Matthew 16:24–28
Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me (follow after me - CSB), let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake (because of me - CSB) will find it. For what will it profit (benefit - CSB) a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul (loses his life -CSB)? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul (in exchange for his life -CSB)? For the Son of Man is going to come with his angels in the glory of his Father, and then he will repay (reward- CSB) each person according to what he has done. Truly, I say to you, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the Son of Man coming in his kingdom.” (ESV)
Mark 8:34–9:1
And calling the crowd to him with his disciples, he said to them, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospel's will save it. For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul? For what can a man give in return for his soul? For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation, of him will the Son of Man also be ashamed when he comes in the glory of his Father with the holy angels.” And he said to them, “Truly, I say to you, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the kingdom of God after it has come with power.” (ESV)
Luke 9:23–27
And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it. For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses or forfeits himself? For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words, of him will the Son of Man be ashamed when he comes in his glory and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels. But I tell you truly, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the kingdom of God.” (ESV)
The Call, Cost & Crown of Discipleship
INTRODUCTION
Let me begin by showing you a couple pictures of the church where we have been serving in England the past 14 years….Bridgeway Church in Manchester…And these are my friends and co-elders Adam and Danny who the Lord has raised up to Lead the church as they send me back to Boise….Please do keep them all in prayer for the sake of the gospel in Manchester
If you are visiting or weren’t around last Sunday morning, the church is in a series in the Bible book of 1 Corinthians, which will be continued next week. Last week Pastor Jason very helpfully showed us that even though in our culture today we don’t typically bow down to physical status and idols, our whole life is surrounded by things that we trust in and sacrifice our time for, things like money, sports, and even our marriages that we often expect to fulfill us in the same way that the Bible tells us only God through Jesus Christ can.
THE BIG QUESTION
I’d like to play off that idea this morning and ask you a couple questions before I read the bit of the Bible that I want to look at….So, here are a couple questions for everyone, whether you are a regular member, attender or even someone just visiting church this morning:
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO BE REALLY HAPPY IN LIFE?
Instantly some things should be popping into your head. Maybe some things like a little vacation, etc.
It’s strange, because of the season we are in, in our family life, I find myself confronted with all these possibilities all at once in a way I’ve never experienced before…and for that reason I’m so grateful to look at God’s word
Or, here’s another and maybe even more stark and clarifying way to put our question to meet us this morning:
WHAT MEANS SO MUCH TO YOU THAT IT IS WORTH DYING FOR?
Some of you might think, nothing! I don’t want to die for anything! Or more likely, the list gets a little smaller, like “my wife, my kids” or “My country and freedom” - these seem to be the two that we are willing to die for….if we have to.
It’s possibly not a normal thing for us to wake up each day of our lives and think, “What am I willing to die for today?” But in reality, by pursuing whatever we believe will make us ultimately happy, we are in fact saying we will live and die for it. So, in order to help us figure out if what we SO think will make us happy is worth even being willing to die for it…let’s look at some words of Jesus in the Gospel of Matthew, chapter 16, verses 24-28.
Before we read I have to confess that I’m aware this could be quite a blunt passage and a direct introduction to choose this as my preaching passage today. But, I suppose if I am a candidate as a pastor of discipleship, then revisiting Jesus’ call to discipleship is a good place to start, even if it is a little uncomfortable….So, let’s read the words of Jesus:
Matthew 16:24-28 Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul? For the Son of Man is going to come with his angels in the glory of his Father, and then he will repay each person according to what he has done. Truly, I say to you, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the Son of Man coming in his kingdom.” (ESV)
To understand this fully, we need to see what’s happening around it in the story of Jesus’ life. A few weeks again, Pastor Trent helpfully preached from this same gospel on the prelude to the beginning of Jesus’ public ministry. He was led by the Holy Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted and tested. And the focus of that test was Jesus’ identity as the Son of God. Was he really God’s special son and did he need to prove that to Satan? Of course he passed this test with flying colors without bowing to the devil’s games, and the rest of his ministry in the gospel could be described as miraculous events, profound teaching, and confrontation with religious leaders as he lived out his true identity as the true Son of God. But around him, underneath the surface there was still a continuing and growing buzz asking the question…WHO IS THIS?
