What if relationship numbness, loss of desire, or feeling like roommates instead of lovers aren't signs your relationship is broken… but signals that Eros quietly slipped out the back door and is waiting to be invited home?

After years of working with couples - and living this myself through partnership and parenthood - I've seen how amazing people slowly trade aliveness for logistics. In this episode, I answer questions from the community about relationships that still "work" but no longer feel alive.

You'll get language for what's actually happening, relief from self-blame, and simple doorways back to desire, play, and warmth - without blowing up your life. Share it with your partner as a little love letter invitation back into aliveness.

If you've been searching for "lost spark in marriage" or "feeling numb in a relationship," this episode is exactly what you need.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How to tell the difference between a relationship that's broken and one that's simply lost aliveness
• Why desire often disappears after parenthood - and why it's not your fault
• The first honest shift that reopens Eros without forcing intimacy

We also cover:

• Burnout, resentment, and emotional withdrawal in long-term relationships
• Why postponing play and desire quietly costs families more than we realize
• Simple, doable ways to invite 10% more aliveness back into daily life

Many couples feel disconnected, bored, or numb in relationships that still look stable from the outside. In this episode, I explore relationship numbness, loss of desire after parenthood, and emotional disconnection through an embodied lens. I explain how modern culture, chronic stress, and unprocessed resentment suppress Eros and erotic aliveness in long-term partnerships. This conversation offers compassionate insight and practical doorways for couples who want to feel warmth, play, and desire again—without shame or dramatic upheaval.

Want more juicy relationship tips, culture insights, and sensual embodiment?

• Follow Megan on Instagram @megandlambert
• Explore more resources, workshops, and programs at www.megandlambert.com
• Apply for 1:1 Coaching or Couple's Coaching with Megan: https://megandlambert.as.me/discovery-call

Episode Resources

• My first book Eros: The Journey Home offers a pathway back to your own inner aliveness and desire
• My second book, specifically for women on the path to becoming mothers Eros Mama: Embracing Your Sensual Feminine Power through Pregnancy, Birth, and Postpartum

Keywords: lost spark in marriage, relationship numbness, desire after parenthood, emotional disconnection in couples, long term relationship burnout, eros and aliveness, how to bring desire back, embodied relationships, resentment and withdrawal in marriage, nervous system and intimacy, couples feeling like roommates, healing relationships after kids

Hashtags: #WhenLoveGoesQuiet #RelationshipNumbness #DesireAfterParenthood #LongTermRelationships #ErosAndEarth #EmotionalIntimacy #CouplesHealing #EmbodiedRelationships #LostSpark #MarriageAfterKids #RelationalRepair #NervousSystemHealing #EroticAliveness

What if period pain, shame about your body, and feminine grief weren't problems to fix… but messages from your body asking to be witnessed, honored, and turned into art?

This cycle, I painted with my menstrual blood for the first time - holding grief, longing, and devotion in my hands - and something softened in me at a cellular level. Menstrual art is more than expression - it's a nervous-system-regulating, somatic practice that helps repair period shame and restore trust in the body. In this episode, I interview Jasmine Alicia Carter on how working directly with menstrual blood can touch grief, release stored trauma, and reconnect women to the intelligence of their cycle. If you've felt disconnected from your womb, struggled with your period, or longed for a more embodied way to heal, this conversation offers a devotional path back home.

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Interview with Jasmine Alicia Carter - Menstrual Art Pioneer, Womb Worker, Bodyworker, Mother, Ritualist.

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If you've been searching for "menstrual art" or "womb healing" or "feminine healing", this episode is exactly what you need.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How menstrual art can relieve period pain and emotional suffering
• Why shame around menstruation shapes women's confidence and power
• How blood becomes a listening practice for the body and nervous system

We also cover:

• Menarche and why your first period story matters
• Reclaiming rites of passage in a culture without ritual
• Motherhood, birth, and repairing feminine thresholds

Want more juicy relationship tips, culture insights, and sensual embodiment?

