I'm going to take you back to 2018, I was a fresh face in Australia and believe it or not, I was far more out of control than I am now. Long story short, I end up in an Uber on the way home telling a very cooked story, and before you know it I'm going viral on every social media platform on the 'Funny Uber Rides' channel.

Funny Uber Rides is run by the legend himself, Darren Levy and the name pretty much sums it up: he drives Uber, has cameras set up and he posts his funny Uber rides. Over the years has amassed over 1 million Youtube subscribers, 1.5million followers on Tik Tik, over 100K on instagram and over 100 million views on youtube alone.

Darren and I discuss his journey of how he went from a matress salesman, to a Youtube and social media sensation. We deleve deep into how having an online platform can affect your mental health, and the good and the bad of going viral.

But of course we ask the juicy questions too, like has Darren ever hooked up with a passenger?

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If you're gonna talk the talk, you'd better have walked the walk. And by walk I mean have had the most outrageously good sex.

OG listeners will know who Mr Grey is, and well, I have done the impossible and convinced him to come on the podcast to break down exactly how we had the best sex straight off the bat on the first night we met (and for the following the 6 months).

People are so quickly judged, males especially, on their skills in the bedroom, but the reality is if you haven't been in a long-term relationship how the hell would you know what to do? It's a taboo subject and many find that if you are to go out and learn how to be better at sex, this is weird. Spoiler alert, it's not weird at all, it's one of the best things you can do for yourself and for future partners.

Mr Grey talks about his journey and the troubles he had in the bedroom before meeting Andrew Mioch who is a sex coach and author of 'The Best She Ever Had'  that helped him change his sex life forever.

We delve into everything that made our sex life amazing + tips, tricks and everything in between of how you can improve your sex life from a male and female perspective.

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Covid, Covid, Covid, it's blasted all over your social media feeds and all over your tv screens, but are you getting all of the information? Patrick Holdford says no.

Patrick has spent 40 years studying health and what helps people reclaim it – not with drugs, but with a good, healthy diet, lifestyle and natural remedies. He's discovered drug-free solutions for staying free from diabetes, heart disease, some cancer, Alzheimer’s and other, what Patrick says, are preventable diseases.

I originally found out about Patrick from one of his books - Chemistry Of Connection
that was published in 2016, but we discuss the importance of the messages in this book that are relevant in the times we’re living in now by staying connected socially, mentally and spiritually.

Patrick has been around the pharmaceutical industry for many years and to say that he has had run-ins with them would be a bit of an understatement. We delve into how pharmaceutical companies are run, in terms of incentives for doctors to prescribe medicines, marketing, medical training and journals and research.

After Patrick criticised major profitable drugs, he was burgled, followed and photographed and was also the victim of attempted character assassination. He details how this all happened, and what's did that rocked the pharmaceutical boat as such.

Patrick has long studied the effects of using high dose Vitamin C to treat a variety of conditions and viruses. This isn't just in relation to Covid but started back in the 80's during the HIV/AIDS epidemic. We discuss his research of vitamin C to help increase T-cell counts which in other words, stops HIV from turning into AIDS.

We discuss his research of treating covid patients with early treatments of high dose vitamin C as Patrick states "Vitamin C is a safe, inexpensive and highly effective anti-viral nutrient in the right amount, both for prevention of colds, reducing duration and severity, and for the treatment of COVID-19 in the acute phase with life-saving potential. Yet it is classified as ‘fake information’, not recommended by governments and rarely prescribed by doctors."

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Patrick's VitaminC4Covid

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After Teri received a false-positive test result for HIV in 2022 and thought this was her reality for over 6 weeks, she learnt so much about what living with this virus would look like... And it certainly was not all of the initial thoughts that were running through her head.

After that experience and gaining the knowledge that she did, she knew her work wasn't finished and there was still more that could be done to help people who are living with HIV end the stigma and the misconceptions about what it means today.

Steph was diagnosed with HIV in 2020 and has recently become public with her status. She is a 25-year-old woman who contracted HIV from her ex-boyfriend.

We talk about her initial diagnosis, how she felt throughout this experience, the way she navigated telling her friends and family, what her life looks like now living with HIV, and most importantly, how she can NEVER transmit HIV to anyone else with the medication she is on.

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When you're a child, your mind is like a sponge, every piece of information you're told you are absorbing. If your parents, family and community tell you something, especially messaging that is consistently pushed on to you, you take it as truth, that is your truth.

This is exactly what happened to Nicole. It was normal for her to not have relationships with anyone outside of the community, or 'Worldlies' as outsiders would be referred to as.

Everything in Nicole's life was controlled in some way shape or form, even if she didn't realise this at the time. The media she could watch (or lack thereof), the people she spoke to, the way she dressed, the way she looked, her relationships, everything.

We delve deep into what it was like growing up in this community, sometimes referred to as the 'Two by Two's', the rituals, the structure of the community, the leaders, their beliefs, what it was like when she left the community + a whole lot more.

Nicole then opens up about the transition into 'normal' life and the struggles that came with this and how she has managed to turn this into an incredible business venture to help other people get past obstacles in their lives.

TW: Domestic violence.

