Hello Lovebugs!

Welcome back to the Girls Night with Carley Doxtator podcast, where we explore the stories, ideas, and innovations driving personal and professional transformation.

Today, I’m thrilled to welcome Ipek Bakir, a gifted practitioner and illuminator of the unique, and deeply data-driven, approach to self-awareness known as the Born Method, a system founded by her mother and now carried forward with heart, rigor, and clarity by Ipek herself.

Over the past 25 years, The Born Method has been refined into a patented, precision-based practice grounded in a 20-digit life matrix derived from your exact birthdate. It’s not astrology or human design- it’s its own path, built on over 60,000 hours of coaching and 60,000+ birth-date analyses. It blends math, data, and ancient wisdom into crisp, personalized insights to help you confidently make big decisions, whether that's launching a business, timing a career move, navigating parenting, or getting unstuck in relationships.

Ipek brings this method to life with her uniquely clear and open-hearted style. Clients describe sessions as “one of the best gifts you can give yourself,” granting tangible tools and self-awareness in just 90 minutes. Her work guides people toward informed choices in their personal lives, professional pursuits, and relational dynamics.

In our conversation today, she’ll walk us through:

• What The Born Method is and how it works

• The numbers, data, and real-world outcomes behind the system

• How her unique background, her mother’s legacy, and her own experiences shape the way she practices and shares it.

• Some of the numbers and what they mean

• And as a VERY special treat, she is walking us thorugh some of the numbers for Taylor Swift, Travis Kelce, their relationship, and waht we all can expect from our fave hihg-profile couple

Let’s dive in and discover how a birthdate can become a powerful map for growth, clarity, and transformation. 

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Connect with Ipek:

Website: www.thebornmethod.com (for more information or to book a session)

Use code: GIRLSNIGHT at checkout for 10% off your session!

Instagram: @thebornmethod (where Ipek shares insights on the method and how numbers show up in everyday life)

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Connect with me:

Website: krccoaching.com

Instagram: @KRCcoaching

TikTok: @KRCcoaching

YouTube: @KRCcoaching

LinkedIn: KRC Coaching

Hi Lovebugs!

Welcome to another epsiode of Grils Night! 

Today’s guest is Zoey Charif, author of Love Can, In Fact, Be Calculated. Zoey blends her background in criminology, data analytics, and human behavior research to tackle one of life’s biggest questions: can love truly be understood, and even predicted? In her groundbreaking book, she introduces the Love Formula, a framework designed to help people better understand compatibility, strengthen relationships, and approach love with both clarity and confidence.

Her work bridges the worlds of science and emotion, showing us that while love is deeply personal, it doesn’t have to be left entirely to chance. Through her research, writing, and speaking, Zoey empowers individuals to make more intentional choices in love and life.

In this episode we discuss:

✨ The Love Formula and how to best use it in your life

✨ How to calculate your compatibility with a new or existing partner

✨ The myth of avoidant attachment

✨ How to improve your love score to create long-lasting, meaningful connections

✨ Ways to undersatdn yourself better, you partner better, and create healthier relationships

✨ And more!

Download your free guide: The 3 Secrets to Creating a Magnetic Energy Shift Right Now

Get Your Confidence Code Affirmation Cards HERE

Connect with Zoey:

Buy "Love Can, In Fact, Be Calculated" on Amazon HERE

Buy "Love Can, In Fact, Be Calculated" at Barnes & Noble HERE

Website: www.lovecaninfactbecalculated.com

Instagram: @ZoeyCharif

TikTok: @ZoeyCharif

Connect with Me:

Website: www.krccoaching.com 

Linkedin: KRC Coaching

Youtube: @KRCcoaching

Instagram: @KRCcoaching

TikTok: @KRCcoaching

Hi Lovebugs!

This isn’t your feel-good, “everything’s fine” kind of pep talk. This is the stuff I’d tell you if I wasn’t worried about hurting your feelings. The stuff your friend thinks but doesn’t say out loud.

We’re getting into it: hyper-independence is pointless, some people love you but not enough (and that’s the truth), your crappy thoughts are creating your crappy life, and your expectations are probably destroying your happiness and so much more.

It’s blunt. It’s raw. It’s uncomfortable. But it’s also the kind of truth that frees you if you’re brave enough to hear it.

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Download your free guide: The 3 Secrets to Creating a Magnetic Energy Shift

Get Your Confidence Code Affirmation Cards HERE

Book your free one-on-one session HERE

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Connect with me:

Website: krccoaching.com

Instagram: @KRCcoaching

TikTok: @KRCcoaching

YouTube: @KRCcoaching

LinkedIn: KRC Coaching

Hi Lovebugs!

