Salty and sweet are flavor profiles that play well together, both in the culinary world and in a spiritual-relational aspect.
It’s important that we speak the truth, and that we speak it in love. Both are needed. So how do we do that?
We need to be feasting on truth - eating the words, so to speak - that the Lord gives us to know what is truth.
“The wise of heart is called discerning, and sweetness of speech increases persuasiveness. Good sense is a fountain of life to him who has it, but the instruction of fools is folly. The heart of the wise makes his speech judicious and adds persuasiveness to his lips. Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.” - Proverbs 16:21-24
As we know and love God through His word, our palate is developed for truth, our discernment grows, and our ability to speak truth lovingly is increased.
“How sweet are your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth! Through your precepts I get understanding; therefore I hate every false way.” - Psalm 119:103-104
As Christ-followers, we have the job of glorifying Him, of pointing others to Him, with our words. Therefore, our words need to be truth-rooted and love-driven. By necessity, those words will be different from the language of the world.
“You are the salt of the earth, but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people's feet. “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.” - Matthew 5:13-16
We have to live THE truth, and we also have to speak it.
It’s important to note, our job as Christians is not just “be nice.” All we say should be truthful and should point to Jesus. AND it should be kind - in the eternal sense. In a world where we have elevated niceness to a near-religion (or at least elevated affirmation of all opinions in such a way that we are unwilling to cause disagreement if it might cause offense), it’s important to have a biblical understanding of God’s call for us: truth, and love in the eternally-focused sense, are more important than “nice.”
Colossians tells us to, “Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” - Colossians 4:5-6
And yet, speaking the truth IS the loving way to interact with those we care about - and God has called us to care and to speak.
Jesus told His followers they would experience not just offense, but persecution. And yet, He still said, “follow me.”
When it comes to saying hard things, to speaking the truth from a place of love, I think we’re called to be both sweet AND salty.
In your kitchen this week, try a little honey on your cheese, Tajin on your papaya… maybe even salt on your watermelon. Or come visit our little coffee shop at Camp Bethel and I’ll make you a salted honey tea latte. ;)
Find the full show notes here (and download the free scripture art!)
Resources:
- See episode 11 and episode 12 foe more on studying the Bible.
- Revive Our Hearts - Seasoned With Salt
- Grace To You - Commentary on Colossians 4
- Got Questions - Why do we “Let Our Words Be Seasoned…”
These recipes are on my to-try-list:
Orange Almond Honey Cake from May I Have That Recipe
Orange Salted Honey Cake (oh my!) from The Cake Blog
Gluten Free Honey Cake from At the Immigrant’s Table