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Sean O'Carroll is a Psychotherapist with experience in psychedelic psychotherapy, eco-psychotherapy and he also specialises in bad trip integration. He is a Senior Consultant to the Monash University Psychedelic Team and also consults with St Vincent's Hospital Mental Health team.

Sean details the difference between going to a GP/mainstream methods to help with a variety of different mental health issues in comparison to the work that he does and we also discuss how often, it's the mainstream methods that suppress symptoms rather than finding the root of the cause.

Teri details the experiences she's had with anxiety and how the medicine her Dr prescribed only made things worse by completely numbing her to all emotions, even the good ones.

Sean talks about all of the research that is currently being done in Australia to help legalise these treatments and other research that's been done around the world and what the process is to getting accepted into one of these studies.

A few years ago Teri had a psychedelic experience that helped her completely heal from something that happened in her childhood and mend a broken family relationship and asks Sean if this is similar to the work that he does.

We go into a variety of different mental health topics including the study of using  MDMA to help treat PTSD and how this works, PLUS a whole lot more!

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2021... The year things were meant to start looking up, but BOY OH BOY was I wrong. 

This is the story of how Teri got covid and ended up in the hospital... But would it even be the Fair Bit Going On Podcast if there weren't a few rollercoasters along the way? 

We talk about the whole journey of the initial symptoms, what they turned into, what happens when you test positive and what happens when you end up in hospital with COVID-19. 

If Covid wasn't bad enough, she ends up in the next hospital room from a guy she had been banging recently and it ended badly with, she gets pneumonia in her lung, she has heart issues that the Dr's can't get to the bottom of, and to top it all off she ends up with a psycho stalker that claims to live in her building and calls one of her clients to tell them not to work with her anymore because SHE BREAKS LOCKDOWN RULES.

Buckle up it's a journey.

This entire episode is an absolute roller coaster of a journey from start to end. Frank and Teri first met back when she was still living in NZ, a place that is far from progressive in terms of a lot of the population not accepting members of the LGBTQIA+ community and them being the target of bullying in person and online.

Coming out and being the person you truly are is hard enough, let alone when you face the fear of your own Christian family not accepting you and you're living in a country that your community is regularly discriminated against. 

Frank, AKA Gabrielle Stone tells the story of how this all happened for him, from hiding this from Teri when they lived together and they relive the moment they saw each other when Gabby was dressed in drag and they reunited for the first time in years in none other than... you guessed it Revs Smokers.

There is so much more to the art of being a Drag Queen than meets the eye and Gabby breaks down the stereotypes and also the misconceptions about what being a drag queen means to him.

It would be off-brand if we didn't throw in a few good sex stories and also some blow job tips, humming on a dick, say what?

In the end, the pair bond over something that they had no idea they had both gone through and get a bit deep about the emotions they felt when they realised they lived through the same traumatic experience.

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WHAT THE FUCK IS DATING IN 2021? TERI DOES NOT FUCKING KNOW, OBVIOUSLY. 

But, what she does know is how to not to give a fuck about the stupid shit that DOES NOT MOTHER FUCKING MATTER.

So this one time, in the last 4 years, Teri tried to date... and it ended up in her getting attacked, her hair pulled (without her getting horny) and she didn't even left-right good night someone?

There has been a Fair Bit Going On, not only including Teri trying to date,  but getting attacked by a 'friend' of said guy who she is 'dating', taking mushrooms with a stranger, not going home for 3 days, but then managing to turn this shitty situation into a positive, and giving tips on how to focus on the shit that really matters.

This episode is about how she has figured out how to not sweat the small shit in life and how she gets over not only dating the wrong guys, but also just general shit that should not matter.

We cry, and that's okay, it's okay to be sad and upset about something, we are all human, but it's what we do after that matters. We cry, we eat some apple pie, we go take mushrooms with random boys (okay maybe don't do that) but the main point is - we don't fuck out our feelings.

For a long time, I was scared to express who I really was, I cared too much about what other people thought of me, but that all changed, and I'm going to teach you just how to not give a fuck about what people think you of, just like yours truly.

xoxo Teri Girl

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How do I not fuck with every guy that I start talking to, you know, not signing them up to fake joke of the day subscription services,  getting locksmiths off Tinder to fix letterboxes, sending a guy to climb up onto my neighbour's roof etc etc? These are the questions I so desperately seek the answers to.

After the traumatic experience I went through, I decided I wanted to stop being an asshole to every guy I talk to, but where the fuck do I start? The answer was to get my dear friend Brum on the podcast and to give me some training lessons on how to date properly.

We talk about all of the unanswered questions from the last episode, including what happened to the 'Pod Before Rod Guy' I had to call and give the HIV news to,  what happened when he listened to the podcast, am I still talking to him, and was there anything else wrong with me after the final test results came back? 

Although this episode is a lot more light hearted than the last, we do go deep into mental health and the importance of checking in on your mates with more than just asking if they're okay. After convincing everyone in my life I was okay for so long when in reality I was at rock bottom, how can you properly check in on someone even if they tell you they are doing good?

Although my results were a false positive, we talk about what it is like living with HIV in this day and age, the medication that's now available and the latest research that has been done.

TW - mental health and suicide.