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We often assume that sex is easy for men; that they're always ready, willing, and excited to have sex. But is that really true? In this episode, Dr. Valeria looks at 5 reasons why sex may be difficult, challenging, or frustrating for men; discusses some surprising recent research findings and client experiences; and gives ideas on how we can make men's sexual experience more fulfilling.

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How much do you know about fetishes? You may be surprised to learn just how many of us have some sort of sexual fetish. In this episode, Dr. Valeria and Sarah Martin talk about how common fetishes truly are, and delve into some fascinating and fun fetishes, including diaper wearing; sexual attraction to cars; desire to be swallowed whole; and many more! 

EPISODE NOTES

Journal of Sex Research article on paraphelias

Men's Health: Extreme Fetishes

Man who had sex with 700 cars

Strange Love (documentary on men who love cars)

Woman who married the Eiffel Tower

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Do you wonder why women don't seem to be as interested in casual sex or one night stands as men? In this episode, Dr. Valeria talks about three reasons why women aren't engaging in casual sex as much as men - and these reasons may surprise you. 

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In this episode, Dr. Valeria discusses the three common types of low confidence and insecurity and the ways they sabotage our sexual relationships. 

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Sexual assault and rape are shockingly common, but we are never taught how to react and what to say when someone comes to us with their own story of sexual assault or rape. In this episode, Dr. Valeria shares tips on what to say in this sensitive situation; how to react in a respectful and compassionate way; as well as some things to avoid. 

EPISODE NOTES:

Dr. Valeria's blog post addressing the Dear Abby response to a teenage rape survivor 

Short video explaining sexual consent (simplified but makes important points)

A list of helpful resources for victims of sexual assault, rape and domestic violence 

RAINN (Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network)

Planned Parenthood on Consent and Sexual Assault

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In this episode, Dr. Valeria and guest contributor Sarah Martin discuss how to get started successfully in online dating (or dating in general). They talk about creating a successful dating mindset; attracting the right people; and a few dating do's and don'ts. They also share some personal dating stories and experiences.

EPISODE NOTES

Sarah Martin's website

Dr. Valeria's website

Dr. Valeria and Sarah Martin give the definitive and honest answer to the question of whether size really matters; share some fun and interesting facts about the penis; and discuss what makes a man a great lover. This is a must listen for all penis owners and penis lovers!

PS important note: when we talk about penis size, we mean erect penises!

EPISODE NOTES

About Jonah Falcon

More about hypospadias 

Dr. Valeria's website

Sarah Martin's website 

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Dr. Valeria talks about the key strategies for keeping sexual passion alive in committed long-term relationships. She discusses the findings of a study recently published in the Journal of Sex Research (the study can be found here) that sheds light on the secrets of people who successfully maintain desire and sexual vibrancy in their relationships. 

Need to recharge your sex life? Get Dr. Valeria's FREE 5-Day Sex Life Reboot video course here: www.sexlifereboot.com 

Dr. Valeria and Sarah Martin talk about the many attempts by the pharmaceutical industry to find medical cures for women's sexual problems; why Viagra for women doesn't exist and never will; why drugs are the wrong approach to "fixing" women's sexuality; and what solutions actually do work in helping women experience higher desire and greater pleasure. 

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Guest Sarah Martin talks about creating the pioneering practice of Orgasmic Running and her new book, "Orgasmic Running: A Feminine Practice for Pleasurable Wellbeing", available exclusively on Amazon. Visit her website, Good Sex Lifestyle, for more information. 

Need to recharge your sex life? Get Dr. Valeria's FREE 5-Day Sex Life Reboot video course here: www.sexlifereboot.com