What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• What does it look like from the male perspective when you’re constantly seeking reassurance? 
• The more he feels like he’s walking on eggshells around you, the less he feels like he is the man who can truly make you happy and that is the kiss of death for any relationship. 
• Men resent feeling manipulated or controlled by a woman. 
• The more you need reassurance, the more he will feel like he’s doing something bad or wrong, even when he’s not. 
• How to seek out healthy reassurance from him instead. 
• Being kind and compassionate is important, but it also doesn’t mean you are a doormat.
• Men are truly one-track-minded, and they may really like you but still forget your birthday or send that good morning text. 
• Lisa talks about how she used every opportunity she could to show Benjamin she was a different kind of woman, the ideal version of her highest self. 

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Mentioned:

Eckhart Tolle 

Quotes

• “I think it's in the nature of a man not to want to do something out of obligation.” - Lisa
• “Many, many, many men resent feeling manipulated or controlled by a woman.” - Lisa
• “It's so important for women to really think about the fact that men are truly one-track minded.” - Lisa 
• “Part of those things that a man needs, particularly as the relationship settles in, are time and space to himself.” - Benjamin

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• Embracing our sexuality and sensuality at any age is beautiful and powerful. 
• Who is Dawn Cartwright, and why does Lisa love her so much? 
• Dawn talks about Tantra, and how it can be a way to explore our own sensuality with ourselves and our partner(s). 
• What does it really look and feel like for a woman to be in her body?
• Lisa shares how she starts to notice when she’s living too much in her head and disconnected from the rest of her body. 
• Men and women want the same thing…and it’s not just sex. 
• Dawn shares her thoughts on how long we should wait before sleeping with a man from a Tantric perspective. 
• Okay, how do you learn to pleasure yourself? 
• A facial, but for your yoni? Yes. It’s a beautiful thing, and Dawn does it. 
• How can learning about your own body and showing up in a state to receive pleasure translate to meeting a great man and possibly the Guardian of Your Soul? 

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Mentioned:

Dawn Cartwright | Chandra Bindu Tantra Institute 

Quotes

• “We can always open our hearts more, reveal ourselves more. And sex is such a powerful place to do that.” - Dawn 
• “Actually men and women, we want the same thing, and that thing is union. We all want it.” - Dawn 
• “I don't think people realize that depth in the richness and the potential when you have that level, that safety and trust, when you build that right from the beginning, and you don't rush in.” - Lisa
• “Learning my body and learning to open to myself made it possible for me to open to a man who wants to commit.” - Dawn 
• “Men are human beings and sex is emotional for them too. But it just happens in a different way.”  - Dawn

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• Ghosting happens, even to the best of us. However, it’s important to remember that you are still in control of your reactions and how you handle it. 
• Even though getting ghosted can feel super disappointing, a lot of men disappear because they are afraid the relationship is moving too fast and they don’t want to anger or upset a woman by telling her that he doesn’t see it moving forward. 
• Why do men sit on 3+ hour dates that seem to be wonderful, never to call again? 
• Other people may ghost, but it’s important for you to live in your integrity and always end things kindly. 
• When we have a conclusion, there’s understanding and maybe even an eventual forgiveness. When we ghost, you leave the other person to be confused and in the dark about what they did, and what went wrong. 
• The same way that you may have a long list of turn offs that may make you reconsider a second date with a man, chances are that he has them too! 
• Men may have a quick timeline for sex, but women have a quick timeline for commitment. Men often ghost when they feel like the relationship is a train speeding down the tracks, with no end or stop in sight. 

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Mentioned:

Quotes

• “We often encourage people, men and women, not to leave dead bodies in their path.” Benjamin
• “Always end things kindly.” - Benjamin 
• “We give a lot of our power away to men and then set ourselves up as victims when we do that.” - Lisa
• “Men may have a quick timeline for sex, but women have a quick timeline for commitment.” - Benjamin

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Is respect really that important to a man? Why? 
• Women crave love and being cherished, while men crave being respected and admired. 
• What if he’s not the perfect male specimen? How can I compliment his looks? 
• Society makes it seem like men don’t need admiration or praise when it couldn’t be further from the truth.
• What happens when a man doesn’t feel respected in a relationship? 
• If you mirror back to him that he’s protecting you and that you feel safe, that will ramp up his desire to do so even more. 

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Mentioned:

The Male Brain 

Aretha Franklin “Respect” 

Quotes

• “She has to find something that she can respect or he’s going to feel inadequate and emasculated.” - Benjamin 
• “One of the things that a woman needs, in addition to feeling love and cherished, is feeling protected, and one of the passions a man has in life is to be able to protect a woman.” - Benjamin 
• “A woman needs love, a man needs respect.” - Benjamin

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• How did Cassie and Rebecca find Lisa and how did they get to work with her? 
• You’ll hear straight from the source - what is it really like to work with Lisa? 
• How does individual coaching differ from group coaching? 
• How has working with Lisa changed Cassie and Rebecca’s outlook on love, dating, and their own self-confidence? 
• Cassie and Rebecca talk about the shift they’ve both had to take the feminine lead and do their own work to show up as the highest version of themselves. 
• Cassie has a whole different mindset on dating than she had in the past, and revels in how much calmer she feels. 
• These two friendly women love talking with current and prospective clients all day long! It really does feel like a family. 