In this episode, I sit down with Aspen Noonan, the 27-year-old CEO of Elevate Holistics, a telehealth platform transforming access to medical cannabis. Aspen shares her inspiring journey from student advocate to leading a mission-driven company that’s helping thousands of people obtain their medical marijuana cards — with a vision of reaching one million patients.

Before stepping into the CEO role, Aspen built her leadership foundation through multiple roles in health and wellness and as President of the University of Missouri’s chapter of the National Organization for the Reform of Marijuana Laws, or MU NORML.

She’s here to share her journey from student advocate to CEO, her vision for the future of telehealth and cannabis, and the lessons she’s learned about leadership, impact, balancing family with career, and building a purpose-driven business.

We dive into:

• How Aspen transitioned from Director of Operations to CEO at just 27

• The biggest lessons she’s learned about leadership and scaling a purpose-driven business

• Misconceptions around medical cannabis and how she’s working to change them

• The future of telehealth and cannabis accessibility

• Advice for young entrepreneurs and women stepping into leadership roles

• How to balance family, kids, and a successful career

If you’re passionate about health, wellness, entrepreneurship, or advocacy, this episode is full of insights you won’t want to miss.

🎧 Tune in now to learn how Aspen is combining innovation, advocacy, and business savvy to make a real impact in people’s lives.

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Order Your Confidence Code Affirmation Cards on Amazon: Daily Affirmation Cards

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Connect with Aspen:

Get your Medical Card: elevate-holistics.com

Use code GIRLSNIGHT at checkout for 20% off!

Join the affiliate program HERE

Linkedin: Aspen Noonan

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Connect with me:

Website: krccoaching.com

TikTok: @KRCcoaching

Instagram: @KRCcoaching

LinkedIn: KRC Coaching

Youtube: @KRCcoaching

Hi Lovebugs! 

In this episode, I’m sharing the powerful life lessons I learned during my recent trip to Austin, TX- lessons you can apply no matter where you are. From “smelling the leather” (getting as close to your dreams as possible to call them into reality) to learning how to disappoint your parents while still giving them grace, this trip shifted the way I see trust, expectations, and magic.

We’ll talk about:

• How to embody your dreams before they happen

• Trusting your gut and following the feeling

• Letting go of rigid expectations so life can surprise you

• Why giving grace to others (and yourself) changes everything

• Allowing magic to find you in unexpected ways

Whether you’re manifesting your next big move, navigating family dynamics, or simply trying to live with more ease and alignment, this episode will inspire you to get closer to the life you want and actually enjoy the ride.

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Download your free guide: The 3 Secrets to Creating Magnetic Energy Right Now

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Connect with me:

One-on-One Coaching: www.krccoaching.com

Instagram: @KRCcoaching

TikTok: @KRCcoaching

Youtube: @KRCcoaching

LinkedIn: @KRCcoaching

✨ Hi Lovebugs!

I hope you’re ready for a little bit of magic today! Because today’s guest is someone who believes that creativity can heal, courage can be learned, and stories can change the world- one heart at a time.

Deborah Weed is an award-winning creator, author, and speaker who has spent her life turning life’s messiest moments into meaningful art.

She is brilliant mind behind Paisley’s Last Quill, a children’s book that’s part fairy tale, part pep talk for your inner artist. The book invites young readers-and the grown-ups who love them- to embrace self-expression, navigate rejection, and find the courage to keep creating, no matter what. 

In this episode we discuss:

✨ People-pleasing and how to get your power (or quills!) back

✨ How storytelling can help us overcoming bullying

✨ The difference between self esteem and self worth

✨ How to tap into your own creative powers

✨ And more!

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If you want to learn more about Paisley the Musical, you can connect with Deborah through Paisley's Fashion Forest.

Order Paisley's Last Quill on Amazon Also available in Barnes and Noble.

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Get your free Guide: The 3 Secrets to Creating a Magnetic Energy Shift Right Now

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Connect with me:

💕 Website: www.krccoaching.com 

💕 Instagram: @KRCcoaching

💕 TikTok: @KRCcoaching

💕 LinkedIn: KRC Coaching

💕 YouTube: @KRCcoaching

#paisleyslastquill #peoplepleasing #overcomingpeoplepleasing #podcastguest #creativity #storytelling #lifecoach #mindsetcoach #confidencecoach #artist #deborahweed #artisticexpression

Hi Lovebugs! 

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Jim Gerencser- founder of the Whole Health Oncology Institute and the Cancer Playbook- to explore how compassion, innovation, and data are transforming the way we support people facing cancer.

When Jim’s son Eric was diagnosed with cancer in 2012 at just 8 years old, his life changed forever. Out of that deeply personal journey, he launched the Cancer Playbook, a groundbreaking resource that empowers patients through personalized guidance, patient-reported outcomes, and real stories that inspire hope and healing.

Together, Jim and I dive into:

✨ How mindset impacts the cancer journey

✨ What makes the Cancer Playbook unique for patients and caregivers

✨ The importance of early detection and global education through E.R.I.C.

