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Today’s episode is your cheat sheet for getting a girl to actually respond to you in the DMs.

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1️⃣ “You seem like someone who actually knows what she wants. Am I right or should I keep scrolling?”
Why it works: It flatters her decisiveness without being generic. And that playful little challenge? It makes her want to prove you right, or cheekily prove you wrong.

2️⃣ “Okay I have to ask… are you the big spoon, little spoon, or ‘depends on the night’?”
Why it works: This skips all the small talk. It’s cheeky, flirty, and dives into playful intimacy without being over the top. It’s irresistible to respond to.

3️⃣ “Something tells me you’re not the type to settle. What’s a green flag you always look for?”
Why it works: It makes her feel like a woman with high standards…which we love. It also gives her a moment to show emotional depth without needing to get super vulnerable too fast.

4️⃣ “I’d bet good money you’re a softie under that confident energy. Am I wrong?”
Why it works: This gently teases her while giving her the perfect opening to reveal more about herself. It’s confident, direct, and it invites a real connection.

5️⃣ “Your vibe feels intentional… what’s something you wish more women noticed about you right away?”
Why it works: This tells her you’re not just here for surface-level attraction. You want to see her. And that? That’s magnetic.