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Quotes

• “I never thought I would meet someone and have such a loving, fulfilling, incredible relationship.” - Rebecca 
• “It's not about finding flaws, but just knowing what exactly are the qualities in the men that will work for me.” - Cassie 
• “It's so much fun. I feel like I'm chatting with girlfriends about dating. I'm helping them!” - Cassie 
• “I think it’s good for them to see that someone was in their similar position and that there’s a way through it. They don’t have to stay stuck in that thought process or position in life.” - Rebecca

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Why is emotional availability so important in finding the Guardian of Your Soul? 
• What does it look like when a man is emotionally available? 
• He ghosted you and/or pulled way back! Does that mean he is emotionally unavailable? 
• Learn how to quickly pick up on if he is emotionally available, and recognize the red flags when he’s not. 
• What if you’re not the one who is emotionally available in a relationship?
• Why a man who seems super interested at first may actually end up being emotionally unavailable in the long run. What’s the difference between this and a healthy build up to a relationship? 
• We don’t want to take everything personally, but also it’s important to take note of the patterns that keep recurring over and over to see if there is a lesson we need to learn. 
• How working with Lisa in her 12-week Emotionally Naked Dating course can help you get a handle on your own avoidant or anxious attachment style, and help you find a man who truly is emotionally available. 

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Mentioned:

 don Miguel Ruiz

Quotes

• “If a man does not have emotional availability, you can’t have a connection.” 
• “Before you give your heart to somebody, you have to learn how to assess whether or not someone is emotionally available.” 
• “Men who are emotionally unavailable, ironically, in the very beginning seem incredibly interested.”

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Wait - you mean women just don’t get to sit back and let a man do all the work in dating?  
• There’s a difference between giving a man space and allowing a man to open up.  
• Why is being accessible so important to a man, and what does that look like? 
• A date isn’t about how to get a man to like you. It’s about each person opening up, connecting, and seeing if there is a connection of romance or even friendship that is worth your time.
• If a man isn’t asking you rapid fire questions on a date, it does not mean he doesn’t like you or doesn’t care about getting to know you.  
• Lisa defines accessibility and how it creates a safe and loving space for both partners. 
• Lisa shares the beautiful shifts that happened when she started to take the responsibility for herself in every single interaction, and how it showed her the kind of woman she was. 

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Mentioned:

Quotes:

• “There's a difference between giving a man space and allowing a man to open up and perhaps in a way that he's never opened up on any other date.” - Benjamin 
• “Ultimately, a date isn't about how to get a man to pick you. The date is really two people that are ultimately, in the best of all possibilities, each looking for the Guardian of Your Soul.” - Benjamin
• “When I think about accessibility, I think about creating a safe and loving space for two people to be human with one another.” - Lisa
• “It doesn't automatically mean that a man doesn't want to get to know you if he's not asking questions.” - Lisa

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• How did Lisa’s upbringing shape her opinion of herself and the world around her? 
• Lisa talks about the inner work she did on herself to be ready for the type of man that Benjamin is. 
• Yes, if you are feeling insecure and co-dependent, there is hope and help for you. 
• How do you know if working with a love coach is right for you? 
• Lisa opens up about a marriage where she lost time, money, and her own self esteem, and the steps she took to find herself and rise up to become an even better woman than she imagined. 
• What steps are you doing that may be pushing men away, where you may not even be realizing it? 
• Stop taking everything personally! 
• Are you hearing the same message over and over again? It may be time you listen to the feedback.

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Mentioned:

Principles of Success 

don Miguel Ruiz

The Power of Now 

Quotes

• “It’s taken years of personal growth work. I’ve worked with great mentors and teachers and I have been devoted and committed to learning how to become a woman who can love unconditionally.” - Lisa 
• “With true love, kindness, and compassion, there’s no strategy. There’s no game and there’s no technique to get there.” - Lisa 
• “If you've been hearing a particular message over and over and over again, it's something you need to look at.” - Lisa 
• “Life is a story we are telling ourselves. We’re making up all these agreements about the way life is, and we’re making all of these stories up.” - Lisa

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Being sexual is a state of mind, while sensuality is a state of being. 
• How can you become more sensual just by embracing your senses? 
• While we can turn the sexual mind on and off, our sensuality is always there. 
• You don’t have to have a “perfect” body or looks to be sensual. 
• Men need a woman to remind them of their own sensuality, and help them embrace it. 
• How did Lisa learn to embrace her sensuality and learn to become emotionally naked with men? 
• Sensual doesn’t mean exploiting yourself sexually or being overtly sexual. 
• There's a difference between a woman selling herself and a woman and valuing herself. 
•  Men were taught not to experience our own sensuality. They need a woman to bring that out and raise it to that level. 

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Mentioned:

Helen Mirren

Marilyn Monroe 

James Joyce 

Quotes

• “There's a difference between a woman selling herself and a woman and valuing herself.”  - Benjamin 
• “I feel so much more in tune with life.” - Lisa 
• “A man is deeply attracted to a woman who embraces gratitude.” - Benjamin 
• “So we're taught not to experience our own sensuality. We need a woman to bring that out to raise it to that level.” - Benjamin

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