Gender Reveal

In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with Gender Reveal grant winner Kai Minosh Pyle (they/them), whose work includes Two-Spirit education and Indigenous language revitalization. Topics include:

• Busting two-spirit myths and misconceptions
• Searching for words to describe yourself—in six languages
• The origin of the word "two-spirit"
• Trans*temporal kinship
• Being an ACTUAL gender detective!

Find Kai at mekadebinesikwe.com or on Twitter @mekadebinesikwe.

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In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with Callie Wright (she/her), creator of the podcast Queersplaining. Topics include:

• Shifting away from performing femininity as a trans woman
• Exploring your gender twice… and knowing when to stop
• Atheist activism in LGBTQ communities and vice versa
• "All of the worst things in my life have come from keeping secrets"
• Genders aren't plots! (h/t Cass Adair)

Read more about our This Week in Gender topics: New Hampshire, Sarah McBride, Australian car fire.

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Do you have gender questions that you'd like answered on the show? Submit questions anonymously via this Google form.

Questions? Comments? Feelings? You can reach us at genderpodcast.com; via [email protected]; or on Twitter or Instagram.

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In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with multimedia artist Nwaobiala (they/them), one of several Gender Reveal spring grant winners. Topics include:

• Nigerian queer histories
• Community care > self care
• Gender roles at a Catholic boarding school
• African LGBTQ media staples
• Does feminine energy exist????

Find Nwaobiala's work at nwaobiala.com and at @nwaobiala419 on Instagram.

Read more about our This Week in Gender topic here.

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Questions? Comments? Feelings? You can reach us at genderpodcast.com; via [email protected]; or on Twitter or Instagram.

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In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with author and illustrator Maia Kobabe (e/em/eir), creator of the memoir Gender Queer. (Buy eir book!)Topics include:

• Spivak pronouns
• Low inventory at the orgasm store
• "Deserving" trans-related surgeries
• Coming out to your first Girl Scout troop
• Educating TERF-adjacent relatives
• Also: Tuck does unlicensed therapy

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In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with storyteller Morgan Givens (he/him), creator of the critically acclaimed Flyest Fables podcast. Topics include:

• What nobody tells you about testosterone
• Becoming a Black man in America
• Telling a live audience about your junk
• Being your own trans role model
• Cops?!
• Is that how you spell pizza?

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In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with journalist Katelyn Burns (she/her). Topics include:

• How can we combat bad reporting on trans topics?
• Do trans women have an athletic advantage?
• Being a trans reporter on Capitol Hill
• Fact-checking that NYT binding article
• The important political news Tuck has been hiding from

Find Katelyn's Outline article here. Find her first-ever article here. Please support her work at patreon.com/katelynburns.

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Happy Pride! In this week's episode, Tuck answers listener questions with BFF of the show Mckenzee Griffler (she/her). Topics include:

• Deciding whether to start HRT
• Folks vs. folx (vs. dudex)
• He/him lesbians
• Safe binding tips
• Can cis people have dysphoria?
• And more!

Learn more about our This Week in Gender topic here.

Find the Rachel Anspach article that Mckenzee mentioned on them.us.

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Questions? Comments? Feelings? You can reach us at genderpodcast.com; via [email protected]; or on Twitter or Instagram.

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In this week's crossover bonus episode, Tuck answers gender questions with Nichole and Everett on the Vegan Warrior Princesses Attack podcast. Topics include:

• Is it OK to refer to my child with gendered language?
• What's the difference between nonbinary and gender non-conforming?
• Should we be assigning genders to non-human animals?
• Is "toxic femininity" a thing we should be thinking about?
• Can straight cis people use the word "queer"?

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Questions? Comments? Feelings? You can reach us at genderpodcast.com; via [email protected]; or on Twitter or Instagram. You can also submit questions anonymously via our Google form.

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In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with masculinity expert Thomas Page McBee (he/him), author of Amateur and Man Alive. Topics include:

• What does non-toxic masculinity look like?
• Does testosterone really cause aggression?
• Can non-masculine folks help dismantle toxic masculinity?
• Being afraid of men… and then becoming one.
• Using violence as a cover for intimacy.
• Embracing trans joy.

Learn more about our This Week in Gender topics: the Arizona two-spirit powwow; Indiana; Maryland; Vermont; and new third-haircut emojis.

Find Thomas at @thomaspagemcbee on Instagram and Twitter, and at thomaspagemcbee.com.

Win a copy of Thomas Page McBee's book Man Alive by making a lil post about how much you like Gender Reveal by March 31! Don't forget to tag us. :)

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Questions? Comments? Feelings? You can reach us at genderpodcast.com; via [email protected]; or on Twitter or Instagram. You can also submit questions anonymously here.

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In this week's episode, Tuck speaks with Portland Two-Spirit Society interim director Jack Malstrom (he or she). [CW: colonization/genocide; suicide mention (37:20)] Topics include:

• How to push back against 500 years of colonizing queerness.
• (Re)learning and reclaiming two-spirit traditions.
• Educating white folks at Pride — in a literal tipi.
• What does Indigenous queer community look like?

Resources:

• Listen to Rose City Native Radio on KBOO.FM.
• Find the SAMHSA Native American Culture Card here.
• (Re)listen to our interview with Demian DinéYazhi.
• Check out Jeremy Dutcher, Lady Shug, and the Native Youth Sexual Health Network.
• Find Jack on Twitter and Instagram.

Learn more about our This Week in Gender topic here and here and here.

Our biannual grant is now open for applications at genderpodcast.com/grant! Tell the rad BIPOC trans folks in your life!

Support Gender Reveal by buying pins from Stick to Resist.

Submit a piece of Theymail: a small message or ad that we'll read on the show.

Join the Gender Detectives Slack here!

Questions? Comments? Feelings? You can reach us at genderpodcast.com; via [email protected]; or on Twitteror Instagram. You can also submit questions anonymously here.

We greatly appreciate donations via Patreon or PayPal or Cash App. Donate $5+ to receive stickers and other fun stuff.

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