Girl Stop Talking

This week’s episode is all about the expectations we put on friendships—especially me, because girl, I’ve had some lessons to learn.I’m getting real about how I’ve lost friendships because of unrealistic expectations and how much I’ve grown from those moments. We’re also diving into your poll answers and write-ins about the struggles that come with adult friendships—because let’s be honest, it’s not always easy figuring out who’s in your corner.And of course, I’m sharing some story times from the girls and their experiences, because what’s a “Girl Stop Talking” episode without a little drama, a little heart, and a whole lot of honesty?Hang in until the end for some bloopers. I really struggled sharing honestly with this without oversharing experiences that are close to me, don't worry there's more to come.

113- This week’s episode is extra special because we’re closing the chapter on my 20s and stepping into a whole new era. You know birthdays have always been a big deal for me — but this one hits different.I’m diving into childhood memories, why I’ve always celebrated birthdays like they’re my personal Super Bowl, and sharing the 30 lessons I’ve learned in 30 years.

From love and friendships to career chaos and self-growth — nothing is off-limits. We’re talking about why the bare minimum is NOT effort (say it louder for the people in the back ), how red flags don’t magically turn green, why therapy isn’t the problem you are, and why your 20s are for learning but your 30s?

Baby, they’re for living. So grab a drink, come laugh (and maybe cry a little) with me, and let’s toast to lessons learned, bad hangovers survived, friendships redefined, and stepping into our glow-up era with confidence.

112- ⚠️ Trigger Warning: Domestic Violence & Emotional Abuse ⚠️This week’s episode is a little different, giiiirl—I’m sharing my own personal (and very dramatic) story about my most toxic relationship. We’re talking court dates, restraining orders, wild nights out, people showing up where they definitely shouldn’t, and the total disconnect between the courts and the law.Now, I know that’s heavy, and I want to be clear: this episode includes discussions of emotional abuse and domestic violence. But you know me—I’m telling my truth with my own personal twist of humor. Because honestly… if we’re not laughing through the pain, what are we even doing?And before we dive in, I want to add some context: this story took place almost 7years ago, and lasted past it's expiration date. There’s been a lot of therapy, healing & gossiping since then, which is why I finally feel comfortable opening up and sharing it with you now.So many of us go through these traumas without anywhere to turn. I hope hearing my story you'll realize you're not alone, and even though times can be dark, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep fighting for your future self!Find Us Here:

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111- This week’s episode is a special one — my man is finally on the mic with me! We’re giving you the inside scoop on how we met, the funny details of our relationship, and answering all the questions YOU sent in on Instagram.We’re talking dating, love, and everything in between — from the silly quirks of being a couple to the deeper lessons we’ve learned along the way. And don’t worry, singles, we’ve got you covered too. We’re sharing advice for anyone jumping back into the dating world and how to spot someone who’s actually worth your time.It’s flirty, fun, and totally unfiltered — just the way you like it. So grab your drink, tune in, and get to know us a little better while picking up some tips for your own love life.

110- This week’s episode is all about the bare minimum — why we settle for it, how it’s disguised as “effort,” and the many ways it sneaks into our relationships.

I’m spilling my own stories (with plenty of laughs, of course), plus reading a raw, personal listener submission that fits this topic too well.

We’re also unpacking my Instagram poll on “bare minimum vs. effort” (the results did NOT disappoint ), and to top it off, I’m giving you the lowdown on my 10-day parasite + heavy metal detox. Because yes, apparently I’m detoxing AND dragging men at the same time.

Grab your a pen and paper for this one because I'm giving you homework this week! And Giiiirlllll — this one’s unfiltered, savage, and just the reality check we all need.https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

109- This week’s episode of Girl Stop Talking is serving up chaos, honesty, and a whole lot of laughs. Tatum dives into the icks — those little turn-offs that can turn a summer fling from hot to not real quick.

She shares her own list of “icks,” reads hilarious (and sometimes cringe-worthy) listener stories about summer flings gone wrong, and breaks down the most common red flag moments we’ve all ignored. From flip-flops on a first date to that infamous hot-and-cold energy, nothing is off-limits.

On top of that, Tatum recaps her latest viral IG video, reads through some of the spiciest negative comments, and lets listeners in on what’s coming next for the show — plus a sneak peek into her big 30th birthday plans.

Unfiltered, relatable, and always hilarious, this week’s episode is all about navigating summer flings, spotting the icks, and laughing through the chaos.

