Hi YouTube Family! A subscriber asked me to do a video on what happens to the narcissist’s fan club. I have some experience with this as I’ve watched narcissists go through fan clubs and flying monkeys almost like they do their romantic supply. Remember, the fan club is supply for the narcissist. If you’ve ever been hurt by the fan club, know that you are not alone. And yes, the fan club meets their Karma, too.

#NarcissistFanClub

#NarcissistFlyingMonkeys

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#FanClubKarma

Hi YouTube Family, today I want to talk about why we feel like we need the narcissist. We have to face the glorious truth that we don’t actually NEED them! Yes! When we can release that feeling of NEED, we can release the rest of the lies we believed about the narcissist. SO, what are those lies? Let’s examine those and release them today.

Hi YouTube Family! Sometimes we need a reminder that narcissists suck. Yes, even I need that reminder. It’s because after a few months or years of no contact we start to feel normal again and thoughts of the narcissist will diminish as well as the abuse we suffered. It’s good that we forget the abuse, but we have to remember that it was abuse and we should not become nostalgic about the good times. Or we will be tempted to get back with the narcissist or break no contact. We have to stay rooted in reality. So, how do we remind ourselves? By watching videos like this and reading the comments! We will be quickly reminded of our own experiences with the narcissist and find focus again.

#NarcissistsSuck

#StayNoContact

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#NarcReminders

#RemindMe

Hi YouTube Family! Today I want to talk about the hoover. That’s when the narcissist tries to feel you out and suck you back in to a relationship. It can also be when they are just testing to see if you are available or still susceptible to their manipulation. Be careful not to fall for this. Don’t dip your toe back in that pool just to check it out, don’t open the door even a little to take a peek. If you are still feeling nostalgic about the narcissist, you are not ready to look or reply to them. You have to be solid in your commitment to keep them out of your life. Because the hoover could happen even 10 or more years down the road. So long as they think you are leaving that door open, they will try to come back in when they find themselves destitute or lonely… or even just bored. Be careful.

#hoovering#EscapeFromCrazytown#narcissisticabuse#NarcissistBait

Hi YouTube Family! Today I want to talk about why we might feel like we’re a target for narcissists. Some say it’s because we’re empaths or that we have something the narcissist wants. That’s absolutely true. But why do we feel like they are zeroing in on us, how do they know to target us, and why do we fall for them? These are the questions I want to explore.

For even more discussion on this topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WBg2J…

Hi YouTube Family! Happy Thursday! Thank you for joining me! I love live streaming with you guys! If you didn’t make it today, we are on every week on Thursday at 11AM EST.

My Crappy this week was that I looked side to side. What that means it that I compared myself and my life to those around me. Never a good idea. We are all on our own journey and when we get distracted by looking side to side, instead of forward, we become susceptible to comparing ourselves and discouraging ourselves. Not a good idea. So, I’m going to work at cutting that out.

My happy was treating myself to a night out watching ET (yes, the movie) with the live philharmonic playing all the music as the movie played. It was a great experience! I highly recommend you do this in your city. Look up your philharmonic company and see if they do shows like this. I know they do this with Star Wars in some cities. So cool!

Well, the lesson today was on how or why narcissists target us and why we fall for them. I give two major reasons and some scenarios to help you understand how this plays out. A lot of people have said that they were happy, healthy, or doing well before the narcissist entered their life. So, how is it that the narcissist was able to capture us?

#NarcissistTarget

#FallingForANarcissist

#WhoTheNarcissistTargets

#EscapeFromCrayztown

Since the Chris Watts FBI confession is nearly 5 hours long, I condensed it down to several key points in this video focusing on settling many of the disagreements and questions over the Chris Watts case.

To hear the entire audio confession go here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dy-7l…

To read the entire confession transcript go here: https://s3.amazonaws.com/cordillera-n…

#ChrisWatts

#ChrisWattsAudioConfession

#ChrisWattsFBIConfession

#ChrisWattsAudio

Yikes! I was accidentally streaming in private mode earlier, so that video is now uploaded for the topic I wanted to discuss today. It is about the most effective and efficient tool that the narcissist uses: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=95LDR… Go ahead and watch that video and please comment on it, because I want to share our stories to help educate each other to their tactics. On this live stream we talked about what to do if you’re going through a divorce with the narcissist and also how to find good/healthy relationships/friends after narcissistic abuse. And what those relationships might look like. #EscapeFromCrazytown

#DivorcingANarcissist

#HealthyRelationshipsAfterNarcissisticAbuse

#AfterNarcissisticAbuse

Apparently, I forgot to set this to live streaming and was just live recording in private setting. Ha! Well, I think this information is too important not to post, so I will deal with the embarrassment of streaming alone and post this anyway. Haha! Please comment below, because I think it’s really important we share our experiences to help educate each other to the tactics and manipulations of the narcissist.

Once I figured out that this was not live streaming for our Happy Crappy Hour, I went ahead and started a new Happy Crappy Hour. So, that is also posting to YouTube today: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKk3f… (Happy Crappy Hour #9) Boy, I’m all talked out. Love you guys!

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#HappyCrappyHour

#NarcissistToolOfChoice

#NarcissistTools

Hi YouTube Family and Podcast Family! Today I want to talk about wanting to act on our anger towards the narcissist. After we realize what the narcissist has done to us (the lying, cheating, degrading, gas lighting, smearing, etc.) we will first feel hurt, but then the anger will come. What the heck? We didn’t deserve this! We become so angry and start to hate them for what they did. We want to let them and the world know what they are. And rightly so. But be careful that your anger and hate don’t consume you. There is a healthy way to deal with this and the narcissist will hate it.

#EscapeFromCrazytown

#HatingTheNarcissist

#NarcissisticAbuse

#WhyHate