Glow Up and Show Up

Social media is a mirror, and the way you show up on it is the exact same way you show up in your life. If that sentence just hit you somewhere deep, this episode was made specifically for you and I am so glad you're here. 💖

I am introducing the Show Up Confident on Camera Masterclass today, and I am giving you the entire SHOW framework, which is the exact system I use every single day to show up confidently, consistently, and without losing my mind in the process. 🎬

I spent eight years hiding from cameras, hiding in my outfits, and refusing to let anyone tag me on Facebook. When I finally forced myself to be visible at my absolute lowest point in life, it became the greatest catalyst for personal growth I have ever experienced, and I want that exact same transformation for you too. 🙏✨

In this episode you will learn: 🔥

• How to get camera ready in 30 minutes or less using the Dopamine Four framework and why color pattern texture and sparkle will change the way you show up forever 🌈
• The four laws of showing up that will completely rewire the way you think about content creation and visibility 🧠
• The exposure method that makes camera confidence genuinely achievable for real women with real busy lives 📱
• Why your headspace matters so much more than your ring light, your camera angle, or your follower count 💆‍♀️
• How I created nearly 200 pieces of content on Instagram last month and exactly how you can do the same thing 💻
• The three step AI loop called Dump It Drop It Refine It that will teach AI your voice and completely transform your content game forever 🤖

We are living in an AI era right now and your sweet sassy little self absolutely cannot be automated. 👑 But if you are hiding, if you are waiting, if you are scared, you are at risk and this episode is your fighting chance to change that starting today. 💪

Mentioned in this episode: 📌

• 📖 Free download, 25 Unhinged Glow Up Tips: https://mary-lacey-banks.kit.com/unhingedglowuptips
• 💻 Apply for 1:1 coaching with Mary: https://tr.ee/bRFDsqdJet

Come hang out with me on social: 💕

• 📱 Instagram: @marylaceybanks
• 🎵 TikTok: @marylaceybanks

If this episode made you feel something real today, please share it with a woman in your life who needs to hear it and leave me a written review on Spotify because it means the absolute world to me and helps so many more women find this show and this movement we are building together. 🌟

I love you so much and I cannot wait to see you next week. Now go show up. 🎬

Everyone wants to go viral.

My guest Brianna built 25k on TikTok and says it might be the worst thing for your brand. This episode will change how you show up online.

We get into how brand deals actually start, what to put in your bio right now, how to show your face on camera without freezing, and the mindset shift that will keep you going when nobody seems to be watching.

Brianna's best line of the whole episode: "It's not why not me. It's just not me yet."

Find Brianna: Instagram @LadyB_XO | TikTok @LadyBStyles

If this episode hit — share it with one woman who has been waiting to start. I am holding you so tight baby girl. Let's glow up and show up.

In this episode of Glow Up & Show Up, Mary Lacey Banks sits down with content creator Elizabeth Kennington for a real, honest conversation about shopping addiction, self-worth, confidence, and starting over after rock bottom.

Elizabeth opens up about the period of her life where spending and “retail therapy” became a coping mechanism, the shame that followed, and the humbling turning point that forced her to rebuild from the ground up. Together, Mary and Elizabeth talk about gratitude, personal growth, and the power of taking one small action a day to change your life.

They also dive into how fashion, thrifting, and style can become tools for confidence, why looking good isn’t shallow when you’re rebuilding your identity, and what it’s like to chase big dreams while living in a small town. This episode blends vulnerability, humor, and practical mindset shifts for any woman who feels behind, stuck, or ready for a glow up.

If you’re navigating starting over, rebuilding confidence, healing shame, or redefining your self-worth, this conversation will remind you that transformation doesn’t happen overnight — it happens through gratitude, courage, and consistent micro-steps.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• How shopping addiction and retail therapy can mask deeper emotions

• Why rock bottom can become a turning point instead of an ending

• The role of gratitude in personal growth and healing

• How thrifting, fashion, and style can build confidence at any size

• The mindset of “one action a day” to rebuild your life

• Overcoming shame and developing self-worth as a woman

• Dreaming big and creating content in a small town

• How to look good while starting over

  
  

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As we step into 2026, vision boards and goal setting are everywhere. But what if the reason your goals haven’t worked in the past has nothing to do with discipline and everything to do with alignment?

In this episode, Mary Lacey Banks introduces The Alignment Map, a powerful worksheet designed to help you stop building goals based on who you should be and start creating a life rooted in who you actually are.

Drawing from personal experience, therapy insights, and years of living out of alignment, Mary walks you through a simple but transformative framework to help you clarify your values, set boundaries around what you’re no longer available for, and create a vision that truly fits you.

This episode is for anyone who has ever:

• Built a vision board that didn’t feel right

• Chased goals that belonged to someone else

• Felt stuck, burned out, or disconnected from their own life

• Wanted clarity before committing to another “big year”

Before you make a vision board… listen to this.

