The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

Fetishes And Role Playing | 14 Days of Sex | Day 7


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Hey there, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, where we're right in the midst of our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! It's Dave and Ashley here, and today we're diving into a topic that's personal and, let's face it, maybe a bit spicy – fetishes and role-playing in Christian marriages. We break it down, defining fetishes as those specific non-sexual things that can light a fire, and role-playing as, well, acting out those scenarios that get the imagination going. But here's the real talk – we're shedding light on the dangers of pornography and its influence on these aspects of intimacy. We also explore the idea that some fantasies may have roots in our adolescence. Through it all, we're hitting home the importance of mutual consent, safety, and honoring God in our sexual activities. As we wrap up, we want to remind you that communication is key, and addressing any restrictions or guilt is crucial for a healthy, fulfilling sexual relationship. Join us for a candid conversation where nothing's off-limits!

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Takeaways

  • Fetishes are specific non-sexual things that turn someone on sexually, while role-playing involves acting out specific scenarios.
  • Pornography can fuel dangerous fetishes and role-playing scenarios, and it is important to avoid using porn as an instructional manual for sex.
  • Some fetishes and role-playing scenarios may stem from fantasies developed during adolescence.
  • Mutual consent, safety, and honoring God are essential in exploring fetishes and engaging in role-playing.
  • Communication and addressing restrictions or guilt are crucial in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship.
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    00:00 Introduction and Overview

    01:00 Definition of Fetishes and Role-playing

    02:28 Dangers of Pornography

    03:23 Fantasies and Role-playing from Adolescence

    05:16 Different Types of Fetishes and Role-playing

    06:42 Exploring BDSM

    07:39 The Importance of Mutual Consent and Safety

    09:03 Using Sex as a Gift from God

    10:31 Addressing Restrictions and Guilt

    11:24 Conclusion and Encouragement

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