Father Built

Welcome to a new season of The Father Built Podcast! In this episode, I reflect on the lessons I learned last year and share my renewed focus for 2023: building my own house. I talk about setting boundaries, prioritizing God’s calling, and protecting my time to grow in holiness, healthiness, and happiness.

This year, I’m focusing on creating a strong foundation for myself and my family, and I want to encourage you to do the same. Let’s talk about how we can invest in what truly matters and step into God’s priorities for our lives.

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In this moving episode of Father Built, we sit down with Lars Langer as he shares his powerful testimony of overcoming addiction, finding faith, and embracing God's redemptive power. Lars talks openly about his struggles with substance abuse, relapses, and a dark moment when he hit rock bottom. He credits his sister for guiding him to Celebrate Church, where his path to sobriety began.

Lars also opens up about his childhood trauma, the crucial role his wife played in holding him accountable, and his passion for helping others battling addiction and mental health challenges. His story is a call to action for men to be vulnerable, honest about their struggles, and seek the support they need.

Join us as we hear about Lars' incredible transformation and his dedication to ministering to the broken. It's a story of hope, faith, and the power of a strong support system.

In this episode of the Father Built Podcast, I open up about the struggles I've been facing lately, including the disappearance of a close friend. I share how the weight of this situation has affected me and how I've leaned on God and my community of friends for support.

I dive into the power of confronting difficult situations head-on, even when it's hard. We explore the importance of embracing vulnerability and how having a strong brotherhood can make a world of difference in our lives. Plus, I talk about learning to handle confrontation in a healthy way and not letting social media or others' opinions define who we are.

I also share some updates on my life, including my son learning to ride a bike and how I’m navigating life as a father. And finally, I introduce a brand called Friend of Felix, which is dedicated to supporting men’s mental health—check out the link below to support a great cause!

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In this heartfelt episode of the Father Built Podcast, I dive deep into mental health, suicide, and how we can better confront life’s toughest moments. I share my personal experience with a close friend who went missing and the emotional toll that situation has taken on me.

We talk about some alarming statistics on suicide rates, particularly among men, and how vital it is for us to take mental health seriously. I also open up about my own past struggles with suicidal thoughts and how supportive friendships played a key role in pulling me through.

This episode covers tips for healthy confrontation, including staying calm, listening actively, using "I" statements, and setting boundaries, all while referencing biblical guidance from Matthew 18:15-20 and Proverbs 27:5-6.

Lastly, I share practical advice for checking on friends and provide suicide prevention hotline numbers for anyone who might be struggling. Let’s continue to have these tough but necessary conversations, brothers. Let’s support each other and build each other up.

In this episode of the Father Built Podcast, I dive into the critical topic of addiction, particularly how it affects men. After apologizing for missing last week’s episode, I introduce our new partnership with Friend of Felix, a brand committed to supporting mental and physical well-being.

We discuss alarming statistics on addiction, including alcohol use disorder and the rising number of opioid overdose deaths among men. Addiction comes in many forms—alcohol, pornography, food, and technology—and we explore each of these, highlighting the importance of treating our bodies as temples, guided by the wisdom of 1 Corinthians 6:19-20.

I also share five essential tools to help combat addiction:

1. Seek help
2. Find the root cause
3. Build community and accountability
4. Develop healthy coping mechanisms
5. Change your environment

Throughout the episode, I stress the significance of having supportive friends who can offer tough love and accountability. The road to recovery is challenging, but by acknowledging our struggles, taking that crucial first step, and committing to the hard work ahead, we can overcome addiction.

Join us in this heartfelt discussion and take the first step towards a healthier, more fulfilling life.

In this episode of the Father Built Podcast, I sit down with George Clark—husband, father of four daughters, entrepreneur, and Christian hip-hop artist. George opens up about his incredible journey of overcoming addiction, trauma, and the challenges of not receiving his father's approval. He shares how his relationship with God and being part of a supportive community of believers played a crucial role in his healing process.

