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Response to this post by Jasmin Birdie Coffey

So my man and I are long distance and I am struggled keeping in connection with him, since he can't keep plans even to have a phone call or zoom chat or plan anything it seems right now. I usually try to fill my time & try not to wait, but honestly I wait anxiously. I told him the other day that I'd rather be surprised than expect a call & it not happen. He over commits to his life in the physical (work, 3year old, family etc.) I love him, I really do, he is so much of what I've asked for & yet...I feel empty about waiting for connection & nothing to look forward to...I've talked many times with him about it...I am getting used to just not expecting, but that doesn't feel good in a relationship 😕 😔.

Solutions

1. Long distance relationship....Look into emotional unavailability

2. Uncertainty...Do you have a long distance relationship plan?

3. Learn to invest in yourself to avoid waiting anxiously for a partner.

4. Lack of consistency....Act in your best interest

5. Feeling empty and nothing to look forward to...Love yourself.

6. Potential...Abundance mindset.

7...Talking many times...Avoid convincing mode.

Trust the process