Escape From Crazytown

Hi YouTube Family! This morning I woke up with an urgent message for you. The message has to do with the time capsule you are living in. Someone once said, “Get busy living or get busy dying.” I want you to know that every day we are drawing closer to death. Wow, what a positive message, right? Well, it is, because you need to remember that we have a limited time here and get yourself motivated to make some good choices for the rest of your life! Filling that time capsule with more hateful thoughts, bitterness, and hopelessness only buries you.

You can’t control what someone else does, but you can control how you react. So start making beautiful choices that will allow you to live a beautiful life. Start forgiving others and forgiving yourself. Or you will stay in that time capsule and be buried with it at the end of your life. The choice is yours.

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Hi YouTube Family and Podcast Family, today I want to talk about what happens when we run into our ex narcissistic friend/lover/spouse around town or at a gathering. It’s so unexpected and you could find yourself thrown back into an emotional spin. I hope that we can get to the stage where it won’t affect us at all, and it can happen. But until then, what do we do and how can we prepare?

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Hi YouTube Family and Podcast Family! Today, I want to talk about what marriage with a narcissist looks like. There are many disaster stories out there about the abuse to the spouse, children, and pets. But the biggest misconception about marriage to the narcissist is that you can change them. Ignoring the red flags before marriage could lead to years of abuse and devastation. Some people manage to get out or were discarded after decades of marriage. Although it may not seem like a blessing at the time, it is. It’s like having a life sentence reduced to time served and then being pardoned. You’re free to leave. But like many who leave prison after decades served, you may feel lost and unsure how to manage in the world without the familiar prison walls. As daunting as that may seem, staying in prison for the rest of your life would be worse. After seeing some marriages last 15+ years and even until death do they part, I have come to realize that marriage to a narcissist can last a long time, but there are high costs to your mental, physical, and emotional health. It’s a life sentence I wouldn’t wish on anyone.Check out the website! http://escapefromcrazytown.com #EscapeFromCrazytown #MarriageAndTheNarcissist #NarcissistMarriage #MarriedToANarcissist Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Escape-from-Crazytown-271593983630499

Hi YouTube Family and Podcast Family! Today we talked about how to use anger to motivate us. It happens. We’re going to get angry and even resentful. Well, don’t let those feelings damage you further. Use those feelings to get you going, moving, exercising, focused on success!

We also talked about a documentary done by Dateline about a blazing narcissist, called “Dirty John”. It’s the story of how John Meehan manipulated and used women and men throughout his life. It’s absolutely eye opening, how depraved the mind of a narcissist is. And the scary thing for us, is that they live fairly normally among us. Of course many are turned off by them, but their victims are given special treatment and bombarded (love bombed) with affection and attention to confuse and manipulate them.

The biggest lesson in that documentary is to know how lucky you are that you had escaped.

Topic 1: In Difficulty Lies Opportunity

Topic 2: Outlive the Narcissist! Use your anger for good.

Topic 3: Dirty John (the John Meehan story)

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Hi YouTube & Podcast Family! My computer is acting up, so I’m making a video off the cuff with my phone today. I want to share with you a few things that had me laughing out loud! One of those things is Bill Cosby. I hope you’ll find this eye opening as you hear a fine example of narcissistic grandiosity. I can’t stop laughing!

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Happy Crappy Valentine’s Day everyone! I am sending you love today (and every day) whether you want it or not! I know that for many, today is a terribly painful day. It was for me for several years. But I have decided to start new traditions and create new memories that will override those bad memories, until today becomes just another good day. :o)

I didn’t mention this on the video, but I’m thinking to buy the discounted Valentines gifts tomorrow and start distributing them to friends and family (and maybe strangers) this weekend! I’ll let you know how that goes. I hope that you are feeling loved and know that I’m in your corner. I was so glad and honored to spend this day with some of you on this live stream. It’s already making Valentine’s Day much better for me! I hope that your spirits are lifted and you get some joy and hope today as you listen to this live stream!

Topic 1: Don’t respond to Hoovering!