• Why vision boards don’t work when they aren’t aligned with your values

• The difference between goals and values (and why values matter more)

• How to define your hell yes and hell no values

• How to create a personal mission statement that acts as your North Star

• How to recognize when you’re out of alignment — and how to come back quickly

• The concept of a personal Board of Directors and how to use it for guidance

• Why committing to the journey matters more than committing to the goal

In this episode, Mary walks through each section of The Alignment Map, including:

1. Hell Yes Values – the non-negotiables that guide your decisions

2. Hell No Values – what you are no longer available for

3. Your Personal Mission Statement – how you intend to operate

4. Out-of-Alignment Signals – how you know you’ve drifted

5. Re-Alignment Practices – how you get back on track

6. Your Board of Directors – who you allow to influence you

7. Your Sentence of the Year – a guiding intention for 2026

Instead of committing to a rigid goal, Mary invites you to create one sentence you’ll carry with you through 2026 — a sentence rooted in faith, alignment, and trust in the journey.

Because sometimes, God has an even better outcome than the one you planned.

• Download The Alignment Map Worksheet:👉⁠ https://mary-lacey-banks.kit.com/23eeae6057⁠

  
  

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🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode📝 The Alignment Map Framework✍️ Your Sentence of the Year🔗 Resources & Links💛 If This Episode Resonated

If you’ve ever been curious about energy work but didn’t know how to explain it without sounding “woo,” this episode is for you. I’m joined by Jamie Crain of Energymend to demystify energy healing and break down frequency, vibration, and energetic hygiene in a way that actually makes sense.

We talk about how emotions like fear, shame, and guilt can feel heavy (literally), and how small daily practices can help you raise your frequency, feel lighter, and stop sabotaging your goals. Jamie shares simple, practical ways to clear your energy using things you already have — like salt baths, showers with intention, and 524 Hz frequency music — plus how to shift from fear to faith as you move into 2026.

We also get into money frequency, limiting beliefs around money, and a gratitude practice you can start today to change your relationship with abundance.

• What energy work is (and how to explain it in a grounded way)

• The basics of frequency, vibration, and energetic hygiene

• Why low-vibe emotions can feel “heavy” and how to release them

• A simple “get your ass in the bath” reset: salt + sound + intention

• How to use showers as a daily energy cleanse (even if you don’t have a tub)

• The role of 524 Hz frequency music and sound healing

• How to shift from fear-based living to faith-based living

• The connection between self-worth and money

• “Money frequency” + how to reframe scarcity and attract abundance

• This week’s Glow Work (your homework): the easiest energetic reset routine

Take one shower or bath this week with intention:
salt + sound (524 Hz) + a simple prayer/affirmation to clear what isn’t yours and raise your frequency.

Website: energymend.com
Instagram: @energymend
Virtual Group Healings: Wednesdays (check her site for current details)

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Glow Up by Letting Go: Intuition, Healing & Wealth Energetics with Christina Deering

Today’s episode is a soul-hug. I sit down with spiritual mentor and business intuitive Christina Deering for a conversation about somatic healing, intuition, friendship breakups, wealth energetics, and becoming the version of you who can hold the glow up you’re praying for.

We talk breathwork, following divine timing, releasing relationships that dim your light, tuning back into your body, and why healing is often way more subtle and gentle than we think it is. If you’ve been feeling stuck, questioning your intuition, or craving a more faith-led life, this episode is going to feel like permission.

In this episode:

• Christina’s guided grounding + prayer to open the space
• How our “Wigging Out Wednesday” friendship moment became a catalyst in my glow up
• Christina’s eating disorder recovery + why healing goes way deeper than food
• Somatic work, breathwork, and my “exorcism” moment
• Leaving corporate for spiritual work
• Releasing friendships that lower your vibration
• How to know if something is intuition or ego
• Simple practices to reconnect with your body
• Why you’re not going backwards on your glow up
• Wealth energetics, vibration, frequency + becoming a match for more
• How to follow your highest excitement (and why it’s magnetic)

Glow Work of the Week ✨

Do Christina’s Six-Figure Shift Exercise — a nervous system regulation practice that helps you normalize success, feel safe receiving more, and align with your next-level self.

Connect with Christina

Podcast: You Unlimited
IG: @iamchristinadeering
TikTok: @iamchristinadeering

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Thank you for being here, babygirl. Holding you in the biggest thought hug. 💛🔥

Codependency recovery, Al-Anon, and inner child healing—this week’s episode is all about breaking free from dysfunctional patterns and rewriting the story you tell yourself. If you’ve ever struggled with people-pleasing, boundary setting, or losing yourself in relationships, this conversation will feel like a thought hug.

I’m joined by Jessica Graham, a storyteller and brand strategist whose own journey through 12-Step recovery, Al-Anon meetings, and inner child work has shaped the way she helps women heal. Together, we talk about:

• What codependency in relationships really looks like (beyond substance addiction)
• How Al-Anon tools and 12-Step recovery create clarity and boundaries
• The role of inner child healing in building self-trust and resilience
• Using journaling and storytelling to reframe pain and uncover patterns
• The power of small shifts—like Jessica’s practice of God walks (prayer walks)—to regulate your nervous system and bring peace
• How to move from victim mindset to gratitude, empowerment, and growth

🌟 Glow Work (this week’s practice): Take a God walk. Go outside without headphones, talk to God as if He’s your best friend, and notice how your energy and clarity shift.