In light of this, as the questions around his identity crescendo, Jesus puts his disciples on the spot and in verses 13 -17 of this same chapter 16, and asks them…
Matthew 16:13-17 Now when Jesus came into the district of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” And they said, “Some say John the Baptist, others say Elijah, and others Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” He said to them, “But who do you say that I am?” Simon Peter replied, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” And Jesus answered him, “Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in heaven….
Who are people saying I am….and more importantly….WHO DO YOU SAY I AM?
So, our pre-question to the big question of our text today is Who is Jesus? This in and of itself is a massively important starting point.
Peter in all his typical boiling zeal bursts out that Jesus is THE CHRIST. The Christ means the anointed one chosen by God to do his will and purpose.
Peter is an expectant Jew in the first century…and the disciples understanding was common to the Jews of the day. They were expecting a Christ, or a messiah to come and relieve them of the oppression of Rome. To be a political king, physically on the throne, ruling the Jews and the world form Jerusalem. You can almost see Peter and the others caught up with joy as Jesus confirms his identity, shouting “Yes we can” or cheering while wearing their “Make Israel Great Again” hats…
This is what they wanted and this is what they expected…And that is sort of how we can be with Jesus too. I’ve noticed as we’ve transitioned back to life in the USA that people in our amazing city are much more religious than where I’ve been living. Everyone seems to have some church background or at the very least some sort of appreciation or thought about Jesus. People are praying in coffee shops, going to church, and even having identifications with churches they go to a couple times a year. BUT a lot of it really does seem to centre on what Jesus can do for us. What Jesus can do to make us great. How can Jesus add to our lives….How will He make us
enjoy our most happy life and get all the goodies we want. WE AREN’T REALLY THAT DIFFERENT FROM THE DISCIPLES ARE WE? We want Jesus enthroned so he can give us what makes us happy.
Jesus was quite blunt with them though and said it straight..that is not his mission. Look at verses 21-23.
Matthew 16:21-23 From that time Jesus began to show his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things from the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and on the third day be raised. And Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him, saying, “Far be it from you, Lord! This shall never happen to you.” But he turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a hindrance to me. For you are not setting your mind on the things of God, but on the things of man.” (ESV)
Jesus makes it clear that his mission it to suffer and die on a cruel Roman cross. That All the mistaken expectations of a King like David to be the only way God’s plan could work are wrong… He will be a suffering and dying and humiliated man in the world’s eye in order to sacrifice his life for God’s glory and the forgiveness of sins for all who believe…He is a redeemer and not a life coach or a genie by any means at all. And this is where we get to a very intrusive Jesus saying the most awkward thing as he interrupts both the disciples and our understandings of what he is about and what it means to be a follower of him.
So let's read that again:
Matthew 16:24-28 Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul? For the Son of Man is going to come with his angels in the glory of his Father, and then he will repay each person according to what he has done. Truly, I say to you, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the Son of Man coming in his kingdom.” (ESV)
WOW….Just to get this straight. Jesus just went there. He just told people who seem really sincere in wanting to follow him a very strange thing. And et me make sure we get it. Jesus just said that if you want to follow him, you need to put your head on the chopping block, strap on your electric chair right now and be ready to die… because he is worth it. That’s sort of the equivalent. You’ve got to die continually, it’s going to be a life that is lived not for you, but for him and it’s going to feel like you are dying everyday. It reminds me of something that the German revolutionary theologian Diethrich Boehoffer said:
“The cross is laid on every Christian. The first Christ-suffering which every man must experience is the call to abandon the attachments of this world. It is that dying of the old man which is the result of his encounter with Christ. As we embark upon discipleship we surrender ourselves to Christ in union with his death—we give over our lives to death. Thus it begins; the cross is not the terrible end to an otherwise god-fearing and happy life, but it meets us at the beginning of our communion with Christ. When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.” - Dietrich Bonhoeffer
WHO IS HE SPEAKING TO
24 “Then Jesus told his disciples (and ALL)…if ANYONE”
This doesn’t seem nice. And by the way, while the text in Matthew tells us that Jesus is speaking to his disciples…to those that already follow him…The same story in Mark and Luke’s gospels say that Jesus spoke to the crowd and to everyone. So this isn’t some secret thing that you sort of try and break the news to people after they already are on the team. Jesus says to the disciples, the crowd, to ALL, to you and me today. This is my invitation, this is what it means to follow me.
