Friends Missing Friends

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  • 59. Life's Too Short to Rush: Redesigning Your Life, Friendships, and Relationships

    Today I talk to Rob Farquhar, a Sydney voiceover talent and podcaster, about redesigning his life after a major loss.

    After the loss of his wife of eighteen years, Rob is moving back to be closer to his longtime friends. We talk about adult friendships, making big life changes after loss, and how the good stuff’s on the other side of fear. And a lot of that requires patience, not rushing the grieving or building of new relationships, and better getting to know ourselves and what we really want.

     

    You can learn more about Rob here:

    http://www.robf.com.au/

    https://www.facebook.com/RadioRobVO/

    Twitter/Instagram: @gmradiorob

    Facebook: Rob.Farquhar

     

    Get in touch:

    Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

    You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

    34 min
  • 58. How to use Photography to Process Grief

    Today I talk to Shannon MacFarlane (she/they). Shannon is a compassionate, creative, kind, and quirky human who enjoys being outside, hoarding eclectic information, scratching dog and cat butts, and snacks. She's working on her PhD in psychology with an emphasis in Thanatology. She supports mourning and grieving humans with art and education.


    Learn more about Shannon at www.slobberedlens.com and @slobberedlens (Facebook and Instagram)


    Shannon and I discuss

    • How photography helps her be present with the big emotions, and revisit the intense emotions later
    • Including the whole spectrum of emotions in grief
    • Examining our personal history
    • And more!

    • Get in touch:

      Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

      You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

      54 min
    • 57. Big Friendship: Roadtrip Edition!

      This episode is a little different and special -- it takes place in the car, on a road trip with my friend Michele!

      We talk about:

      • the book Big Friendship
      • what friendship means to us
      • loneliness and creating our own community
      • what we want from our life moving forward
      • (And lots of laughter and silliness!).

      • Resources:

        Read the book Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/52766000-big-friendship

         

        Get in touch:

        Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

        You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

        1 hr 2 min
      • 56. Embracing the Wild Side of Grief through Acting (Part 2)

        Welcome to Part 2 of my conversation with Andrew Gallant, where we talk all about acting and the wild side of grief. (To catch Part 1 of our convo, listen to episode 55!).

        A bit about today’s guest, Andrew Gallant: Andrew is an actor and acting teacher extraordinaire. He holds an M.F.A in Acting from DePaul University, a postgraduate diploma from the Liverpool Institute for Performing Arts, a BA in Theatre from UW-Madison and is a proud member of Actor’s Equity. For the last 15 years, Andrew has worked professionally in Chicago as an actor, playwright, director, and artistic director.

        He is the founder of Green Shirt Studio, an acting school in Chicago specializing the Meisner approach to actor training. His students have appeared in Stranger Things, Moonlight, Molly’s Game, Chicago PD, Chicago Fire, Chicago Med, 9-1-1: Lone Star, The Chi, Easy, Empire, Fargo, The Book of Mormon (Broadway), and many other projects all over the world.

         

        Today, Andrew and I discuss:

        • Coming back to parts of ourselves that we abandoned after childhood
        • How society pressures us to suppress our big emotions
        • The deep-seated desire to express our grief in wild, feral ways
        • Expressing our big emotions
        • The therapeutic benefits of acting
        • And more!
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          Resources:

          Learn more about Sacred Fire Asheville:

          https://www.sacredfireasheville.org/

           

          Get in touch:

          Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

          You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

          19 min
        • 55. Embracing the Wild Side of Grief through Acting (Part 1)

          What does acting have to do with grief? A whole lot. The best acting deals with life’s biggest moments and emotions; the ones we often run from in our day to day life. 

          Today my guest is Andrew Gallant, actor and acting teacher extraordinaire. Andrew holds an M.F.A in Acting from DePaul University, a postgraduate diploma from the Liverpool Institute for Performing Arts, a BA in Theatre from UW-Madison and is a proud member of Actor’s Equity. For the last 15 years, Andrew has worked professionally in Chicago as an actor, playwright, director, and artistic director.

          He is the founder of Green Shirt Studio, an acting school in Chicago specializing in the Meisner approach to actor training. His students have appeared in Stranger Things, Moonlight, Molly’s Game, Chicago PD, Chicago Fire, Chicago Med, 9-1-1: Lone Star, The Chi, Easy, Empire, Fargo, The Book of Mormon (Broadway), and many other projects all over the world.


          Learn more about the acting school Andrew founded, Green Shirt Studio: ⁠https://www.greenshirtstudio.com/

          Instagram: @greenshirtstudio

           

          Today, Andrew and I discuss:

          • What grief has informed him about life
          • How art informs and reflects our emotional lives
          • How both grief and joy unleash our wild side
          • How acting helps us to tap into the deepest, truest parts of ourselves
          • And more!
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            Resources:

            To learn more about Green Shirt Studio in Chicago, check out their website: https://www.greenshirtstudio.com/


            Get in touch:

            Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

            You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

            27 min
          • 54. Softening Your Grief with Tapping and Breathwork

            Today I talk to Silvia Freeman, a Corporate Health & Well-being Facilitator / Coach, NLP Master Practitioner, EFT Practitioner, and Breathwork Facilitator. She loves teaching and facilitating workshops, where staff learn different ways of dealing with stress and anxiety, expressing their emotions, and learning how to become emotionally fit and healthy. Silvia teaches how to manage big emotions, how to move through them, especially grief, anxiety, stress, burnout, panic attacks, feeling overwhelmed, anger, sadness, and depression. Silvia also runs events and courses such as a 6-month membership Art of Emotions, Corporate workshops, and Back to Work in 9 Hours program.


