Escape From Crazytown

Hi YouTube Family! Today I want to talk about the supply that never leaves the narcissist or the supply that always takes the narcissist back. This is an empty and tortured existence for anyone. So, why would anyone do this? What in the world are they thinking to take the narcissist back again and again, only to be discarded or devalued each time? If you find yourself wishing that the narcissist would come back to you but they have made you feel worthless, why are you wishing they would come back? These are questions you must ask yourself in order to free yourself from the bond that tethers you to abuse.

#SupplyThatNeverLeaves

#ForeverSupply

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#NarcissisticSupply

Hi YouTube Family! Today I want to talk about what happens when the narcissist’s supplies talk to each other. There comes a time after discard when the new supply may want to talk to the old supply (or the new ex wants to talk to the first or previous ex). Oh, it would be so amazing to be able to compare notes and see if the narcissist has done the same things to other exes. We think this will be healing. And sometimes it can be. But beware, there are drawbacks to contacting past exes and also to talking to the newest ex supply. However in the best cases, you can get some validation. In this video I want to discuss how to be cautious and why we should be cautious.

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#WhenNewSupplyContactsOldSupply

#NewSupplyAndOldSupplyTalk

#ComparingNotesOnTheNarcissist

Hi YouTube Family! Today I wanted to talk about how being with a narcissist is different from being with other people. There are good relationships out there, but sometimes they don’t seem as colorful as the relationship with the narcissist. There is a pitfall to the color in a narcissist’s life. Unlike us, they are stagnant like a portrait. They don’t want to grow and can’t handle the changes that come with relationships with real people. They want things to remain the same, the same as when they first fell for you. But life changes and people grow. So what happens to the narcissist when faced with this?

#HappyCrappyHour

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#PeopleChange

#NarcissistVsPeople

Hi YouTube Family! Today, I want to talk about if you are wondering if you are the narcissist and if you were all that was wrong in your relationship. Well, you’ve probably been accused by the narcissist enough that you have begun to believe it. Well, there is good news. There’s something you can do about this horrible feeling you have in your gut, this fear that you may be a narcissist.

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#AmItheNarcissist

#AmIaNarcissist

#WhatIfIAmANarcissist

Hi YouTube Family! Today I was really concerned about talking about this topic with you guys, because it might be too soon. If you are pining for the narcissist you might not want to broach this topic just yet. But revealing the truth about physical intimacy with the narcissist may set you free from some of the chains that still bind you to the narcissist. And that’s what I want to do… Set you free from any lies you believe about them or yourself. #EscapeFromCrazytown

#HumorInHealing

#HappyCrappyHour

#SexAndTheNarcissist

Hi YouTube Family and Podcast Family! Today I want to talk about what happens when the new supply tries to leave the narcissist. That’s right. Just like everyone else, the narcissist will either discard them or they will try to leave. The narcissist has extra incentives to try and keep the new supply. If you were ever the new supply, you may have experienced this. Even though the relationship may look heavenly to outsiders, it’s still a horror show on the inside. So, what is the new supply dealing with? The same thing you did when you tried to leave. The narcissist will pull out all the stops to try and get the supply to stay. And then what happens after the supply stays? Does the narcissist miraculously change? Well, the short answer is NO. But let’s explore…

#LeavingTheNarcissist

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#DiscardingTheNarcissist

#WhenTheNewSupplyDiscards

Hi fellow escapees! Today I want to talk about trust, because so many viewers have commented that they want to know how to trust again. After all the abuse we endured from the narcissist, we still want to be able to trust again. That’s because we are wired for relationship and relationship requires trust. The narcissist or abuser destroys our trust in others as well as our trust in ourselves (our ability to trust our own judgement). And this will affect our future relationships! So, how do we trust again? We learn from our experience with the narcissist. Don’t waste the lessons. Looking back we can learn what their ploys were, so we can identify others who aren’t worthy of our trust, and we can identify our vulnerabilities. That is what will help us from falling for the ploys of other abusers. We will be able to identify who we can trust and who we can’t. And we will be able to trust our own judgement again!

#TrustAndTheNarcissist

#TrustingTheNarcissist

#BrokenTrust

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#TrustingYourselfAgain

Hi YouTube Family! Today I want to talk about what happens when the narcissist wants to remain connected to you. Remember that you are not responsible for them! You’re not responsible for their happiness, comfort, or finances. Don’t be pulled back in. It’s ok to say NO. The word NO will be your friend when it comes to toxic people.

Hi YouTube Family! Something went wrong this morning and I couldn’t see anyone’s comments. When I tried to fix this the video cut off, so I did record another live stream right after. This is the continuation of our Happy Crappy Hour # 13: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eggbG…

Hi fellow escapees! Today I want to talk about what it’s like living with a narcissist. At first the supply can’t wait to move in together as the narc insists how amazing it will be. But little by little, the supply’s world becomes darker and darker. They won’t know what hit them until they are either suddenly discarded or they have no self esteem left and can’t muster the strength to leave. If you never had to live with a narcissist, be thankful that you dodged the 24/7 abuse cycle.

#LivingWithNarcissists

#MarriedToNarcissists

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#LivingInNarcissistHell