I don’t know about you, but that is NOT the typical way that Jesus is presented to people. And if you are here this morning and just looking into Jesus, on one level I’m sorry, because it is very serious…on another level, aren’t you glad that Jesus doesn’t bait and switch you? Aren’t you glad that Jesus is real with us? Aren’t you glad that Jesus says that following him is going to be very very hard and dangerous….UP FRONT?! In our culture we sell each other on everything and often get disappointed later…But Jesus isn’t like that. He doesn’t move the goal posts…he has laid it all out there.
If Jesus isn’t the one chosen by God, if he is just some guy…this is very rude…I know. And if you aren’t yet a Christian, you are probably thinking, ok I respect his authenticity, but he is rude! Why would I want to follow anyone like that???
And for those of us that already are people who profess to follow Jesus, can we admit, that this kind of annoys us a little bit. Can we admit that a lot of times, we want to be free to enjoy our life instead of thinking about these seemingly morbid words about dying to follow him.
But if he is the chosen Son of God, the Christ, then he has every right to interrupt our pursuit of happiness and speak real to us. If he is really the summation of the all of God’s plans and purposes for the world, then he speaks with authority into our stories.
But there is something wonderful about the character of Jesus in this text.
While it’s blunt, Jesus actually is super gracious here….He shows us three reasons why it makes total sense to be interrupted by him and even die for him. Let’s examine the three elements in the text that Jesus says are apart of following him, and see why it actually makes sense. It’s the Call, the cost, and the crown of following Jesus:
The Call, the Cost & the Crown of following Jesus
Deny yourself instead of trying to save yourself - v.24-25
Living sacrificially instead of sacrificing your soul - v. 25-26
Playing the long game instead of instant gratification - v. 27-28
DENY YOURSELF INSTEAD OF TRYING TO SAVE YOURSELF (deny yourself - The call)
As we look at this first point, you have to remember that Jesus issues this as an invitation…No one is forcing you to consider following Him, but He is putting it out there…It’s like the famous but most likely mythical advertisement put into the newspaper by the English explorer Edward Shackleton as he looked for men for his Antarctic journey:
Whether or not this ad ever ran, we can agree, It is attractive and repelling at the same time. As it always is when a good leader calls anyone to allegiance to a mission of utmost importance.
Another quote from Bonhoeffer helps us see then when he said…” Great leaders have always demanded personal allegiance. King Arthur bound his knights to him by rigid vows. Giuseppe Garibaldi, nineteenth-century Italian patriot, offered his followers hunger, death, and Italy’s freedom. Sir Winston Churchill’s stirring speech in the House of Commons in 1940, is best remembered by the dramatic words: “I have nothing to offer but blood, toil, tears, and sweat.”
It’s these kind of men and callings that we are compelled by…we actually long for purpose like this. SO Jesus’ calling is attractive…
24 - “Deny Yourself”
But, even though we are curious and might start to consider going with Jesus, we are still more offended than anything else….There is a reason why I think this is the case. It’s not that He’s just saying we might not be able to have all the things that we think will make us happy in life…It’s bigger than that. look in verse 24…He actually says that we are the problem. That is just downright offensive and not acceptable in an age where we are told we have to celebrate everything about ourselves, others and everyone….
HE TELLS US TO DENY OURSELVES….WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? - TO RENOUNCE JUST LIKE WE WOULD THAT PERSON WHO WE DON’T WANT RELATED TO OUR LIFE AT ALL, who has betrayed us…We won’t stand by them…and we would be saying we don’t stand by ourselves….We RENOUNCE OURSELVES…
But this is necessary, because the heart of all the things we want to make us happy is that we are the center of them all. Our sense of self I don’t believe has ever been greater than currently. our SELF is all we have! Or all we think we can have….