            To learn more about or connect with Silvia:

            Her website: https://eznlp.co.uk/

            Her Instagram: instagram.com/silvia.freeman

             

            Today, Sylvia and I discuss:

            • What it means to soften grief and let it move through the body
            • How to use breathwork and tapping to soften the grief
            • The importance of feeling our big emotions (“what comes out of the body will never make you sick”)
            • And more!
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              Get in touch:

              Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

              You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

              32 min
            • 53. He's Woven Into Us: Grieving through Collective Memory (Part 2)

              Today is part 2 of my conversation with Jorin Garguilo, a teacher and longtime member of the Chicago improv community (for Part 1, check out episode 52!).

              Jorin is a Wisconsin-born, North Carolina-educated, Chicago based improvisor. Jorin began improvising in 1991 at ComedyWorx in Raleigh, North Carolina, and since 2004 has performed, taught, and coached at theaters across Chicago, the country, and the world. He was a founding member of Rainbow Deli at CIC and Revolver at iO. Jorin has written and currently teaches the ensemble curriculum in CIC’s training program. For info on improv shows or classes, check out @cictheater on Instagram.

               

              Today, Jorin and I discuss:

              • Grieving friends individually versus as a collective
              • How hard it is to make friends as an adult
              • The importance of telling our friends we love them
              • And more!
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                Get in touch:

                Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

                You can send in your questions to ⁠[email protected]⁠, send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: ⁠friendsmissingfriends.com⁠.

                21 min
              • 52. He's Woven Into Us: Grieving through Collective Memory (Part 1)

                Today I talk to Jorin Garguilo, a teacher and longtime member of the Chicago improv community (I've taken his improv classes, and can attest that he's an incredible teacher and performer!).

                Jorin is a Wisconsin-born, North Carolina-educated, Chicago based improvisor. Jorin began improvising in 1991 at ComedyWorx in Raleigh, North Carolina, and since 2004 has performed, taught, and coached at theaters across Chicago, the country, and the world. He was a founding member of Rainbow Deli at CIC and Revolver at iO. Jorin has written and currently teaches the ensemble curriculum in CIC’s training program. For info on improv shows or classes, check out @cictheater on Instagram.

                 

                Today, Jorin and I discuss:

                • Honoring and remembering his friend Mike Enriquez
                • The idea of carrying on someone’s essence and
                • identity
                • The ephemeral nature of improv and life
                • And more!
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                  Get in touch:

                  Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

                   

                  You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

                  24 min
                • 51. Every Day is a Gift (Part 2)

                  Today is Part 2 of my conversation with the amazing and talented Tekquiree, the founder of “Thrive Beyond Cancer” (for Part 1, check out episode 50!).

                   

                  Her bio:

                  “My name is Tekquiree, and I am a Cancer Thriver. When I was only 34 years old; and 36 weeks pregnant with my son Jace (his name means healer), I was diagnosed with Stage IV Inflammatory Breast Cancer. By the grace of God, I welcomed a healthy baby boy and was healed 4-months later. I attribute my healing to my faith in God, my community, countless resources, and combining both holistic and conventional medicine.”

                   

                  Learn more about her at https://tekquiree.com/ and https://thrivebeyondcancer.org

                   

                  Today, Tekquiree and I discuss:

                  • A card she got from her friend Natasha before her passing
                  • How death has changed our view on life
                  • How we want to live life to the fullest
                  • And more!
                  •  

                    Resources:

                    Check out “Thrive Beyond Cancer” here: https://thrivebeyondcancer.org

                     

                    Get in touch:

                    Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

                    You can send in your questions to [email protected],

                    send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

                    23 min
                  • 50. Every Day is a Gift (Part 1)

                    Today I talk to Tekquiree, the amazing and talented founder of “Thrive Beyond Cancer.”

                     

                    Her bio:

                    “My name is Tekquiree, and I am a Cancer Thriver. When I was only 34 years old; and 36 weeks pregnant with my son Jace (his name means healer), I was diagnosed with Stage IV Inflammatory Breast Cancer. By the grace of God, I welcomed a healthy baby boy and was healed 4-months later. I attribute my healing to my faith in God, my community, countless resources, and combining both holistic and conventional medicine.”

                    Learn more about her at https://tekquiree.com/ and https://thrivebeyondcancer.org


                    Today, Tekquiree and I discuss:

                    • How a cancer diagnosis has changed her view on life
                    • Giving people grace
                    • Grieving the death of her childhood friend Natasha
                    • The healing power of getting to say goodbye
                    • Seeing every day as a gift
                    • And more!
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                      Resources:

                      Check out “Thrive Beyond Cancer” here: https://thrivebeyondcancer.org

                       

                      Get in touch:

                      Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

                      You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

                      31 min

                    About Friends Missing Friends

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                    Host Hannah Rumsey talks with those who have experienced the death of friends, grief experts, and more, to normalize the complex grief of losing a friend in a world that often doesn’t understand.…