✨ Why data and storytelling together can create real change in healthcare

✨ Practical advice for anyone supporting a loved one with cancer

Jim’s work has been featured in CBS News, USA Today, Authority Magazine, Thrive Global, and more- and in this episode, you’ll hear why his mission is resonating worldwide.

If you or someone you love is navigating cancer, or you’re passionate about holistic health, patient advocacy, and the power of community, then this conversation is for you.

Listen now to learn how to bring hope, support, and practical tools into one of life’s toughest seasons.

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Connect with Jim:

Website: https://wholehealthoncologyinstitute.com/ 

LinkedIn: Jim Gerenscher or The Whole Health Oncology Institute 

Instagram: @Cancerplaybook

Media Page: https://wholehealthoncologyinstitute.com/media/ 

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Connect with me: 

Website: www. krccoaching.com 

LinkedIn: KRC Coaching

Instagram: @KRCcoaching

TikTok: @KRCcoaching

YouTube: @KRCcoaching

#CancerSupport #HolisticHealth #PatientAdvocacy #MindsetHealing #Podcast #CarleyDoxtator #WholeHealthOncology #CancerPlaybook #JimGerencser

Hi Lovebugs! 💕

You are not ready for the level of cool we’re about to dive into today. Joining me is the brilliant, bold, and badass Kate Assaraf, founder of Dip Haircare- a plastic-free, high-performance haircare brand that’s flipping the script on sustainability in the beauty industry.

Kate’s not just building a brand, she’s building a movement. A movement that is challenging the beauty industry, calling out greenwashing, and creating products that actually work without compromising the planet. Her mission with Dip is rooted in transparency, innovation, and a whole lot of heart.

She’s the daughter of immigrant parents, a proud convert to Judaism, and the kind of woman who leads with both fire and soul.

We’re talking about everything today, from launching a brand with a conscience, to spiritual identity, to what it really takes to stand for something in an industry that often just wants to sell you more stuff. 

In this episode we discuss:

✨ Sustainable beauty

✨ Better business practices

✨ Living life and running a business as the daughter of immigrant parents

✨ Finding your people

✨ Making a difference in the world around you

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Get 15% off you order of Dip Haircare products by using code KRCCOACHING at checkout on the Dip Haircare website. Get yours here: www.dipalready.com

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Get your free guide: The 3 Secrets to Creating Magnetic Energy Right Now

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Connect with Kate:

✨ Website: www.dipalready.com

✨ Instagram: @dipalready

✨ LinkedIn: Kate Assaraf

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Connect with me:

💕 Website: www.krccoaching.com

💕 Instagram: @KRCcoaching

💕 TikTok: @KRCcoaching

💕 YouTube:  ⁨@KRCcoaching⁩ 

💕 LinkedIn: KRC Coaching

✨ Hi Lovebugs!

This week we are doing a VERY special episode, because this week we are having our first honorary male guest on the podcast! (All of us ladies know how important this moment is). And in addition, this week's guest is my very own brother, Paul. 

Once you listen to the episode you will understand why Paul is one of my best friends. He’s a born-and-raised Colorado guy who works alongside our dad running the family-owned excavation company. When he’s not on the job site, you’ll probably find him out adventuring with his dog Scout, enjoying the outdoors, or navigating the Denver dating scene- which, as many of us know, has a reputation. 

In this episode we discuss:

✨ What its like running a family business

✨ Dating in Menver from the guy's perspective

✨ What it actually means to be true to yourself

✨ Some life advice, you'll def want to hear

✨ And so much more

If you're looking for some solid guy advice from a solid guy, this episode is definitely for you.

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✨ Instagram: @KRCcoaching

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✨ YouTube: @KRCcoaching

✨ LinkedIn: KRC Coaching

Hi Lovebugs! 💕

Welcome back to another episode of Girls Night with Carley Doxtator! This week, we’re diving into a conversation we all need to have- the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways we self-sabotage when it comes to love, dating, and relationships.

If you're totally over the same old dating patterns and wondering why you're stuck in a loop of frustration, this episode is your wake-up call. We’re getting honest, unfiltered, and real about what needs to shift so you can call in the love you actually want.

In this episode, we explore:

✨ The role of boundaries (and why setting them isn’t “too much”) ✨ How self-respect shifts the entire dating dynamic ✨ Knowing when it’s time to walk away- and feeling powerful doing it

Let’s untangle the patterns keeping you stuck and step into your confident, magnetic self. You deserve more than the bare minimum- and it starts right here.

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Let's Connect:

🌐 Website: krccoaching.com

📸 Instagram: @KRCcoaching

🎵 TikTok: @KRCcoaching

📺 YouTube: @KRCcoaching

💼 LinkedIn: KRC Coaching