May 07, 2025

Finding Friends in a New Season: Intentional Tips for Building Real Community with Cecilia Curtis of The Friendship Tour

32 minutes

In this heartfelt episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt sits down with The Friendship Tour podcast host Cecilia Curtis to talk all things friendship—especially how to build meaningful relationships when life feels busy, lonely, or disconnected.

Whether you’re new to town, feeling isolated, or just wondering why friendships seem harder as an adult, this episode is packed with wisdom, real-life stories, and practical tips to help you create deeper connections. Melissa and Cecilia share their personal struggles as introverts, frequent movers, and busy women—while also exploring the power of vulnerability, the importance of showing up, and why asking for help might be the most courageous thing you can do.

If you’re craving more authentic community but don’t know where to start, this conversation will show you why friendship has to be intentional—and why it’s worth it.

Key Takeaways:

[00:03] - Welcome & Why Friendship Matters

Melissa opens up about the intentionality behind friendships and why she searched so long for the perfect guest to speak into this topic.

[01:56] - Cecilia’s Story & The Heart Behind Her Podcast

Cecilia shares her journey as a military wife, mom of three, and how her life of constant moves inspired The Friendship Tour.

[04:08] - The Struggle to Show Up for Others

Melissa shares a vulnerable moment that revealed a personal blind spot in how she supports local friends.

[06:48] - The Power of Offering & Accepting Help

Cecilia breaks down why being both a giver and receiver is essential for deepening relationships.

[08:41] - Asking for What You Need Isn’t Weakness

Melissa opens up about how fear of being let down kept her from asking for help—even from her best friend.

[11:47] - Healing from Past Friendship Hurts

Cecilia encourages listeners to deal with their relational baggage and pray for discernment in new connections.

[15:26] - Why Community Is God’s Design

Both women highlight the biblical importance of community and how it sustains us in our weakest moments.

[21:11] - Easy Ways to Start a Conversation

Cecilia shares practical, low-pressure tips to break the ice and make the first move in building friendships.

[23:06] - Don’t Take It Personally

Why it’s important not to internalize someone’s lack of response—and how you can keep putting yourself out there.

[25:10] - Say Yes & Get Involved

Melissa and Cecilia talk about how showing up, volunteering, and accepting invitations create opportunities for connection.

🌟 Ready to make new connections and get your life back in order? Start by identifying what matters most. Download the free Take Your Time Back guide: melissabatt.com/take-your-time-back-guide

Want to go deeper?

Explore 1-on-1 coaching with Melissa and learn how to build an intentional life grounded in faith: melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching

Connect with Melissa:

Website: melissabatt.com

Instagram: @melissabattofficial

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Connect with Cecilia Curtis + The Friendship Tour:

🎧 Podcast: The Friendship Tour on Apple Podcasts

👥 Facebook Community: bit.ly@thefriendshiptourpodcast

📸 Instagram: @thefriendshiptourpodcast

📩 Email: [email protected]

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By Melissa Batt | Life Coach | Accountability, Mental Health, ADHD, Procrastination, Depression, Anxiety

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