What's Up Real Ones! It's February and we are celebrating Black History Month and The Month of Love!   In this episode we wanted to breakdown and discuss the importance of "fighting" for your relationship after seeing so many people on social media say, they are no longer fighting to make their relationship work. We wanted to clear the blurred lines of what it means to fight for your relationship (making a determined effort) and how to be intentional with you words, actions, and resources when you going through those tough times.  

Fight For Your REALationship

The world fell in love with the Stills in 2014 as they watched the family courageously beat a stage 4 childhood cancer diagnosis. Devon, a former NFL player, and his wife, Asha have built a strong and loyal community on social media because of their undeniable love, authenticity, and humor.

Today, Devon is a positive psychology practitioner and instructor at the University of Pennsylvania. He specializes in dyadic relationships, including romantic relationships and parenting. Asha is a certified relationship coach specializing in dating, marriage, and separation issues. Together, they provide evidence-based interventions to improve relationship satisfaction.

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In this episode, we discuss the subtle yet powerful ways shame can permeate and influence the dynamics of a marriage. Drawing from both personal experiences and research, we uncover how shame manifests within the context of marriage, often operating beneath the surface yet profoundly impacting communication, trust, and intimacy. From societal expectations to familial upbringing, we examine the various sources from which shame can stem, shaping our beliefs about ourselves and our worthiness of love.  

Shame: The Silent Killer of Relationships

In this episode, we discuss the delicate journey couples embark on to mend their marriage after the devastation of an affair. Join us as we explore the three crucial phases of healing, from the initial shock and pain to rebuilding trust and intimacy. We offer practical strategies and compassionate guidance for couples navigating this challenging terrain. Whether you're seeking reconciliation or understanding, this episode provides a roadmap for couples to navigate the tumultuous waters of betrayal and emerge stronger together. 

Restoring Your Marriage After an Affair

This episode tackles the often overlooked issue of rivalry within relationships and guides you towards fostering true partnership. Are you inadvertently creating competition with your partner rather than building a unified front? Don't let competition undermine your connection. Subscribe for more episodes loaded with relationship advice aimed at helping you achieve the harmony and love you desire. Follow us on social media for daily tips and visit our website for comprehensive resources from intimacy experts. Let's journey together towards building healthy relationships, one podcast at a time.  

It's Not a Competition

Transform your conflicts into deeper connections with your spouse today! In this empowering episode of the Real Relationship Podcast, Asha and Devon dive into the heart of conflict in marriage, debunking myths and shedding light on the truth that, yes, all couples argue, but it's how you navigate those disputes that can turn disagreements into opportunities for growth. Join us as we explore not just the challenges of marital conflicts but also the transformative power of facing them head-on, with practical advice and relatable anecdotes that make navigating these turbulent waters a little easier. From the importance of understanding the root causes of arguments to learning effective communication techniques, we've got you covered with expert advice that can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Don't let conflict keep you and your loved one apart. Subscribe to our podcast for more relationship advice, follow us on social media for daily tips and support, and visit our website for additional resources. Together, we can turn the tide on conflict in marriage and pave the way for a deeper, more meaningful connection with your spouse. Your journey to a happier, healthier relationship starts here. #MarriageSupport #ConflictResolutionStrategies #MarriageCounseling #RelationshipConflictResolution #MarriageIssues  

Transform Conflicts into Connections with Your Spouse

In this thought-provoking episode, we dive deep into the age-old question: Are matches for relationships made in heaven, or do they require hard work and dedication? Join us as we explore the contrasting perspectives, unraveling the myths surrounding romantic connections. Drawing from personal experiences and psychological research, we challenge the notion of predestined soulmates and examine the significance of effort in nurturing a fulfilling relationship. Is there truly a cosmic force orchestrating our love lives, or are we the architects of our own romantic destinies?

Fight For Your REALationship

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