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- #53, Part 2 — Owning What’s Meaningful
Jessica shares her experience with a Bobcat, twice in one day, and the meaning it had. Inevitably, when sharing a pivotal moment, others may get it and they may not. No matter which, how can we step into the absolute knowing that this is what this means to us? And whether we are feeling powerful or apologetic… can we allow and embrace all of our complexity and richness?
Recorded 9/11/23
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZl
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
51 min - #53, Part 1 — Sitting Quietly In the Middle of the Mess
Moving from the pressure and stress of travel back to clarity and presence, Jess shares her quiet moment of revelation along Highway 1. She first had to choose to move into the hot mess of feelings and judgments, which she had unsuccessfully been trying to dismiss, dodge or manage. While in the middle of all that messiness, the magic occurred!
Recorded 9/11/23
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZl
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
51 min - #52, Part 2: Reaching Out from Inside the Triggered Space
When our internal turmoil of thoughts and feelings seem more real than what’s happening around us, how do we connect to ourselves and others in the now? Frank is sharing his experience visiting Maui after the fires. He moves between presence to his intense internal experience and connection to Jess in the present moment. This balancing act has an effect that you may find surprising!
Recorded 8/14/23
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZl
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
44 min - #52, Part 1: Connecting Through The Maui Fires
How do you keep track of ourselves in the face of trauma? How do we not lose ourselves when others are sharing their trauma with us, or when we are sharing our trauma with others?
In part one of this episode, Frank shares his feelings and relationship to the fires in Maui, as a part time resident. Together, Jess and Frank process the emotions related to the fires while simultaneously working to be present in the moment and connected. Witness how their connection brings an enlightening energy to the intensity, modeling clearly how presence in relationship is able shift trauma.
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZl
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
49 min - #51, Part 2: The Interplay of Healing and Awakening
Frank and Jess engage in a deep and introspective conversation about their present experiences and the value of connection. They explore the concept of being fully present in the moment and the importance of staying connected to one's authentic self. They discuss the interplay between healing and awakening, and how a soft and open nervous system can facilitate the process of awakening. They also touch on the power of compliments and the joy of expressing gratitude. Overall, their conversation highlights the beauty of being present and the transformative potential of genuine connection.
Frank-(00:14:53)
"I feel seen, valued. Immediately there is a reciprocal sense of feeling appreciation towards you."
Frank-(00:46:32)
"There's no relational agenda. That's part of why I didn't have any reaction. I really didn't have an agenda for you to take it in."
Recorded 08/07/23
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZl
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
50 min - #51, Part 1: Navigating Disconnection and Obligation in Relationships
Summary:
Jess and Frank start the episode by inviting listeners to bring their attention to their inner experience of being in the moment. They emphasize the importance of staying present and not getting caught up in thoughts or external distractions. Jess shares her nervousness and excitement about an upcoming trip and the release of her website. Frank guides her through exploring her feelings of irritation and anger, offering a safe space for her to express herself. They discuss the concept of obligation and how it can impact relationships. The conversation deepens as they explore the dynamics of connection and safety in relationships. They reflect on the power of asking questions and the potential for authentic connection. The episode ends with a focus on staying present and connected in the moment.Key Takeaways:
- Stay present and bring your attention to your inner experience of being in the moment.
- Explore your feelings and experiences without judgment or the need to fix them.
- Recognize the impact of obligation in relationships and the importance of creating a safe space for authentic connection.
- Asking questions can foster curiosity and deepen understanding in relationships.
- Stay connected and present in the moment to cultivate authentic connections with others.
Quotes:
- "Stay at home in our present moment experience." -
- "Your inner experience of being is always here."
- "Your inner experience of being is exactly what it is right in this moment."
- "Nothing you need to do, just noticing what it's like to spend a little time in relationship to yourself."
Recorded 08/07/23
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZl
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
1 hr - #50, Part 2: Conflict at Karaoke
When someone responds to Frank’s big energy at karaoke with a strong request for boundaries, Franks shares his experience of staying with himself and his emotions.
Recorded 07/31/23
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZl
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
49 min - #50, Part 1: I Can’t Feel My Mouth
Fresh out of a dental procedure, Jess shares her experience, which is both personally specific and universally human. Having this fallible and impermanent body with history of trauma in a vulnerable, mundane moment is one of life’s everyday rollercoasters. Frank explores what it’s like to be a “good listener” and an authentic listener.
Link: Episode 3 - The Red Button
Recorded 07/31/23
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZl
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
54 min - #49, Part 2: The Risk and Exhilaration of Relationship
An invigorating conversation ensues when Jess asks Frank to reflect on their relationship. Here’s the bottom line for all of us: There is great potential to experience tremendous aliveness within relationships. And it comes from the transparent revelation of feeling. Feeling sourced in authenticity, self focus and personal responsibility.
Mentioned: Cenote, Love Languages
Recorded 07/17/23
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZltb
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
1 hr 5 min - #49, Part 1: Laughing with Me, Not at Me
It’s a little unusual… Frank is feeling grumbly while Jess comes in open and happy. From this place they explore when poking fun brings lightness and joy into a relationship versus when it feels critical.
Recorded 7/17/2023
New to Feel This? We're so happy you're here!
Our primer episodes establish the space our conversations take place in. The episodes below will enhance your listening experience as well as give you tools for your life and relationships.
Primer #1 - Modes of Communication
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nzuOUvLZltb
Primer #2 - Looking into Internal Family Systems
https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PFdr9uLZltb
Your Feedback is Welcome!
Please leave us a comment. We might share it on an episode so let us know if we can use your name or if you prefer to remain anonymous. Either way, we would love to hear from you and include your energy and awareness into our creative process.
https://anchor.fm/feelthis/message
About this Podcast:
https://anchor.fm/feelthis
Feel This is a series of experiential conversations between Jessica Olberz Singleton and Frank D’Amato exploring trauma, healing and awakening through the lens of relationship.
Through the use of Authentic Connection, which focuses on our present moment experience, Frank and Jess share their emotions, inner dialogue and physical experience as a way of connecting more deeply to themselves, each other and the listener. Each episode is created to be an emotional and spiritual journey for all involved.
Your hosts:
Frank D’Amato is an Internal Family Systems practitioner and the creator of the Authentic Connection model.
Jessica Olberz Singleton is an artist, teacher, synthesizer of information, creator of safe spaces & delightful nerd.
49 min
About Feel This with Frank and Jess
From the publisher's feed
Welcome to Feel This: an ongoing conversation where Frank and Jess model Authentic Connection, a novel approach to self awareness and expression within the space of relationship, through the lens of…
Internal Family Systems and Attachment Theory. Here we speak for what is arising within us moment to moment, sharing healing tools and insights along the way.