People often ask Eva Oh how her partners “handle” her job — but maybe the better question is: Would a sex worker date you? In this flashback episode of #teakink, Eva explores how sex work can sharpen communication, boundaries, and emotional intelligence — and why those who work in it may have higher standards, not lower ones. This episode sets the stage for an upcoming miniseries on sex work, dating, and marriage.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:18) - Would a Sex Worker Date You?

(01:00) - Unfortunate Case Studies

(05:11) - Sex Work and Elevated Communication Skills

(06:30) - Do You Deserve the Empathy?

(08:55) - How Sex Work Has Changed Me

(14:49) - Understanding Society’s Shortcomings

(16:25) - A Better Case Study

(18:00) - “I Never Thought I Could Have a Relationship Like This”

(19:50) - How and Why Monogamy Was Constructed?

(22:14) - Why I’ve Become So Picky, What I Deserve