• Follow Megan on Instagram @megandlambert
• Explore more resources, workshops, and programs at www.megandlambert.com
• Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Megan: https://megandlambert.as.me/discovery-call

Episode Resources:

• Find Jasmine's work at https://sacredwoman.com/
• Connect with her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/jasminealiciacarter/

#MenstrualArt #WombHealing #PeriodHealing #SacredFeminine #MenstrualCycleAwareness #RitesOfPassage #EmbodiedWoman #FeminineInitiation #BloodWisdom #Menarche #CycleSyncing #SomaticHealing #DevotionalArt #FeminineReclamation #SomaticHealing #EmbodiedWoman #FeminineEmbodiment#NervousSystemHealing #BodyBasedHealing #RitesOfPassage #Menarche #SacredFeminine #FeminineInitiation #CyclicalLiving #MotherhoodReclaimed #BloodWisdom #WomenHealingWomen #EarthAsBody #WombToWorld

What if confusion about masculinity, emotional distance, or "I don't know how to be a man anymore" aren't failures… but signs that the old scripts are dissolving and a more grounded, relational masculinity is trying to emerge?

I recorded this episode with my husband, James, after years of watching good men feel lost, defensive, or exhausted by impossible standards. We talk honestly about what helped us - not theories, not dominance, not perfection, but presence.

This episode is for any man who wants to know how to have hotter attraction and deeper love - without losing who he is in the process. If you share this with a man you love, he'll walk away feeling steadier in himself, clearer in relationship, and more trusted rather than criticized.

James Lambert — men's work facilitator, embodiment practitioner, relationship coach

If you've been searching for "healthy masculinity" or "how men can show up better in relationships," this episode is exactly what you need.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why masculinity isn't about dominance, but embodied regulation
• How presence creates attraction, safety, and trust
• What women are actually longing for beneath the complaints

We also cover:

• Why alpha-male culture leaves men disconnected and women guarded
• Masculinity after feminism and cultural whiplash
• How polarity can exist without rigid gender roles

Many women want to support the men in their lives without shaming, fixing, or over-explaining. In this episode, we explore healthy masculinity, masculine presence, and masculine–feminine polarity through an embodied and nervous-system-aware lens. We unpack why modern men feel confused about masculinity and how cultural conditioning disrupts intimacy and attraction. This conversation offers women a language - and men a felt sense - for showing up with strength, sensitivity, and relational integrity.

Want more juicy relationship tips, culture insights, and sensual embodiment?

• Follow Megan on Instagram @megandlambert
• Explore more resources, workshops, and programs at www.megandlambert.com
• Apply for 1:1 Coaching or Couple's Coaching with Megan & James: https://megandlambert.as.me/discovery-call

Episode Resources: James' work can be found at www.jamesmattingley.com

Keywords: healthy masculinity for relationships, how men can show up better, masculinity without dominance, masculine presence in relationships, men feeling lost today, masculine feminine polarity explained, supporting men without shaming, modern masculinity crisis, nervous system regulation for men, embodiment for men, relational masculinity

Hashtags #ForTheMenWeLove #HealthyMasculinity #ModernMasculinity #MasculinePresence #MenAndRelationships #MasculinityWithoutShame #EmbodiedMen #RelationalMasculinity #PolarityInRelationships #SupportMen #MasculinityRedefined #NervousSystemHealing #MenDoingTheWork #LoveWithoutFixing #SecureMasculinity #StrongAndSoft #RelationshipHealing #CulturalShift #EmbodiedPartnership #MasculinityAfterFeminism

What if burnout, numbness, or quiet dissatisfaction aren't personal failures… but signs that your soul - and the Earth itself - are asking for a deeper way of living?

In this first episode of Eros & Earth, I'm sharing why this season of my life - and this cultural moment - feels like a cocoon: messy, liminal, and sacred. After motherhood, building an eco-sanctuary in Bali, and years of impact work, I stopped asking "What's my niche?" and started listening for what makes me feel alive instead. Trusting this aliveness is a game-changer; it re-orients your compass and can give you a whole new life.

