Gentlemen’ s Guide to Excellence

Strong women.  How would you feel about your lady being a strong woman?  What if she is more successful than you?  What if she makes more money?  What if she is more charismatic and well-liked?  Are you okay with that?  How would you feel if your partner outdid you in traditional male breadwinner or success roles?

Positivity.  Today I want to talk about how not everyone is going to react well to your positivity.  Not everyone will be supportive of you.  Some people might hate or resent your continuous improvement,  either openly to your face or secretly - behind your back .  They might hate or resent your attempts to better yourself.   They might hate or resent your success.

This week I share a closely held secret.  Many souls have been lost in the quest.   It is time that this sacred knowledge be revealed.  This week I tell you where you can meet available women.

Self talk.  What is running through your head every day as you progress through your day?  Is your self talk helping you or hurting you?  Today I share the top 10 things that run through my head in the course of a normal day to help get me past problems, and motivate myself to do what I have to do and handle what I have to handle.

Career advice.  When I talk to young men graduating college, or men of any age who are trying to change jobs or apply for employment, I am hearing too much entitlement.  I am hearing too little confidence and not enough of a grasp of reality when it comes to what it takes to make someone want to hire you, to see your value.  “Give me a job" is what I am hearing, especially from younger guys out there.  You shouldn’t be thinking “I hope someone will give me a job”.  You should approach a job search with the mindset that you need to earn the job.  In figuring out your career, or applying for a job, or competing in business, you need show your value.  I am going to talk about how to do all of that today.  I want to talk about career advice, Gentlemen’s Guides style. 

This week I want to talk about the notion of nice guys finishing last.  Nice guys finish last?  Is that really true?  If it is, or isn’t, what guys get to win?

Confidence.  Be confident. That’s what many people will advise you to do you without telling you HOW.  That, and women will simply flock to you if you are confident.  That sort of advice is everywhere, in every self-help book and from every dating and matchmaking guru.  But if you aren’t naturally confident person, how do you get on a path to being so?

Bad boys.  Do women really prefer so-called bad boys?  What is a bad boy exactly, and is there anything truly good about being considered one, or being one?

Making Hard Decisions.  Life isn’t always easy.  It isn’t always a walk in the park.  Sometimes it is necessary to make difficult, painful, expensive decisions that you would rather not deal with,  Sometimes the way forward isn’t clear - there is no option that is clearly superior to the rest and pain free.  Is there a way to make the process of making hard decisions easier, or less painful?

Daddy issues.  This week I am going to tell you why I think YOU should be broadly spreading and propagating daddy issues to women of all ages.  That’s what I do!  I am very much in favor of the concept of daddy issues, using my definition of the term.