This is what Jesus references here. Look at verse 25…he intimates that our lives are all about saving our lives, saving our selves….And we see this as the central pursuit of life all around us… This :
LOOKING FOR A BETTER YOU
The most recent iWatch advertisment plays on this…We could be a better version of ourselves, a disciplined with time, working out, healthy version…if we just get the iWatch! And we in all sorts of ways are looking for a better or accurate version of ourselves, so we can save ourselves and keep ourselves strong in a sense of who we are…. I see at least three ways we do this:
The science of self - The new evolution of ourselves as the projection of our brain…That is our true self in a solely naturalistic view of life….We are just like our phone screens, that is all we have and our only hope for salvation will be to someday project that information into another source…something scientists are readily working on. So ironically even though the the universe is said to be the most amazing thing and what we should wonder at, we get right back to me at the centre of the story…yes the universe is amazing, but all i really have is myself and I grip it even if it is a projection that is a product of mere chemicals and chance…
The medication of self - And this is where we really are offended in our current climate. We have rightly come to understand the working of out medically of things like mental health including depression, anxiety, addictions, birth order, personality, etc. We are furious to grasp our identity thinking that in that we will find some relief from the ails of our internal beings. But if that is the case why does our over-identifying simply seem to perpetuate the feelings we have. We are depressed and we know it and expect others to treat us appropriately, but it doesn’t actually make us feel any better…
The religion of self - This one is more subtle, but I expect may hit a nerve with us here this morning. Many church people will read this passage of Jesus’ words and think…YES that is what i am doing. With my church going, bible reading, prayer times, donations to various ministries…Look here, I am denying my self. BUT the question is are we. Or are we rather building a version of ourselves that we can look to and say LOOK, I am a good moral christian person. Some of us may actually have to renounce our religious pursuit as a type of self life…
But in all these ways, and more, we try to save ourselves, to build our identity and find our happiness in ourself whatever the expression of that…whether that be purposes we define, our perceived or real issues in life, or our efforts to be a good person… The issue in this is that we have not taken the first step of the gospel seriously…We have to renounce ourselves….We can’t make ourselves happy or be worthy of knowing or following Jesus and we must admit this. It’’s self-evident or else we wouldn’t need all these external things or ways in which we try to get happy….We can’t make ourselves happy no matter how much we try and he knows it. It’s like author Robert Capon says:
“Salvation is not some happy state to which we can lift ourselves by our own bootstraps after the contemplation of sufficiently good examples. It is an utterly new creation into which we are brought by our death in Jesus’ death and our resurrection in his. It comes not out of our own efforts, however well-inspired or successfully pursued, but out of the shipwreck of all human effort whatsoever… Death and resurrection are the key to the whole mystery of our redemption.” - Robert Capon
This attempt to save ourselves is the central pursuit of every single one of us on this planet at all times..And Yes I am trying to overstate this. We are trying to save our own lives….But if it were really making us happy would we have to make up purposes for our lives everyday, would we remain anxious and lonely, and would we be so worn out with all our religious efforts? Aren’t we tired of trying to save ourselves?
Jesus says we absolutely have to stop…because it won’t work and A life denying self makes more sense, because our self is the problem that makes us unhappy.
…he then tells us with crystal clear logic the first reason that supports his call in verse 25…
25 - “FOR whoever would save his life will lose it….”
The first of three “fors” or in the Greek “gar” (which means “for”) that Jesus ties together to mercifully show why we must renounce ourselves…
We need to renounce ourselves..Because we get lost in ourselves.
I had the opportunity this week to speak to a couple Boise High students about this passage. They needed a little explanation, but when they understood what Jesus was saying, one of them said it was very interesting and profound. He said it was a good message for young people because they get lost in the world today…Get lost in relationships, technology, looking for and prepping for college and life, drugs, alcohol and everything else….HOW TRUE FOR YOUNG PEOPLE AN EVERYONE ELSE
But, even If perhaps we could “succeed” for the most of our life to have what we would call as a happy life and a strong sense of self purpose and identity, the reality is that we will lose it in the end….While the science of the universe is up for discovery and even for debate…what isn’t is what the book of Ecclesiastes tells poetically to young and old alike….
Ecclesiastes 12:1-8 Remember also your Creator in the days of your youth, before the evil days come and the years draw near of which you will say, “I have no pleasure in them”; before the sun and the light and the moon and the stars are darkened and the clouds return after the rain, in the day when the keepers of the house tremble, and the strong men are bent, and the grinders cease because they are few, and those who look through the windows are dimmed, and the doors on the street are shut—when the sound of the grinding is low, and one rises up at the sound of a bird, and all the daughters of song are brought low—they are afraid also of what is high, and terrors are in the way; the almond tree blossoms, the grasshopper drags itself along, and desire fails, because man is going to his eternal home, and the mourners go about the streets—before the silver cord is snapped, or the golden bowl is broken, or the pitcher is shattered at the fountain, or the wheel broken at the cistern, and the dust returns to the earth as it was, and the spirit returns to God who gave it. Vanity of vanities, says the Preacher; all is vanity. (ESV)
The writer says in kind of a poetic and funny way.. that we are getting old and will die. the grinders
our teeth will stop because we’ll lose them, The golden bowl (our skull) will crack and the silver chord (our spinal chord) will snap one day…and then those pursuits of self happiness will be done…they’ll be lost….its true even if we try to live in a delusion that denies it..
