Our Guest today is Elise Aabakken
In this episode we talk about Elises first course on skillshare, through to her transition into coaching and of course about her inner critic - Chad.
Where you can find Elise:
Link to instagram: https://instagram.com/elise.aabakken?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
website: where you can find classes and original artwork:
www.eliseaabakkenstudios.com
my instagram - https://www.instagram.com/going_for_something/
my website - https://lauraferrara.co.uk/
the lucky dip newsletter - https://forms.aweber.com/form/23/282056123.htm
What we talked about in this episode:
joining the artist community after lurking for a year!
how Elise came to create her first skillshare course (that ended up being featured on the artists page!)
questioning all or nothing thinking to find evidence she had ignored
imposter syndrome, ‘everyone else knows what they are doing and i’m the only one who doesnt’ & questioning this.
seeing the value in ‘my own way of explaining things’ and ‘being me’ vs being an expert
discrediting her own initial success as ‘luck’ or down to factor other than herself
remembering that the first time is always going to be the hardest..
creating a new IG account to allow Elise to share her work without the judgement of current friends.
keeping things out of the hands of an inner critic and not allowing other people to decide if its ‘good enough’
feedback and constructive criticism - both requested and unsolicited and how to process vulnerable feelings around this, including sitting in her own wisdom
the pressure to produce a lot and always share ‘new’ stuff
checking in with your own wisdom and opinions about things!
celebrating herself & celebrating as a practice
transferring her mindset from art and creativity practices into life
the humans behind the numbers
her failure
feeling like she’s doing the ‘wrong thing’ and am somehow going to be punished for something
the fear of appearing stupid
making commitments when she feels excited and then not following through on them
feeling behind
Elise’s own beliefs that she uncovered during her coach training
asking for help
journalling - ‘then what’
finding her “nice” as a coach and working on her first coaching package
getting feedback even when things are unfinished
attitudes towards money
setting goals
“Chad” - Elise’s inner critic and how he came to be named Chad
activism and joy