08.03.2022 - By Mitch Wallis
About Mitch's Mum
Grew up working class, raised Mitch as a single mother in his early years
Fought her way into a better life for both of them
Had her second child when Mitch was 15
Gina is now a successful sales manager at a large technology company
"She is the best person ever" Mitch
In this episode we cover:
Independence vs. safety - how do we navigate taking care of a child but empowering autonomy - especially when a mental health issue is present in the child
#1 thing she did that helped me during that time
Early warning signs and cues that she wished she saw in me
The #1 warning sign she wished she saw earlier that she believes is an early indicator to anxiety
The #1 game to play with your child to help counter anxious thoughts
2 tips to balance being firm and being compassionate
How to balance being a friend vs. being a parent - how to get that right
Teenage angst vs. something more serious - the answer to knowing if it's clinical
Post-natal depression twice - what it felt like for her without even knowing she had it and the reality of feeling trapped
A discussion on whether or not it's good to talk to children about big questions like values and what you believe in from an early age
Talking to her not wanting to let her down by telling her I wasn’t ok
The benefits of writing a life narrative and sitting down with your parents to talk it through - re-write your story through their story
To medicate or not to medicate your child when facing a mental health issue (*seek medical advice)
What is the end goal of mental health
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