So Jesus is being so gracious here. He says, let’s start with the renouncement you need to make once and for all. Life isn’t about you…it never was and never will be, and if you succeeded in living your whole life somehow successfully making it about you, you’ll lose it anyway…This is futile…no matter how we try to save our lives, we will lose them.
So what should we do instead???
LIVING SACRIFICIALLY INSTEAD OF SACRIFICING YOUR SOUL (take up your cross - the cost)
Look at verse 26
“FOR what will it profit a man if he gains the world but loses his soul…?"
We try to save our lives and more than that we truly to gain and consume a little bit more each day…
This For is connected back to the other part of Jesus’ call to discipleship…Instead of trying to incrementally gain more and more in life….
Jesus’ answer is that we should take up our cross….
The people hearing Jesus knew the image of a man carrying around a piece of wood that he would be hung up on to cruelly die of asphyxiation. But that’s what he tells them and us to do. To take up an instrument of our own death.
Daily
And in another gospel Luke adds we need to carry this instrument of death DAILY…maybe that’s clue to help us know what to do.
In the context of Eccl. and the whole of the Bible we live our lives, we pay our bills, we eat our food and we have our families and that is entirely fine…those are good gifts of God to enjoy and that keeps this from being a strange command we can’t obey if we want to follow Jesus.
….BUT what IS important is how we do those things, why we do them and to what end we do them - that matters. Do we do it all for ourselves, or do we do it for our Creator and for others good. And every day is an opportunity to express in self sacrificial ways that we have renounced ourselves.
Because the reality is that one day, any follower of Jesus may be asked to really give their life simply because they identity not with themselves or any other self, but with Him as the centre of the universe.
Look at Pastor Andrew Brunson who just this week was released from a Turkish prison after years of confinement and mistreatment. Lies and slander and misunderstandings fueled by a culture that believes their sense of identity was at stake, led to his imprisonment…in the mode and shadow of what happened to Jesus. Now thankfully he was not killed, but he could have been and many other Christians are EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. My friend is a Turkish national church planter who tweeted praise to God that this pastor was released but asked for prayer as they dwell under the shadow of the threat that continues.
Here’s how we connect that to our lives living in Boise, Idaho….We can say we would die for Jesus one day, because we know he is the truth and maybe we would, it’s easy to say from the comfort of our homes and this nation…BUT here are some clues to whether we could bear that cross….
If you won’t miss cheering your sports team on to gather with God’s people and raise your hands or at least your voice to Jesus…then you probably wouldn’t die for him
If you won’t risk making friends with a someone who has none instead of staying with your conformable group…then you probably wouldn’t die for him.
If you wouldn’t get out of bed to serve your wife or husband or family…then you probably wouldn’t die for him.
If you wouldn’t cut back on your work hours to spend more time and money on ways to share the gospel…then you probably wouldn’t die for him.
If you wouldn’t invite the “foreigner” (whoever that is to you) to your table for a meal…then you probably wouldn’t die for him.
If you wouldn’t bring up Jesus in a conversation at the local coffee shop, bar, restaurant or in the office…then you probably wouldn’t die for him.* (Adapted from a list in a book by Steve Timmis)
I think we get the point…And the point isn’t to say go do these things to try and prove you would die for Jesus…that would just be you living for yourself again! The point is that we must be honest about our hearts and say, “Jesus these self-sacrificial, cross centered daily little things are even more than I can handle…but they are all good and they are all right…would you help me to live this way…”
We just need to agree with Jesus that, as John Henry Newman said:
“The self-denial which is pleasing to Christ consists in little things. This is plain, for opportunity for great self-denials does not come every day. Thus to take up the cross of Christ is no great action done once for all, it consists in the continual practice of small duties which are distasteful to us.” John Henry Newman
If not…. we are essentially saying to Jesus something like….
