuss the ups and downs of having a horsey community, from building that supportive network to dealing with potential drama. They wrap up with a tease for upcoming episodes and invite you to share your thoughts and experiences with them.

Tune in for some real talk about the joys (and struggles) of being an adult amateur equestrian, and discover how to create your own supportive circle in the horse world!

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In this heartfelt episode, guest Carly Durst reflects on her incredible journey through the world of horses, from her childhood fascination with riding to her adventures in eventing and the jumpers. After experiencing burnout at 14, Carly took a break from the saddle, focusing on her career and entrepreneurial ventures. However, her love for horses never faded, leading her back to riding as an adult, where she discovered renewed passion and purpose. Join guest Carly, and hosts Kelly, and Alexis of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast as they explore the pivotal moments of her equestrian journey, including how to find the right barn, the importance of supportive trainers, and adult riding goals.

They delve into the unique experiences of off-track thoroughbreds compared to warm-bloods and working horses, and how horses can fundamentally shift our outlook on life. The conversation touches on various topics, such as riding through pregnancy, performance anxiety, and coping mechanisms, including the use of medication like beta blockers and peptides. Carly candidly shares her struggles with recent shoulder injuries and her recovery journey, highlighting the importance of community in the equestrian world.

Listeners will also appreciate insights into maintaining a positive mindset amidst the pressures of competition, especially in the age of social media. With relatable anecdotes and valuable advice, this episode is a must-listen for anyone juggling their love for horses alongside the complexities of adult life.

Tune in for a celebration of passion, resilience, and the joy of riding as an adult — it’s time to reconnect with your equestrian dreams

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