💻 Connect with Jessica:

• Instagram: @jessicagraham.brandstudio
• Website: jessicagrahambrandstudio.com
• Join her free Monthly Journaling Meetup (last Tuesday of every month!)

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• Follow the show and tap ★★★★★ on Spotify
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Until next week, Glow Up Gang, I’m holding you tight in a thought hug. Love you, bye.

This week on Glow Up and Show Up, I’m joined by Alexis M. Carpenter—author, speaker, and truth-teller—for a raw, powerful conversation about faith, resilience, and the masks we wear to survive.

Alexis and I connected instantly because, like me, she’s navigated alcohol, binge eating, and toxic relationships—but her story of healing goes even deeper. From losing her stepson, brother, and career in the same season, to rebuilding her faith after years of shame and silence, Alexis is proof that God can use even the hardest parts of our story to unlock purpose.

We talk about:
💔 The grief that cracked her open to faith again
🎭 The “faces we wear” and how to identify your own mask
🍽️ How binge eating and body image can become a shield after trauma
🙏 The six phases of healing (and why awareness alone isn’t enough)
💡 Why self-leadership is the foundation for confidence, freedom, and authentic connection

This episode is one big thought hug and reminder that you are not alone in your struggles—and that your glow up is always possible, even if it starts at rock bottom.

🌟 Glow Work of the Week:
Journal on this question → What do you believe about faith, God, or your higher power? Write down not just what you currently believe, but what you want to believe. Then, practice “acting as if” that belief is true this week.

🔗 Connect with Alexis:
Her book: Changing the Reflection: The Faces We Wear and the Truths They Hide
Free quiz: https://forms.fillout.com/t/3Y5kj7mBMjus
Instagram: @alexismcarpenter
Website: RaisingHopeLLC.org

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I believe in you. I’m rooting for you. I love you.
– MLB 💖

Babygirl… this one is a thought hug and a fire-up-your-soul pep talk all in one.

Today, I’m joined by my friend and mental performance coach, Meredith Brick, to co-create The Mental Glow Up Framework , a set of powerful mindset boundaries you can keep in your back pocket when you’re in the thick of your glow up and your life doesn’t look different yet.

We go deep into:
✨ The plateau of latent potential — and why most people quit right before the magic happens
✨ The difference between dreaming of change vs. deciding to change
✨ How to keep showing up when no one else is clapping for you yet
✨ Building “comeback energy” and bouncing back faster after setbacks
✨ Why your self-talk literally rewires your brain (and how to make it work for you)
✨ How to be ambitious and compassionate while you’re still healing

Meredith shares tangible tools for self-awareness, simple mindset practices that actually stick, and her own vulnerable stories about loss, healing, and finding joy again. You’ll leave this episode feeling clear, capable, and ready to be the hottest, wisest, baddest version of yourself — brick by brick.

Glow Work for this week:

1. Grab a notebook and write at the top: Where do I feel stuck?

2. Brain dump everything — no editing, no judgment.

3. Ask yourself: What would the version of me who already got through this believe?

4. Start showing up as her.

Connect with Meredith:
Instagram: @brickwaltraining
Website: brickwaltraining.com

Let’s Connect:
Instagram: @marylaceybanks

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If you've ever felt like food was running your life, this episode is for you. 

This week on Glow Up & Show Up, we feature Dr. Kristina Dobyns, host of Beyond Binge Eating, PhD in Somatic Psychology, and one of the most compassionate and science-backed voices in the recovery space.

This episode unpacks what actually helps stop binge urges, why moderation doesn’t work for everyone, and how sensory tools like tapping and self-massage can literally change your brain in the moment. Kristina also opens up about her own 20+ year journey with bulimia, binge eating, and what finally brought her peace.

It’s full of healing, empowerment, and realness. This isn’t about perfection, it’s about learning how to stay present, regulate your nervous system, and build a life you don’t want to numb from.

✨ In this episode, we cover:

• The truth about abstinence-based recovery

• Why somatic tools help when willpower doesn’t

• How to stop being hijacked by binge urges

• What nervous system regulation actually looks like

• The surprising “glow up” moment Kristina never thought she’d have

👯‍♀️ Glow Work: Kristina’s Glow Work assignment this week? Take two mindful minutes with one meal. No distractions, just you and your body.

🔗 Learn more about Dr. Kristina Dobyns:

Conscious Bites course: www.BeyondBingeEating.com/Conscious-Bites

Website: https://www.BeyondBingeEating.com

Newsletter: https://beyondbingeeating.com/Newsletter/

Youtube: www.BeyondBingeEating.com/@BeyondBingeEating

Instagram: @beyondbingeeating

📦 Grab your FREE Eat-With-Awareness Bundle to slow down, stay present, and reclaim peace with food: https://beyondbingeeating.com/opt-in/

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