Have you experienced trauma as a child or adult? Most of us have, just living in an imperfect world with imperfect people makes us susceptible to trauma in our lives. Did you know that unhealed trauma can disguise itself in maladaptive coping skills manifesting itself in how we parent. Unhealed trauma can show up as rage, anger, abuse, anxiety, depression, addiction….As parents and grandparents we want to begin to develop healthy coping skills that manifest in healthy parents who manage their emotions, as they provide the nurturing and support their family needs.

Resources:

Raising Mother By Ashley Kahn Podcast

freeasabird.libsyn.com

“Raising Mother’s” Empowerment/Transformation Coach Ashley Kahn www.ashleykahn.co

Dream Blankets

https://frankie-dean.com/

Connection is the key to influence in any relationship but especially when it comes to parenting. Like a plug without an outlet, parents who aren’t able to connect with their children will experience devastating consequences such as rebellion, addiction, trauma… As relational human beings we are created to connect with our primary care takers. When that doesn’t happen everyone loses with painful results. Learn how to begin the process of connecting with yourself, your child and your family and experience the freedom to be the parent you were created to be.

Resources:

Raising Mother By Ashley Kahn Podcast

freeasabird.libsyn.com

“Raising Mother’s” Empowerment/Transformation Coach Ashley Kahn www.ashleykahn.co

Dream Blankets

https://frankie-dean.com/

To say we don’t have barriers in our relationships from fears, expectations and judgements is to not be honest with ourselves. Being a ‘perfecting parent’ requires honesty. We are not perfect parents but we can begin to be aware of barriers we have that hinder our relationship with our children and family. Taking down the barriers can be scary but also healing. Be brave and begin the process of being honest with yourself and others. 

Resources:

Raising Mother By Ashley Kahn Podcast

freeasabird.libsyn.com

“Raising Mother’s” Empowerment/Transformation Coach Ashley Kahn www.ashleykahn.co

Dream Blankets

https://frankie-dean.com/

God designed families for a place of belonging and acceptance in order to grow and develop into emotional, mental and spiritual maturity. Discover the role a parent and grandparent plays in the ability for a child to form connections in their environment. 

Resources:

Raising Mother By Ashley Kahn Podcast

freeasabird.libsyn.com

“Raising Mother’s” Empowerment/Transformation Coach Ashley Kahn www.ashleykahn.co

Dream Blankets

https://frankie-dean.com/

I believe God created me, you and your child. As the Creator he “knows” your bundle better than you do. The problem is once we become parents we believe we “control” all aspects of their development placing a heavy burden to be ‘perfect’ parents If you’ve ever felt  overwhelmed, confused and defeated you’re in the right place. 

As parents we can lighten the load, begin to trust God, release our counterfeit ‘control’ and seek God to provide patience, and wisdom to be the ‘skin’ your child desires for connection to effectively and gently guide and direct. 

Resources:

Raising Mother By Ashley Kahn Podcast

freeasabird.libsyn.com

“Raising Mother’s” Empowerment/Transformation Coach Ashley Kahn www.ashleykahn.co

Dream Blankets

https://frankie-dean.com/

Our expectations of our children can cause conflict in the relationship. It’s not uncommon for us to compare ourselves to other parents and compare our children to other children. Parents can easily feel like failures, yet we know all families have their own struggles. The good news is as we change our beliefs and our expectations we begin to heal ourselves and our thoughts transform with a desire to "connect" with our children rather than expecting perfection. 

Resources:

Raising Mother By Ashley Kahn Podcast

freeasabird.libsyn.com

“Raising Mother’s” Empowerment/Transformation Coach Ashley Kahn www.ashleykahn.co

Dream Blankets For Children

https://frankie-dean.com/

Sometimes we parents can be like robots with repetitious words and actions but little connection with our children. Learn what it means to start the transformation process of becoming a conscientious parent to start the healing process of becoming the parent you were made to be with genuine connection that influences and transforms. 

Resources:

Raising Mother By Ashley Kahn Podcast

freeasabird.libsyn.com

“Raising Mother’s” Empowerment/Transformation Coach Ashley Kahn www.ashleykahn.co

Dream Blankets For Children

https://frankie-dean.com/

This season is specifically for parents. That’s you Dad, Mom and Grandparents. Becoming a parent is no doubt one of the greatest joys in life at least it was for me. At the same time, it was  also the most puzzling, confusing and paralyzing time feeling depleted emotionally, physically and relationally. But it doesn’t have to be that way. There is hope, help and history is a great teacher.

This season my daughter, Ashley Kahn, a “Mother’s Empowerment Coach” will be sharing  foundational truths that will transform you and the trajectory of your family.  This is one of those “I wish I knew then, what I know now” moments. You will not want to miss an episode. Listen attentively, be prepared to take action, and ultimately experience the ‘joys’ of parenting at any stage of life. Don’t miss an episode subscribe today and share it. Your fellow parents will thank you. 

Resources:

Raising Mother By Ashley Kahn Podcast

freeasabird.libsyn.com

“Raising Mother’s” Empowerment/Transformation Coach. Ashley Kahn www.ashleykahn.co

Dream Blankets For Children

https://frankie-dean.com/

Our relationships, problems and troubles in life are a test of our character. God’s word reveals the perfect character of God and reflects the truth of what’s ‘in’ us for the purpose of correcting and guiding us into right living. God’s Word is meant to transform our actions, thoughts and attitudes. “You see yourself, walk away, and forget what you look like.” James 1:24

Pleasure is the manifestation of  purity, as in the precious metal of gold. Likewise spiritual purity is pleasurable to God and you and I!!! Time and patience in the midst of our trials will bring ‘joy’ as we begin to shed our out of control behaviors, self centeredness, and our will for God’s will to live a life of integrity here on earth! “Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you”. James 1:27