If you've been searching for "how to feel alive again" or "burnout but successful," this episode is exactly what you need.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why numb productivity is a signal—not a flaw
• How liminal space is a necessary phase of evolution
• Why Eros (aliveness) is a more trustworthy compass than efficiency

We also cover:

• Burnout disguised as ambition
• Late-stage capitalism and the erosion of relationship
• The link between motherhood, Earth, and desire

Many people today feel exhausted, disconnected, and strangely hollow - even when their lives look "successful." In this episode, I reframe burnout and dissatisfaction through an embodied lens, revealing how nervous system overwhelm, cultural extraction, and disconnection from nature suppress aliveness. By exploring Eros as a force of vitality and Earth as our original relational field, this conversation offers a path toward regeneration - personal, relational, and collective. This episode is for anyone craving a return to desire, meaning, and embodied belonging.

Want more juicy relationship tips, culture insights, and sensual embodiment?

• Follow Megan on Instagram @megandlambert
• Explore more resources, workshops, and programs at www.megandlambert.com
• Apply for 1:1 Coaching or Couple's Coaching with Megan: https://megandlambert.as.me/discovery-call

Keywords:

liminal space, burnout disguised as ambition, feeling numb but successful, embodied leadership, rewilding yourself, Eros as aliveness, erotic energy beyond sex, nervous system repair, late stage capitalism burnout, personal and collective transformation, ecological embodiment, motherhood and identity evolution, relational crisis not personal failure, return to Earth spirituality, somatic awareness, feminine wisdom, regenerative culture, desire as a compass, embodied living, how to feel alive again in modern life

Hashtags:

#ErosAndEarth #PermissionToEvolve #LiminalSpace #EmbodiedLeadership #BurnoutCulture #AlivenessOverProductivity #RewildYourLife #EmbodimentPractice #LateStageCapitalism #RelationalRepair #EroticAliveness #EarthAsMother #NervousSystemHealing #SoulLedLiving #EcologicalEmbodiment #FeminineWisdom #EmbodiedMotherhood #CultureShift #RegenerativeFuture #SomaticAwareness #DesireAsCompass #RewildingDesire #CollectiveHealing

Sensuality. Feminine Power. Earth Awakening. Wild Love.

This is the place where desire roots down into the soil, where nature seduces you awake, and where soul and body braid themselves into something too alive to ignore.

Where sensuality becomes a form of activism. Where Earth devotion becomes erotic. Where intimacy becomes a catalyst for culture. Where the way we love each other reshapes the world we inherit.

Here, we explore how our bodies, our relationships, and our Earth reflect one another — one living organism pulsing between collapse and regeneration.

Each episode drops you into the raw, intimate truths of being human in a time that demands both courage and tenderness, both deep introspection and powerful collaboration.

This is for the ones who hear the heartbeat under the chaos — who crave depth, connection, and a path that's both fiercely sensual and wildly regenerative.

Come for the spark. Stay for the sanctuary.

Let's remember how to love, and let that love ripple through the world.

What is your relationship to anger like? Have you experienced more anger since becoming a mother?

If you have, you aren't alone. There is a unique flavor of anger I call "mother rage" that pops up while tending to little ones. It has important insights for us - if we are willing to listen.

Anger can be scary, but it is also a valuable teacher, pointing out our deepest values and tenderest places. We get angry about issues that matter to us, areas that need to change. For that reason, anger is one of my favorite emotions - and a potent force for transformation.

In this solo episode, I share what I'm angry about currently, as well as how I work with that anger in myself and in my clients.

I hope this episode helps you breathe a sigh of relief next time you feel angry - and get curious enough to listen to anger's wisdom.

What was becoming a mother like for our mothers? For our grandmothers?

How can the wisdom from women who have come before guide us newer mamas in this journey? What can we learn from our mothers, grandmothers, wise women?

In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with my own mom to unravel and discover my female lineage, learning about my mama's motherhood journey as well as my grandmother's.

My mother — a mama to 3 children — shares her experience of becoming a mama in her 20s, divorcing in her 30s, and then becoming a mama again in her 40s. She reflects on the delicate balance of maintaining a separate sense of self, of womanhood, while being a devoted mother.

