Escape From Crazytown

I want to help you see straight during the holiday season and any time you start to get nostalgic about the narcissist or toxic person in your life. I found Madea, Tyler Perry’s character, to be very helpful with a great message for you. You can see his whole video through the link below. I hope that this will help you stay strong when your mind wants to go back to the narcissist.

When a Narcissist Leaves It’s a Blessing In Disguise! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ya2Dk…

Stop Imagining Life is Perfect for the Narcissist and the New Supply https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mvl6q…

Should You Warn the New Supply? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l_nl8…

Madea video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTPzX…

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I want to talk about an article I recently read. It’s about a woman who was a teen lover of a famous much older filmmaker. Her story reads much like the supply of a narcissist. Although she thinks of him fondly, she has conflicting feelings about what happened to her in their relationship. This is how some victims end up if the narcissist or user was not overtly angry or abusive. The abuse is still there and it’s deceptive. The victim thinks they were loved and gets a twisted idea of what love is.

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Recently, a YouTube viewer asked if narcissists get worse with each new supply and that got me thinking… Yes. I think they do get worse. They get better at manipulation and it may seem like they are doing bigger and better things with the new supply, but that’s just the show. The show gets better, while the real relationship is getting set up for a much bigger fall. It seems inevitable.

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I want to talk about whether or not the narcissist suffers. The short answer is yes. Yes, they do suffer. They do have feelings. So how do they suffer? And what can we learn from them?

Real tools for healing after narcissistic abuse https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DRx-v…

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I want to talk about internet relationship coaching. I have seen some and thought they were great. They give insightful and effective tips to entice and keep your target’s interest. Wait… That sounds a little too familiar. Something seems off. Learning how your obsessive and insecure behaviors look to others can help you stop those behaviors. But being coached how to mask your obsession and insecurity with confident and playful behavior seems like setting a trap. But maybe that’s just me. Is it? In an age of quick fixes, I think we’ve forgotten that there’s no quick fix for deep issues. And if those deep issues aren’t dealt with, no amount of witty banter and sexy games will make a relationship last. I want to address these problems as we enter the age of artificial personality plastic surgery (APPS) or Personality Implants.

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I want to talk about why we become obsessed with the new supply and what to do about it. This obsession can take over your world, so we definitely need to control it. We become obsessed, because we want to find flaws and reasons why the narcissist left. We want answers, but we also want to see them fail. The thing is… we won’t get answers and we most likely won’t see them fail (at least not for a while). Many of us have been here and I want to share with you common feelings, experiences, and effective actions you can take.

Stop Imagining Life is Perfect for the Narcissist and the New Supply video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mvl6q…

Why the Narcissist’s New Supply is Doomed video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FT2w4…

If you like this video please subscribe to my channel and I will make more of these. I am not a licensed therapist. I am an observer and a lifelong learner. These videos are about my experiences and what I have learned from others. I learned about narcissism later in life and wish that I had had the terms and education to describe what I was experiencing first in childhood and then as an adult. All I knew was that it felt like Crazytown. That’s what my husband and I called the craziness of the narcissists in our life. You feel like you’re in some kind of alternate universe where right is wrong and wrong is right, where nothing is consistent other than the pain you’d feel after interacting with the narcissist. They also would take you on roller coaster rides with incredible highs and incredible lows. Such is their world. So to help people return to sanity, I decided to create this channel. Thank you for watching. I hope this helps you to find peace and sanity.

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#obsessedwiththenewsupply

I want to talk about the narcissist’s playbook. Why do our stories all sound so similar? Do they use a playbook? What kind of plays are in there? And what the heck, right? Well, I hope that we can collaborate to answer these questions and reveal what their plays are, so we’ll know how to spot them!

If you like this content please subscribe to my channel and my podcast and I will make more of these. I am not a licensed therapist. I am an observer and a lifelong learner. These videos are about my experiences and what I have learned from others. I learned about narcissism later in life and wish that I had had the terms and education to describe what I was experiencing first in childhood and then as an adult. All I knew was that it felt like Crazytown. That’s what my husband and I called the craziness of the narcissists in our life. You feel like you’re in some kind of alternate universe where right is wrong and wrong is right, where nothing is consistent other than the pain you’d feel after interacting with the narcissist. They also would take you on roller coaster rides with incredible highs and incredible lows. Such is their world. So to help people return to sanity, I decided to create this channel. Thank you for watching. I hope this helps you to find peace and sanity.

