In this episode, I talk about perfectionism in language learning and how it creates unnecessary pressure that often leads to overwhelm and quitting. I share why redefining success on your own terms and practicing self-compassion can make your language journey more sustainable and enjoyable. I also invite you to join Grace in Space, a supportive event happening from September 25th to 28th, where you can get personalized coaching and connect with others. Remember, progress looks different for everyone, and embracing imperfection frees you to keep moving forward.
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**TIMESTAMPS**
[00:00] Intro + Event Reminder - Welcome back, penultimate episode. Focus today: perfectionists in language learning.

[01:00] Recovering Perfectionists - Why so many learners describe themselves this way — and how it connects to anxiety and fear of mistakes.

[02:00] Redefining Success Daily - How perfectionism creates unnecessary pressure, and ways to set small, achievable success markers.

[03:00] Grades Don’t Apply Anymore - How school grading mindsets linger into adulthood — and why you don’t need to hold yourself to imaginary standards.

[05:00] No One Perfect Way - Why every learner’s progress looks different — and how comparison only drains motivation.

[06:00] Quality Over Quantity - Permission not to do it all: focus on what matters most for you at events like Grace & Space.

[07:00] Self-Compassion Beats Perfection - How shifting from “Did I do it all?” to “What did I gain?” makes learning sustainable.

[09:00] Closing + Event Invitation - Event details, ticket link, bonus package, and encouragement to join hot seat coaching.
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