Topic 2: Image vs. Reality (The Shining)

Topic 3: Stop comparing and competing on Valentine’s Day!

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Hi YouTube & Podcast Family! Today I want to talk about why the narcissist marries the new supply immediately after discarding you. It really sucks, but it happens so often with narcissists I wanted to make a video about it. It is shocking that narcissists will commit to such a degree with the new supply, but there are many unhealthy reasons they do. In this video we will examine several reasons they jump right into marriage less than a year after leaving you or after you’ve left them. It’s all insanity. Just be glad you got off of that crazy train. You might be jealous of the new supply or depressed that the narcissist didn’t marry you. But I”m here to tell you that you dodged a bullet and don’t have anything to be jealous of, even if it looks really great on social media and they’re rubbing your face in their fake happiness. Please know that it is fake as that’s the only life narcissists know.

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Topic 1: Ted Bundy tapes and other psychopaths

Topic 2: Change your thoughts and change your world

Topic 3: “Without Conscience, the Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us” by Robert D. Hare, PhD

Today we talked about changing our thoughts to change our world. The power of thought is what drives you towards success or defeat, healing or more wounding, happiness or hopelessness. So, I want to remind you to equip yourself with the most powerful tool and weapon you have, your mind!

Also, we talked about the psychopathic characteristics of a narcissist. The book I’m currently reading is “Without Conscience” by Robert D. Hare, PhD. I’ve read and heard that not all narcissists are psychopathic, but the more I read and learn about psychopaths, the more I am concerned about what makes a narcissist cross into that territory.

Listening to the Ted Bundy tapes on the Netflix series, he sounds like many narcissists we know; no accountability, victim blaming, self-sympathy after hurting others, fantasy vision of his own intelligence or how he thinks others see him. Uh… very crazy stuff when you think that the narcissists in your life behave just like this. Makes me think that we are soooo lucky when the narcissist discards us. Yes, please leave. It may take us a while to figure out what hit us, but we can recover. Whereas the narcissist will remain a narcissist, a perpetual victim and abuser.

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Today I want to continue talking about why you should not get back with the narcissistic ex. If you are still considering whether or not to take back the ex, don’t make that decision while sleeping with them. Don’t get in a physical relationship with them until you spend some time working on the relationship. If the ex isn’t a narcissist, you’ll be able to see clearly and make a wise decision. If the ex is a narcissist, they will press to get physical and you can then say good-bye to your sensibilities. Sex will only cloud your judgement and mask all kinds of problems.

If you need further convincing, just look at their patterns. If you pay attention, you’ll see the patterns of abusive behavior that caused your break up in the first place. Getting back with the narcissistic ex is always a bad idea. But if you don’t think so, watch this video and ask yourself if your ex exhibits any of these patterns.

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Expect a guilt trip when reject the narcissist’s bait: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhhMk…

Don’t get back with the narcissist! Trust your GUT!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-Guy…

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I want to talk about what the heck happened at Fyre Festival and the narcissistic crazy thinking that created such a disastrous event. It was such a spectacular fail that Netflix and Hulu both recently came out with documentaries detailing the huge scam that it was.

It takes a narcissistic deluded genius to fool so many people continually and to ignore all the warnings of epic failure. And yet… Billy McFarland convinced many to stay with him until the ship sank entirely. He compromised people’s sense of morality and charmed them into defrauding many. His employees were not able to stop him and were ultimately taken down with the ship. How is this possible? It is the power of a narcissist and their magical thinking. It is absolute Crazytown, but so enticing that people think they would be missing out on something great if they don’t follow. Such is the world of Billy McFarland and other narcissists we encounter in our lives.

In this video I point out narcissistic behaviors displayed by McFarland. He is the ideal charismatic, charming, motivational, conniving, yet ultimately incompetent narcissist. He will fail again and again, but he will take many down along the way as they fall for his scams. I don’t believe his story is over yet.

Recommended videos:

The Danger Behind A Narcissist’s Warped Reality: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hD6L-…

What is the Narcissist’s Mask? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VEEnx…

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