“I would like to buy three dollars’ worth of God, please, not enough to explode my soul or disturb my sleep but just enough to equal a cup of warm milk or a snooze in the sunshine. I don’t want enough of Him to make me love a black man or pick beets with a migrant. I want ecstasy, not transformation; I want the warmth of the womb, not a new birth. I want a pound of the Eternal in a paper sack. I would like to buy three dollars’ worth worth of God, please." Jones, G. C. (1986). 1000 illustrations for preaching and teaching (p. 146). Nashville, TN: Broadman & Holman Publishers.
And to encourage us in this Jesus in the gospel of John told us that this self-sacrifice principle that began with His death on the cross as our redemption and example mirrors the natural world and always has a result…
John 12:24-26 Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. Whoever loves his life loses it, and whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. If anyone serves me, he must follow me; and where I am, there will my servant be also. If anyone serves me, the Father will honor him. (ESV)
Jesus died and we live…we daily die and sacrifice ourselves in little acts to others in community and they live….this is God’s kingdom at work in this world…
Let me illustrate it this way….
Those of you that are grandparents know the joy of seeing the legacy of the generations that come after you…I’ve heard it’s an almost unparalleled experience to be a patriarch or matriarch this way…IN the same way every act of cross centered living for the sake of the gospel has very real effects on a harvest of spiritual children that come through the gospel yes, but through the gospel through people who make sacrifices following after Jesus to see his gospel go forward….That is a joy that satisfies…as it satisfied Jesus. His death brought many sons to glory
So, A life of sacrificial living makes sense because the world can’t fill the void that only being part of God’s purposes can.
The Lord Jesus’ sacrifice is certainly all sufficient, but he is calling us to take part, and get in the game despite the pain….even with a promise of sure reward.
PLAYING THE LONG GAME INSTEAD OF INSTANT GRATIFICATION (follow me - the crown)
A life of delayed gratification through cross bearing makes sense when you weigh and taste the glory of Jesus compared to everything else…
“FOR the Son of man is going to come in glory….”
And Now we see here the most scintillating aspect of the call to follow Jesus, to really scratch where we itch. the reward and the good life to make us as happy as we could possibly be.
From the story of the whole Bible we know something to be true…though Jesus sacrificed himself for God’s glory and for our good…His ultimate destiny is glory…
The rest of the gospel of Matthew shows that…in the immediate context after the passage we are looking at today, Jesus goes up on a hill, glows white and let’s Peter and John what he really looks like in all his luminous glory while talking to Elijah and Moses from the OT. The picture is that the Jesus who suffers and bears the cross is the same Jesus of all eternity who will again be seen as glorious. And after Matthew we have the rest of the story of the Bible all the way to revelation where Jesus is literally the light of all eternity with his glory…And that reality is one of no suffering, pain, no death, with all of God’s people together with no selfishness and only His love to share…
So Jesus says clearly….there is a cross before there could ever be a crown…BUT THERE IS A CROWN!
We SO need to hear this… because this gets to the heart of our attempts to “GAIN THE WORLD”
We live our lives looking for that instant gratification…in our youth we look towards it, try it out and try and find the experience that will best suit our souls to find happiness…and then we get to old age and have regrets that we never found it.. that we can no longer have the strength to try and attain it…And there is that middle short time from our late twenties to late thirties where possibly we think we have found the sweet spot - only to see it slip out ion our hands into time. It is futile to look for instant gratification because it is only for an instant.
Doesn’t this leave a bad taste in your mouth? Doesn’t this make you feel like there is a massive ruse going on? That’s because its not what you were made for…You were made to experience the glory of God that will only be found when Jesus comes with all his holy angels..
So imagine for minute a massive set of old time scales that weigh everything in comparison to the other side….put everything on the scales….put your family life, your career pursuits, your legacy, your church life, your pursuit of pleasure through alcohol and drugs, your romantic life, the best vacation you’ve ever had, the best day of your life, all the respect and popularity or fame you could earn…Put it all in the scale… all the accolades for being a really good Christian man or woman…All the thousands like on Instagram and facebook, even traveling the world and seeing every country and culture imaginable and tasting all their foods both savory and sweet….