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*BONUS*- This week’s episode is a little different, girlfriends — we’re going full vlog style! This is my first-ever YouTube vlog (so bare with me as I figure it out), and we’re recapping Chance and I's entire weekend in Nashville.From traveling together (and almost missing our flight… twice), to introducing my dad, hitting the Nashville bar scene, drag queen comedy roasts, and living it up at the Stimulate conference — this episode has it all... in real time!It’s unfiltered, and a little chaotic… just the way you like it. So grab a drink, come laugh with us, and let’s dive into our Nashville adventure.Find Us Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

108- They dive into a jam-packed lineup of interviews, from sexologists to surgical professors, and everything in between — because, honestly, this one’s longer than usual! Here’s your minute-by-minute breakdown of the unfiltered magic:

• ​04:00-11:48: Michelle, Sexual Health Alliance(SHA) – leader in sexuality education, offering AASECT-approved training & certification programs in sex therapy, coaching, & counseling.
• ​11:49–15:08: Kerry from Tanga – Spill on intuitive sex toys and how they’re shaking things up.
• ​15:09–19:19: Jenna, Women’s Health & Gender Nurse Practitioner – Essential care insights and why she’s redefining the conversation. https://www.instagram.com/nursejennarae/
• ​19:20–25:38: Saundra Pelletier, champion of Phexxi (hormone-free, on-demand birth control) – Real talk on control without hormones. https://www.instagram.com/phexxi/
• ​25:50–29:07: Valerie Gritton, Orélia Skincare – CBD skincare meets soulful healing. https://www.oreliaskincare.com/
• ​29:08–42:40: Dustin from The Sex Party Podcast – Laughs, spice, and everything you want to know about dirty talk & partnered sex. https://www.instagram.com/sexparty.fm/
• ​42:41–46:47: Dr. Lisa Brady, founder of Sweetums – Sweet wellness because pleasure is fabulous. https://www.instagram.com/sweetums.official/
• ​46:48–1:02: Blanca from Like a Kitten – Sensual (and playful) self-care you’ll drool over. https://www.instagram.com/likeakitten_llc/
• ​1:03:00-1:09:00 :Melissa from Upstate Mary – Bringing New York’s sexiness straight to your self-love routine. https://www.instagram.com/upstatemary/
• ​1:10:00-1:17:00 :Whitaker & Andy of Amor Sui – They built a brand on self-love and confidence — and yes, we stan! https://www.instagram.com/loveamorsui/
• ​1:18:00-1:22:00 :Dr. K from ProDx – Quick chat about at-home STI testing and empowering sexual health. https://www.instagram.com/prodxhealth/

Plus, Tatum and Chance aren’t just talking — they’re reacting, roasting, and reminding you why they’re the duo you came for. Get the full scoop on who’s on the stage, what’s on the table, and all the juicy behind-the-scenes.

Tune in — Day Two of STIMULATE is serving up chaos, insight, and glow-up energy.

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107- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are kicking off Day One of the Stimulate event, where we hosted interviews with a handful of incredible guests.

We sat down with a sexologist, a New York Times product reviewer, another fellow podcaster, a self-development coach, a hypno- and tantra sex therapist (Dr. Melissa Gentry), and Dr. Evan Goldstein — a sexual health and anal surgeon, founder of Bespoke Surgical and The Future Method.

Of course, you’ll also hear plenty of updates, commentary, and unhinged banter from your two favorites — Chance and I. This episode gives you a front-row seat to what’s happening at the Stimulate Sexual Health Conference, along with valuable insight from our amazing guests.

Oh, and did we mention? There’s also a special guest appearance from The Hoe Bag and some rapid-fire questions on sex, dating, and relationships that you won’t want to miss.

Tune in — this one is stimulating in all the right ways.

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7:09-10:37 - https://www.instagram.com/biancaalbamph/

10:38-16:17 - https://www.instagram.com/iamdsimone/19:11-39:10 - https://www.instagram.com/drmelissagentry/

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106- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are recapping our weekend in Nashville — from day one all the way through multiple nights out, including hanging at the bar with my dad, his curious questions about Chance’s life, and his thoughts on makeup, tiktok and going out with full glam.

We also dive into the handful of people we met at the Stimulate event, plus all the details: the people, the afters, the setup, the breakdown, and everything that went down each day. From our hilarious run-ins with the Bach Bar cowboys to some very questionable night out experiences, this was one for the books.

Chance and Tatum take on Nashville — the certified “Country Vegas” — in a weekend of full-on exploration.

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