In this episode of The Patriarchy Podcast, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon interviews Jimmy Graham—a former Navy SEAL, CIA protective officer, and now the founder of Able Shepherd. Jimmy’s mission is clear: to train men to be protectors in every sphere—body, mind, and soul.

We discuss Jimmy’s journey from elite warrior to Christ-centered leader, why the church is filled with weak men, and how to build a protector culture that rejects passivity and embraces responsibility.

Men are called to shepherd, not just survive. If you’re tired of the lies of feminism, the softness of modern churches, and the plague of effeminacy, this episode will rearm your thinking.

Topics Covered:

Men, stop drifting. Stand up, build, fight, protect, and lead.

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Find Jimmy Graham’s work at: https://ableshepherd.com
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Timestamps
00:00 - Intro: The Mission of The Patriarchy Podcast
01:50 - Scripture & Show Introduction
03:00 - Meet Jimmy Graham: Navy SEAL, CIA, Christian Father
06:30 - From Arrest to the SEAL Teams: Jimmy’s Early Struggles
08:25 - Preparing for Hell Week: Mental, Physical, Spiritual Endurance
10:30 - The Secret to Not Quitting: Stubbornness for the Kingdom
13:40 - The Hardest Parts of SEAL Training
15:45 - What the SEALs Taught About Leadership & Brotherhood
17:40 - The CIA Years: Protecting Diplomats in War Zones
19:55 - Becoming a Shepherd: Spiritual Growth & Discipleship
22:10 - How Christ Transformed Jimmy’s Purpose & Manhood
25:35 - The Call to Be a Protector: Spirit, Mind, Body
27:35 - Building a Strong Foundation Before the Battle
28:50 - Protector Culture: What It Is & Why Men Need It
31:30 - Real Life Example: Confronting a Man Assaulting a Woman
33:10 - Why Men Must Be Ready to Protect Without Always Fighting
40:00 - Final Thoughts on Shepherding & Christian Masculinity

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Books by Joseph Spurgeon:
It’s Good to Be a Boy – https://a.co/d/7zpEh5D
It’s Good to Be a Girl – https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS