Gentlemen’ s Guide to Excellence

How do you work up the nerve to meet someone new? Being a gentlemen doesn’t mean you have to be one of those last place-finishing nice guys.  You can be bold.  You can be cocky.  You can be audacious even.  In this week’s episode, we looking finding the balance between being bold, and being respectful and honest in meeting new, interesting women.

While I recommend men act in predictably consistent and high-quality ways in all ways and at all times based on the principles and standards from the book, you’ll do better in the dating process if you tailor your approach to each lady based on her likes and personality. That is a wide-ranging topic, but today I want to dig into one specific area you will certainly encounter, dealing with and taking care of more introverted women.

This week’s episode is a gift from me to all of humanity.  For this week’s work, people are going to erect statues of me in town squares worldwide.  They are going to name schools after me.  I might get a Nobel Prize for this breakthrough in human culture and understanding.  Why might I receive those accolades? I am going to help you read her mind.  Yes, I am going to help you read the minds of the women you want to date, are dating, or perhaps are already with. 

I have conducted the greatest survey of all time on the subject of flirting with and approaching women.  Never before in world history has such an impactful and societally-beneficial survey been done.  Today, I share the results with you.   

Time.  We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time.  You don’t want to get to the end of your time here with regrets.   You also don’t want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you.  In this week’s episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time.    

Today I share my views on the general topic of jealousy as it relates to dating and relationships.  I’ll start with a true story involving someone I used to know that is an example of the worst possible way events can unfold for someone consumed with jealousy.  

Credibility.  Your credibility is your stock in trade in many ways in life: at work, in business, and with your family and friends.  In some arenas, if you have lost credibility, you are done.  In this episode, we take a thorough look at the subject of a person’s credibility - what it is and how to manage and protect it.

Are any of these questions keeping you up at night:  What am I supposed to do with my life? What should my life’s meaning and purpose be?  What am I passionate about?  How can I be more happy and satisfied with how my life is going regarding work, family, and my personal life?  In this week’s episode, we look at the topic of finding your passion, and attempt to set everyone on a path in that direction regardless of how good or challenging your life’s circumstances are right now.

I spend a lot of time talking about if a prospective lady, or the one you are already involved with, is good enough for you.  Today I want to look at that from a different angle: Did she make the right choice choosing to be with you. 

Who is the better man?  That is our question for today.  What’s the right way to measure?  Can you tell by just looking at someone.  Can you tell by the contents of their wallet or bank accounts?  We dig into this question in this week’s episode.