Fun But Heavy

In this ep, Jaliessa and Kelly start off by demonstrating their psychic friendship before getting into the concept of forgiveness. Who’s it for? What purpose does it serve? What about self-forgiveness? Should we be forgiving people who haven't apologized? Should we be making our children apologize? Kelly’s experience has been steeped in values of forcing forgiveness and she’s not havin’ it while Jaliessa feels like our culture is more oriented toward stories of revenge. We talk navigating family relationships, somatic therapy, how feelings have colors and a bunch more in this week’s episode of FUN BUT HEAVY!

In this ep, the gals talk about the ethics of being a part of an unregulated community that has access to people’s trauma and deepest wounds 🙃 It’s a big one. Let’s deep dive into the ethics of cultural appropriation, if we think the spiritual community should be regulated, conspiracy theories, the movie Ghost, Joel Olsteen, where the responsibility lies when we go se practitioners, what it means to cause harm, and if we can trust people who refer to us as “sheeple.” We also get compared to ice cream and it’s oh so delish. It’s all here in this very important episode of FUn bUT HeavY.

In this fun ep, the gals try to be lighthearted in a time of complete social collapse! Did they succeed? Honestly no one really knows. But they laugh a lot. Let’s talk about how to keep things light (teaser: Kelly has videos of adorable, relatively controversial, and diverse animals that has kept the gals afloat, Jaliessa’s couture purchase, and Ani ~shockingly~ stares at herself in the mirror!) Listen as the gals talk about the profound release in belly laughs, twerking to Iris by the GooGoo dolls, and when Kelly got mad at Ani for laughing at the most inappropriate time. Also mentioned: when the gals went to a yoni egg workshop fully prepared to drop trou and really missed the mark, ecstatic dance, and cringey spiritual stereotypes. And, they have their own hot tips for keepin’ it light on this episode of FUNNnnNNnn but HHeeAAAvvyyy

In this spicy ep, the gals dive into the hot topic of manifestation (as suggested by Stephanie Anastasi!). Is manifestation messing with natural law? Can we manifest on a collective level? What about privilege and mutual responsibility? What is the relationship to feelings and manifestation? Listen as they share their struggles and triumphs with the practice, share some hot tips and also debunk some of the most controversial ideas around manifestation, who can do it, and how it can be done. Strap in for a wild ride on this very informative episode of FUn But HeAvY.

In this doozy, the gals expose their most profound and painful experiences with….rejection. Is rejection a bitch? Is it protection? Is it redirection? Or… is it most of the time perception? Whatever way.. It can feel like the worst thing ever, so listen as the gals discuss what they do/have done when she comes knockin’ on the door. They also talk trauma responses, core woundings, friend support, the magic of rejection, and there’s even a sports analogy in there (Kelly was a soccer queen). If you’ve ever spent time loving unavailable people, pretended like being rejected didn’t affect you at all even though it crushed you, and/or want to hear very vulnerable stories of the times the gals have been told “no,” - listen in to this episode of FunnnNNnNnn but HHeeeAAAvvvVvyyyyy

In this episode, the gals are talkin’ about the big O - that’s right - ORGASM. This is going to be one of the most REAL conversations about the topic you’ve heard yet. First of all - are we putting too much pressure on the experience? Or not enough? What happens when you take it off the table completely? What happens when you find God there? WTF is a pussy sneeze? Listen as the gals talk about faking orgasms, pleasure as a way to overcome patriarchy, and how the deepest pain and the deepest healing can happen in these spaces. This conversation gets raw, real, and vulnerable about a topic that is so easily glossed over or glorified in all the wrong ways. Lets talk about giant portals, manifesting generators, bliss dimension, societal conditioning, self-pleasure, and of course, the most amazing orgasms the gals have ever had in this episode of FUnnnNnnn but HEeEAAavvVUyyyyYY.

In this episode - the gals are talking all about masculine and feminine energy. Is the masculine and feminine like taco dip? Should we be using different terms? How do you like Active and Receptive? Or Electric and magnetic? Do you identify with one or the other? Do you associate one with gender? Let's talk about these concepts and the intersections of race. Also - Ani teaches us of a former nickname and gives us the dish on her online dating life (it’s going really well). Jaliess tells us about a magical encounter with holy water in Avalon no big deal. And Kelly talks imparts her wisdom on everything in the best way as per usual. Join us for this very captivating, oh so important episode of FuuUNnNnn but HeeeEeAAaavvvVVvuYyyy

In this episode, Jaliessa and Ani discuss the ins and outs of good ol' self-doubt. Is it the best way to grow? Who does it serve? Is it necessary? Is it the same as self-judgement and self-worth? Are mistakes a real thing?!

Listen as the gals get real about their experience with self-doubt, how it relates to seasons and cycles, how they work with it when it shows up, on this episode of funnNNNnn Buttt HEeEeAaaVVyy.

Smooching, snogging, swapping tonsils, tonsil hockey, smacking faces, making out, slapping faces, sucking face, necking, tongue wrestling, tie some tongues and grab a little consensual booty - let us discuss all things kissing with the gals this week! Is kissing more intimate than sex? Can we become multiple different people as we make out? Do you make out with your eyes open? Listen as the gals talk best (and worst) kiss stories, being intimidated by the person you are becoming, deconstructing the “late-bloomer” trope, and more on this episode of FUuuuuuuUnnNnn but HeeeEEaaaAaavyY

In this episode, the gals are talkin’ all about those three little words with a (possibly) big meaning - I LOVE YOU. Why are our ‘i love you’s’ so withheld? Should love be given more freely? Is there another way to show commitment and intimacy besides the emphasis on the three big ones? When someone say it...do we expect people say it back? Is there a difference between loving and be “in love.” Can you say other things in place of i love you? What about tone? Join the gals on a chat as they go deep about the world we live in and it’s emphasis on romantic love, and their stories of love and claiming it on this episode of… FUnnNN but HHHeeaAAvvyyy