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https://pxhere.com/en/photo/1167606 zebras

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/1173465 dog looking at lake

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/1116888 polar bears

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/1418556 people on beach

I want to talk about why narcissists use words like soulmate or forever. We all know that they don’t mean these words. So, why do they say them or throw them around? It’s to get results. Narcissists are focused on results, but there is another reason they use these words. In this video I want to explore how and why they use words that have such intense meaning and could later betray you.

Those of us who believed these words know the devastation they can leave on our heart, making it so hard for us to recover. So, what can we do? We need to recognize when words and actions don’t line up and decide at that point what meaning we will give to the narcissist’s words. That’s how we get our power back.

If you like this content please subscribe to my channel and my podcast and I will make more of these. I am not a licensed therapist. I am an observer and a lifelong learner. These videos are about my experiences and what I have learned from others. I learned about narcissism later in life and wish that I had had the terms and education to describe what I was experiencing first in childhood and then as an adult. All I knew was that it felt like Crazytown. That’s what my husband and I called the craziness of the narcissists in our life. You feel like you’re in some kind of alternate universe where right is wrong and wrong is right, where nothing is consistent other than the pain you’d feel after interacting with the narcissist. They also would take you on roller coaster rides with incredible highs and incredible lows. Such is their world. So to help people return to sanity, I decided to create this channel. Thank you for watching. I hope this helps you to find peace and sanity.

48 Hours video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BKDQ…

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https://pxhere.com/en/photo/1456093 two pairs of shoes

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https://pxhere.com/en/photo/1233863 sleeping dog

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I want to talk about the insanity that is the narcissist’s world. When you are in it or trying to make sense of their world, you will drive yourself insane. That’s because they are not logical or rational. Their primary objective is self gratification at any cost. They need supply and if you are drawn into their world, you will realize that the relationship with them is not like normal relationships that grow and get deeper. So what do you do with that? You can either swim against the tide or ride the wave. I suggest you ride the wave, but don’t forget to swim for shore when the wave is done or you’ll be dragged out to sea.

If you like this content please subscribe to my channel and my podcast and I will make more of these. I am not a licensed therapist. I am an observer and a lifelong learner. These videos are about my experiences and what I have learned from others. I learned about narcissism later in life and wish that I had had the terms and education to describe what I was experiencing first in childhood and then as an adult. All I knew was that it felt like Crazytown. That’s what my husband and I called the craziness of the narcissists in our life. You feel like you’re in some kind of alternate universe where right is wrong and wrong is right, where nothing is consistent other than the pain you’d feel after interacting with the narcissist. They also would take you on roller coaster rides with incredible highs and incredible lows. Such is their world. So to help people return to sanity, I decided to create this channel. Thank you for watching. I hope this helps you to find peace and sanity.

Images for video:

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/440 ferris wheel

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/804618 roller coaster

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/1049415 swing ride

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/681909 ferris wheel at night

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/20620 circular cage

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/816819 kitten

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/453248 happy dog

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I want to talk about what happens when two narcissists get together. It is really a sight to see. The most interesting thing to me is when an overt narcissist is attracted to a covert narcissist. Oh boy! So many mind games get played, it is like multi plot twists inside a movie. I’m not sure that many witness this up close, but if you have been up close to one, I would love to hear about your experience.

It definitely is total Crazytown. And the truth is never what you’d expect. And definitely not what the narcissists expected.

If you like this content please subscribe to my channel and my podcast and I will make more of these. I am not a licensed therapist. I am an observer and a lifelong learner. These videos are about my experiences and what I have learned from others. I learned about narcissism later in life and wish that I had had the terms and education to describe what I was experiencing first in childhood and then as an adult. All I knew was that it felt like Crazytown. That’s what my husband and I called the craziness of the narcissists in our life. You feel like you’re in some kind of alternate universe where right is wrong and wrong is right, where nothing is consistent other than the pain you’d feel after interacting with the narcissist. They also would take you on roller coaster rides with incredible highs and incredible lows. Such is their world. So to help people return to sanity, I decided to create this channel. Thank you for watching. I hope this helps you to find peace and sanity.

Images for video:

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/542232 island dinosaur skull

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/131272 horses

https://pxhere.com/en/photo/36000 people watching fireworks

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