We also explored what "feminine power" means in the context of motherhood, and women's unique ability to subtly influence family dynamics - without losing ourselves in the process.

I left this chat feeling more connected to my mom and to the long line of mothers before us, as well as inspired by the foundational wisdom from generations before me. If you've ever wondered how to keep your own dreams alive and your partnership strong while raising little ones, this conversation is for you.

In this captivating, intimate episode of the Eros Mama podcast, I welcome Alexandra Roxo, best-selling author of "Fuck Like a Goddess" and mother to a 10-month-old girl.

Alexandra shares her transformative journey to motherhood, discussing the challenges of finding the right partner and balancing her career with her desire for a child.

Alexandra opens up about her transition from a successful career in film and TV to a spiritual and healing path, and how this shift ultimately led her to motherhood. She candidly discusses the societal pressures she faced, her experiences with miscarriage, and the deep personal work she and her partner undertook to create a strong foundation for their family.

She challenges cultural narratives about motherhood and encourages women to embrace their erotic selves while navigating the demands of parenting.

This episode offers valuable insights for anyone interested in conscious conception, maintaining sensuality during pregnancy and postpartum, and creating a thriving partnership while raising a family. Alexandra's story is a testament to the power of trust, embodiment, and staying connected to one's desires throughout the journey of motherhood.

Join Megan and Alexandra for this empowering conversation that redefines what it means to be a sensual, vibrant mother in today's world.

Have you ever trusted your intuition, even amidst the noise of other people's opinions? Such a powerful and needed skill of a mama.

In this episode, I share about taking my daughter out of school after noticing her upset when being dropped off. I talk about navigating conflicting voices in my head - am I coddling her? Aren't I supposed to "send my kids to school" - vs. ultimately trusting the quiet whispers of my body telling me this wasn't right.

I've also been exploring the concept of "unschooling" which focuses on child-led learning without an adult-imposed curriculum. This concept resonates deeply with me and I share my favorite resources on it below.

Ultimately this episode is about trusting our intuition as mother's even when it goes against societal norms or advice from others. I invite you to deeply listen to yourself as you make choices about your children.

A great listen for any mama considering pre-school, homeschool, or unschooling her children.

• 00:03 - Intro about exploring the concept of unschooling - child-led learning without adult-imposed curriculum
• 03:28 - Enrolled Lila in an alternative preschool in Bali
• 05:17 - After a few days, Lila was holding back tears when being dropped off, which didn't feel right
• 06:43 - Saw another child cry hysterically for 45 mins after being dropped off, solidifying her decision
• 08:08 - Decided to take Lila out of preschool and trust her intuition, even if it disrupted norms
• 08:38 - Highlights the importance of tuning into maternal intuition over conventional wisdom when it doesn't resonate
• 10:12 - Provides another example of listening to instincts by not doing cry-it-out sleep training

Unschooling resources:

• Natural Learning podcast
• Free to Learn book
• Raising Free People book
• Schooling the World documentary

In this episode, my husband James and I share our intimate, powerful home birth story of our second baby, Latham. It was such a wild and empowering journey! Here I weave the tale of each step of the journey, plus what we did to prepare for the birth.

I am so passionate about rewriting the narrative around birth. I believe birth can be the portal to a woman's deepest feminine power, a blueprint that lasts her whole life (and the baby's!).

This is a great listen for anyone who is pregnant or considering a home birth.

• 0:00 - Who we are and why we chose a home birth
• 4:00 - The juicy way my labor started (literally!)
• 10:00 - The power of primal sounds in labor
• 15:00 - When it got challenging through transition
• 18:12 - Realizing "F*** good girl, that part will not get you through this birth"
• 25:35 - The baby is born! One big contraction
• 27:10 - Brief scare when baby didn't breathe right away
• 30:00 - Birthing the placenta, skin-to-skin after birth
• 34:04 - The two most helpful things I did to prepare for birth
• 39:14 - How partners can cultivate trust in birth
• 41:00 - Final reflections