What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Lisa has so much fun doing this podcast and connecting with the brilliant and accomplished women that she coaches. 
• How did Cassie and Kari Lee become part of Lisa and Benjamin’s team? 
• What made Lisa decide to start a podcast? 
• What sets Lisa and her coaching apart from other relationship and dating coaches? 
• Lisa won’t take a client on without feeling a real connection. What else does she look for? 
• Is the dating world trending towards a certain direction? How can we best be prepared? 
• Cassie is on the hunt for her very own cowboy. Yee-haw! 
• Are you into true crime podcasts too? If so, you and Kari Lee have a lot to talk about. 

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Executive Web Design 

Kari Lee on insta: @justalittleklc

Quotes

• “My calls feel like dates! When people do a breakthrough call with me, it does feel like a date.” - Lisa
• “I’m reaching my target audience which is evolved women who have done a lot of work on themselves and want love.” - Lisa

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Why does dating trigger our deepest wounds and rejections? 
• What is it like for a man to be on the receiving end of an anxious woman? 
• How can you make your anxiety a GOOD thing so it pulls you and your man even closer together?
• Can a man really feel our anxiety in the way we text? 
• How to shift your focus from “do they like me” to “is this something I want?” 
• Reframing your anxiety into excitement!
• Why a mentor or coach can be so powerful in helping you observe your patterns and give you real time feedback. 

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Quotes

• “You don’t get to know a person when they are highly anxious, you just know their anxiety.” - Benjamin
• “One has to be in their heart to be truly vulnerable.” - Lisa 
• “What a man and woman wants is to be with someone to have fun with.” - Benjamin 
• “Anxiety pulls people away from the present, where excitement brings someone forward.” - Benjamin

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Men want to make us happy. If a man is really into you, he will be listening for cues and ways to help you get what you want, which will make him feel like a hero. 
• What does it mean to be truly emotionally naked, and how can it help you get what you truly desire? 
• Stop saying that you don’t WANT or NEED a man, and say this instead! 
• How can you communicate in a way that is not demeaning or smothering, but compassionate and kind? 
• What are the biggest mistakes women make which actually causes the opposite of them getting what they want? 
• What can we learn about a man’s relationship with his mother? 
• Before you ask a man for something or set up any expectations, you need to get really, really clear on what it is you want. 
• As much as we may wish he was, a man isn’t a mindreader! 

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Quotes

• “You’ve got to start to learn how to get emotionally naked and admit that there are things you not only want from a man, but need from a man.” - Lisa 
• “Men want and need to know what makes you happy, or they can’t give it to you.” - Lisa 
• “You’ve got to let somebody come into the relationship and see who they are to see if it’s somebody you can be with.” - Lisa 
• “You’re going to have to learn how to ask for what you want and need but in a romantic, loving, and respectful way.” - Lisa

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• What type of conversation sends a man right to his heart on a date and makes him feel like you are truly interested in his life? 
• Are you going on a fact finding mission and making him feel interrogated? Learn how to show that you are truly curious and impressed with who he is, and how you would love to fit into his world. 
• What you wear matters. There are pitfalls to being over-stylized! Lisa and Benjamin give pointers for showing your style in a way that is tasteful, elegant, comfortable, and classic.
• How to tactfully bring up to a man that he is rambling and how to insert yourself into the conversation without shaming him.
• How to have a relatable and two-way conversation, rather than a man feeling like he is caught up in a dramatic episode of a soap opera! 

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Dos Equis Man 

Carrie Bradshaw 

Audrey Hepburn 

Quotes

•  “You are aiming for his heart with your questions, not his head.” - Lisa 
• “No man feels comfortable on a date sitting across from someone whose life seems like a constant soap opera.” - Benjamin 
• “A man would love for a woman to be really interested, and more than just asking superficial questions.” - Benjamin 
• “That’s why we need a woman in our lives, because they touch us emotionally in a way that we don’t get from anything else.” - Benjamin 
• “If a woman is overly stylized,  many men are going to see it as a costume rather than an expression of individuality.” - Benjamin

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Why is it important to have a positive inner dialogue? 
• Are your intentions set to make a TRUE romantic connection with a phenomenal man? 
• To text or not to text? That is the question. 
• How do you put in the time and face your fears after what seems like so much rejection? 
• Why should we think about dating as a skill that takes patience and practice, and not just expect to be naturally perfect at it. 
• What should you look for besides just amazing chemistry with a man on a date? 
• Are you so focused on the end game that you are missing all the opportunities in front of you in the present moment? 

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Zen Story 

Quotes

• “You will find that you are less anxious if you walk through your fears. If you keep going forward, you’ll find yourself showing up on dates and somehow you’ll just feel more confident.” 
• “You shouldn’t have to play games to get a man to chase you. You should be your fabulous self and the right man is going to chase you.”  
• “You're preparing yourself for that moment when the Guardian of Your Soul sits down, when the two of you are across from each other, and you have that beautiful moment where your souls connect, and you know that this is the one.” 
• “So many of us are focused on the goal and the end game of meeting our guy that we are not really seeing the opportunities in front of us.”

