Gaps in Carnal Knowledge

Nat and her guest Chris explore themes surrounding sex, purity, and gender expectations growing up within the church. There is also a smattering of parenting talk throughout.

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This month, Nat covers the ever elusive topic of BOUNDARIES in all their surprisingly messy glory. What are boundaries? Why are they important? Isn’t that just setting rules? Nat explores what a boundary is and how to use them, but also goes into how boundaries are not the ultimate solver of relationship problems and sometimes getting a little messy and directly asking for what you need is the only way to grow. Tune in to hear her ramble!

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Nat and her good friend Koshka catch up and attempt to talk sex education. After many many rabbit trail stories, they eventually talk about AI and intimacy, and how norms differ wildly between groups and over time. Subscribe for free on Substack to get episodes directly into your inbox! To throw money at the podcast and get early access to episodes directly in your inbox, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠you can upgrade to be a paid subscriber starting at just $5/per month, or become a sponsor by signing up for the Founding Plan! Jingle by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Dave Hansen⁠

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Nat tackles the very heartfelt conversation about the impact of Conversion Therapy on Queer Youth. This topic has been pushed to the forefront of her mind due to some recent events, and it's a particularly difficult one.

You can revisit the episode on Abortion Access to supplement this episode, or check out any of the sources Nat sites through this episode at the links below:

Southern Poverty Law Center on Focus on the FamilyU.N. Independent Expert report on Conversion TherapyStanford Report on Conversion adn negative outcomes The Trevor Project on Associated Harms of Conversion Therapy

Additional sources: CornellUniversity of WashingtonColumbiaSubscribe for free on Substack to get episodes directly into your inbox! To throw money at the podcast and get early access to episodes directly in your inbox, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠you can upgrade to be a paid subscriber starting at just $5/per month, or become a sponsor by signing up for the Founding Plan!

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Morgan Gallo is an actress, stand-up comedian, and lifelong dancer. She’s toured nationally as a comedian, known for her sharp wit and relatable storytelling that dives into themes like body image, identity, and recovery. She hosts the podcast My Body, My Jokes, where comedy meets vulnerability. As a budding actress, Morgan is excited to expand her artistic range through character work and collaborative storytelling. Whether she’s behind a mic, in front of a camera, or center stage, she aims to entertain, empower, and remind people they’re not alone.

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You can listen to the episode where she interviewed Nat's alter ego here: Show Me How You Burlesque w/ Alabaster

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No guest this month on Gaps in Carnal Knowledge, but Nat thinks it's about time to actually ask the question... what IS sex ed? Not gonna lie, she rambles a lot in this one. We hope it comes across. Don't give her any more caffeine.

Also, she has some amazing news! Tune in to find out more!

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Nat Higgins, M.Ed. and Aaron Flores, RDN delve into the complexities of sex education, body image, and masculinity. They discuss the often-overlooked struggles men face with eating disorders and the importance of vulnerability in male conversations. The dialogue highlights the need for safe spaces where men can openly discuss their experiences and challenges, as well as the impact of media representations on societal norms surrounding masculinity.

Aaron Flores is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist with a private practice in Calabasas, CA. He uses Intuitive Eating and Health at Every Size® and other weight-inclusive approaches in his work to help individuals learn how to make peace with food and their bodies. He is a Certified Body Trust® provider, the host of the Men Unscripted podcast, and the co-host of the podcast Dietitians Unplugged.

During the episode, we talk about a few creators, podcast, and books that we could not remember off the top of our heads (or we did mention outright). Here they are: Maintenance Phase Podcast, Reclaiming Body Trust, Your Korean Dad, Steve From Blues Clues, Pop Pop Buce Johnson, The Creative Act: A Way of Being, & Manhood: A Bare Reality.

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For this episode, Nat is joined by Reverend Evan Amo to talk about the intersections of faith, sexuality, shame, and repairing damage caused by harmful rhetoric in the name of the church. From the topic of Original Sin and the different pressures places on spirit and body, to the alienating and shame driven aspects of sexuality within the typical conservative Christian teachings, Evan brings both personal and pastoral insight to the table, and together we explore how those religious frameworks have shaped (and often distorted) our understanding of sexuality.

Rev. Evan Amo is the founding pastor of Waypoint Spiritual Community and the musician behind Bruised Reeds, a soul-searching music project that blends lament with liberation. BE sure to follow Waypoint Spiritual on Instagram to see their community work!

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Dan Roberts was born in eastern Ontario, Canada and grew up in a nice, small, homogenous town. Over time and with changing geography he met a diversity of people and was exposed to different ways of life. Each new person or destination was a chance to experience new things, and to learn.

He’s lived in small towns and big cities, played sports, and been a successful art photographer (@HackTheLight). He studied applied physics before choosing a career in software engineering, and his current business is an event ticketing and membership platform called Multipass.

With a late discovery of likely neurodivergence (neurospicy?), change can be both thrilling and difficult for him. Change is also inevitable, and embracing personal growth is a core principle of Dan’s life. Sometimes this means uprooting deep mental roots, trying something new, and this book is evidence of that.

After four decades of life and relationships, largely based in emotional monogamy, polyamory thrust the door of change wide open. His journey into this new life has been exciting, extremely costly and painful, and ultimately successful.

Non-attachment brings peace, and granting freedom to those around us brings respect.

You can get your hands on his book on Amazon and keep up with his latest project at everythingismadeup.com

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Join Nat as she has a chat with Leah Spasova, a psychologist, sex and relationships expert, and the founder of lifesexplicit, a groundbreaking censorship-free platform for sexual wellness. With a background in psychology and years of experience supporting clients in navigating intimacy, relationships, and personal growth, Leah empowers individuals and professionals alike.

Through lifesexplicit, she champions inclusive, sex-positive resources and education, helping break down taboos and provide a safe space for expert-led support. Leah’s mission is to create accessible, stigma-free pathways to sexual and relational well-being.

Find Leah and Many other Sex & Relationships Experts at lifesexplicit!

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