George also emphasizes the importance of being a present and intentional father, using the power of words to build up and affirm his children. Reflecting on his own experiences, he discusses how he strives to be a better father to his daughters than his own father was to him.

We also dive into the impact of technology and social media on today’s kids, and the essential role fathers play in setting boundaries and fostering genuine connections. Lastly, George talks about how music has been a therapeutic outlet, helping him process his past and share his story with the world.

Join us for an inspiring conversation about faith, fatherhood, and the healing power of music.

In this episode of the Father Built Podcast, I dive into the profound differences between being a godly man and a worldly man. I outline seven key distinctions that define a life led by faith versus one driven by worldly values:

1. Servant Leadership vs. Selfish Leadership - Godly men lead with a heart to serve, while worldly men seek power and status.
2. Strength and Courage vs. Fear and Cowardliness - Godly men find their strength in the Lord, while worldly men are driven by fear.
3. Protect and Provide vs. Neglect and Abandon - Godly men take responsibility for their families, while worldly men neglect and abandon their duties.
4. Humility vs. Pride - Godly men embrace humility, while worldly men are consumed by pride.
5. Love and Sacrifice vs. Selfishness and Self-Indulgence - Godly men love sacrificially, while worldly men are selfish and indulgent.
6. Moral Compass Based on God’s Word vs. a Worldly Moral Compass - Godly men have a firm moral foundation in the Bible, while worldly men’s morals shift with culture.
7. Pursuit of Holiness vs. Pursuit of Happiness - Godly men prioritize holiness and health, while worldly men chase temporary happiness.

Join me as we explore these crucial differences and what it means to truly walk in godly manhood. This episode offers valuable insights for men striving to live a life rooted in faith and integrity.

In this episode of the Father Built Podcast, I’m joined by Zach McConnell, a youth pastor, husband, and father, as we dive deep into the challenges and significance of fatherhood. We discuss the essential role of accountability, community, and a strong relationship with God in shaping a healthy father. Zach shares how fatherhood without God would lack the patience, grace, and guidance necessary for success, highlighting that it truly takes a village to raise both a child and a father.

We also explore the difference between being a "man" and a "man of God," emphasizing that true masculinity is defined by godly character rather than worldly success or appearances. In a candid conversation, we open up about our pasts and the importance of transparency in relationships and marriage.

Plus, we have some fun as I share my dream of appearing on reality TV shows like Survivor. Don’t miss this insightful and entertaining episode!

Join me as I dive into the intricacies of fatherhood, masculinity, and tackling difficult conversations on this podcast. In this episode, I share my unique approach to engaging with guests who have diverse perspectives, even those I disagree with, to foster productive discussions. Learn about the importance of staying calm and regulating emotions during heated exchanges, as I reflect on personal experiences of mastering this skill.

Drawing from a powerful sermon by my pastor on not judging others, I discuss the importance of seeking permission before offering advice. As the podcast evolves, expect more content centered around masculinity and valuable insights for single men, alongside the ongoing focus on fatherhood.

Discover how thoughtful and respectful dialogues can help navigate the complexities of fatherhood and masculinity. Don't miss this enlightening episode!

welcome back to the Father Built Podcast! In this special episode, I’m joined by Julian Beaudion – a husband, father, former law enforcement officer, entrepreneur, and community leader.

Julian and I discuss a variety of topics, including our recent vacations and travels, our differing perspectives on marriage, sexuality, and the LGBTQ+ community, and the role of biblical beliefs and Christian values in shaping our worldviews.

We dive into the importance of having respectful and productive conversations with those who hold different beliefs. We also talk about protecting and educating our children on diverse perspectives and identities. Despite our differing viewpoints, we engage in a thoughtful and nuanced dialogue, emphasizing the importance of loving one's neighbor and maintaining mutual respect.

Join us for a meaningful conversation that showcases how to navigate challenging discussions while fostering understanding and civility.