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• You don’t need to put on heirs about being confident and having a perfect life. A woman can just naturally have a full and happy life, AND show the man there is room for him to fit too.
• It’s about sharing the things together that you both love - not just the man coming along for the ride for all your interests. 
• How can you ask a man about his life in a manner that makes him actually want to share and feel connected to you, rather than feeling like he’s on a talk show being grilled?
• What are the WORST and BEST things a woman can say on a date to a man?
• It’s not bad to show vulnerability. In fact, securely attached people need each other to get through life’s challenges. 

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Mentioned:

The Five Love Languages Book

Quotes

• “Trying to act overly secure is an act of insecurity.” - Lisa/Benjamin together! 
• “A man wants to make a woman happy and he wants to be able to provide for her and protect her.”  - Benjamin 
• “One of the most important things I think most women miss is not just wanting to share a life with me, but also I’m going to share his life.” - Lisa 
•  “It is so important to open up your heart and make this other person feel safe and welcome.”. - Lisa

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Why do New Year’s resolutions tend to fall apart after just a month or two? 
• If love is supposed to be so fun and magical, why do we need a step by step roadmap to getting it? Won’t that take the spark out? 
• How can you stay accountable to your goals while including your friends and having some fun? 
• What does it mean to have a contract or agreement with yourself? 
• This year how do you really LEARN from every single encounter, especially the not so nice ones? 
• Getting ghosted, no second date, etc. Why do the same things keep happening to you over and over again? Is this doomed to be your cycle forever? 
• How can working with Lisa help you from perpetually spinning your wheels and wasting your time? She’s teach you how to open up your energy to really find love! 

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Mentioned:

 The Four Agreements 

Malcolm Gladwell 

Quotes

• “Fail to plan, plan to fail.” 
• “Every single encounter along the way is mirroring and reflecting back to you places where you need to grow.” 
• “If you truly want to find love, you are going to have to have a plan.”

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• You have to have your idea of what you want, and then hold it very lightly. 
• How was Benjamin different from Lisa’s list of qualities she looked for in a man, and why did that end up being such a pleasant surprise? 
• You have to be willing to check in with yourself and allow room for things to appear differently than you expect them to!
• Lisa’s clients share a few of their deal breakers, from family relationships to alcohol abuse to a lack of warmth and affection. 
• Are you the type of woman that the man you are looking for will be deeply attracted to? Do you hold yourself to the same standards?
• Great questions to get to know someone better as you date online. 
• You can find good men anywhere on a dating site, but you’ve got to be working on yourself. 
• What are your true deal-breakers - Your “Final 5” qualities you must have in a partner?

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Benjamin Shield 

JDate 

Quotes

• “Benjamin doesn't have to sit around and talk about being spiritual. He just is.” 
• “You have to have your idea of what you want, and then hold it very lightly.” 
• “I would be very careful that you don't have fixed ideas that are so fixed in your mind that you don't sit down across from a wonderful man who really isn't somebody you can put in a box, and miss what's really in front of you.”

“You’ve got to be working on yourself. You have to be doing the work on

 You

, so that you can become a more attractive partner.”

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• How to navigate the inevitable “are you seeing anyone?” questions.
• If you are looking for a partner, ask them if they know anyone they can set you up with! 
• A few great word-for-word responses you can use to maintain healthy boundaries and keep this from being a huge downer!
• How to gently turn the conversation to a topic that you enjoy talking about. 
• How to handle the other relatives who are snarky or pushy about your single situation. 
• Whether you are heartbroken or single by choice, there’s always more to learn and grow from. If you are single, enjoy yourself. Celebrate every stage of life. 

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Bosque del Apache

Jackson Ranch Steakhouse 

Quotes

• “We get to tell the story of our lives.” 
• “You get to shape the narrative. You get to communicate your story.”
• “If you are single, enjoy yourself. Celebrate every stage of life.”

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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Why is it so important for men to feel like they’re winning and making their woman happy? 
• What do you say to a man when he tells you that he feels he can’t make you happy? Is he always right? 
• How do you tell a man that what he’s doing isn’t exactly what you want? Is it even worth telling him? 
• How can you thank your man for a loving gesture in a way that really lights him up? 
• How can you still find your happiness when your man is trying to provide you with something but it’s not exactly what you want? 
• Lisa shares how she turned a local honeymoon into the vacation of her dreams. 
• Why is a man saying that he can’t make you happy really the kiss of death in a relationship? 

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La Perla 

Victoria Secret

Ventana Big Sur 

Quotes

• “If we want our partner to keep doing lovely romantic gestures, we have to think about how we receive those things and how we give feedback when we don't like something.” 
• “You’ve got to learn how to find your own happiness and make a choice to be happy.”
• “A happy person chooses to be happy.”

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