NOW, that all sits on one side and on the other falls the WEIGHT of the glory of Jesus and his coming and the angels and that which is unthinkably unimaginable and pleasurable in the love, friendship, and presence of Christ with all his gifts given forever to you as his delighted children of grace….How does that feel? What kind of taste does that leave in your mouth…Hold that, savor it, that should be enough to convince us that following Jesus is worth it. At least C.S. Lewis thinks it should be…as he said
“We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition, when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child that wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are too easily pleased.” - C.S. Lewis
27 - “Will repay…taste death”
Jesus makes it clear that there.
The other gospels, Mark & Luke make it clear that this is not some judgement for being bad or good people. We’ve already seen that our self is the problem. But this section is a statement of support for the reasonableness of denying yourself, taking up your cross and following Jesus. And if you get it. If you see his glory, if you see the value of his kingdom you will live for it, and not only live for it, you won’t be ashamed of it and you will speak about it….And that is the basis of his judgement…That’s why Luke says it this way:
For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words, of him will the Son of Man be ashamed when he comes in his glory and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels. But I tell you truly, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the kingdom of God.” - Luke 9:26-27
The “what you’ve done” is related to what you know…or in the words of another part of the bible, what you have tasted….If you have tasted and seen that the Lord is good, you cannot help but describe his savor of goodness to others…and he will reward that evidence of a genuine relationship and experience with him, given through his grace, with the crown that we so desperately chase outside of Christ, but cant attain.
But if that is not enough…At the end Jesus makes it clear that the Son of man will return and that his judgement will happen…It will in fact be a hurricane, a shipwreck, the biggest stock crash of all time - if there is no real relationship with Jesus through his sacrifice that has been expressed by sacrificially following in his example…
So you will taste the Lord, or you will taste death…and lose all that you tried to gain, hoard, grasp, taste, fill yourself with, find yourself in, etc…
The Call, the Cost & the Crown of following Jesus
Deny yourself instead of trying to save yourself - v.24-25
Our happiness is not to be found in any version of ourselves, only in Jesus and what He has done for us through his sacrifice
Living sacrificially instead of sacrificing your soul - v. 25-26
Our happiness is found in sacrificially blessing others and seeing God’s work and purpose through the gospel, following the example of Jesus
Playing the long game instead of instant gratification - v. 27-28
Our happiness is not found in the shadowlands of this world but only the reward of grace in being with Jesus in His glory forever
WOW this is real, this is stark…but we know it’s true, we know we have to say no to ourselves, and live daily a sacrificial life pointed to eternity….So how do we do that in some simple applicable ways?
APPLICATION & CLOSE
As we make application to close up our time together….Let me bring it back to the start and ask the question I often have asked my kids if they were throwing a bit of a fit because they weren’t happy and wanted to have something, do something or be something….
So...are you happy?
To Those Not Yet Believers:
First of all, if you are not a believer in Jesus, I want to apologize on behalf of the church more broadly for confusing you about what it means to follow Jesus…It is so much more than a little add on to your life…and it’s worth so much more than that.
Would you take the hints of your heart and feelings that sin is real in yourself and that you are fighting a losing battle to keep the ship afloat? Would you deny yourself and come to Jesus - though it will be hard it is where real freedom and happiness are found.
To BELIEVERS:
Deny yourself by getting in community
Small group - new one starting this week!
Membership class over the next 3 weeks….
Anything we can do to be more committed to others instead of our rugged individualism and self life….
Sacrificially live every moment making intentional choices to die to your sense of self importance
Let the Spirit lead, but some examples could be:
Not driving alone, but inviting someone to the go shopping with you
Having a meal with a “foreginer” at your house
Going to a football game but taking people you don’t know that well
Cutting back work hours to give time to your neighborhood
Working a bit extra (in a healthy way) to give to gospel ministry
Our Last Application comes from the parallel text in Luke 9
Luke 9:26-27 "For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words, of him will the Son of Man be ashamed when he comes in his glory and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels. But I tell you truly, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the kingdom of God" (ESV)
Speak about Jesus every possible moment because he is profoundly attractive and worthy of our praise and proclamation. This falls in line with the gospel priorities of the year
Jesus call to discipleship is a call to true happiness….When we get this we will naturally, willingly, happily say no to ourselves, die daily and proclaim his goodness with our lips..
We’ll be ultimately happy if we know Jesus, follow him, and live sacrificially for him everyday in community and in the city…instead of living for self and our own pursuits of happiness.
Let’s pray