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This week is Part 2 of having the hard conversations. Adhering to a cooling-off period may settle your emotions enough to approach the problem later. However, when couples constantly put their disagreements “on pause,” they run the risk of never having the chance to resolve the underlying dispute. Avoiding or delaying a difficult conversation can hurt your relationships and create other negative outcomes. It may not feel natural at first, especially if you dread discord, but you can learn to dive into these tough talks by re-framing your thoughts.

In any romantic relationship, there are times when you have to have a difficult conversation. Perhaps you are worried about a particular aspect of someone’s behavior, or want to suggest a major change to your lives together. It can take courage to initiate these conversations. However, you are handing all the power to your partner if you always wait for them to initiate discussions and, if you are afraid to assert yourself, you will not get what you want. This can lead to resentments building up over time, which can damage your relationship, so it is better to discuss things together before it gets to this stage.

On this episode we continue our discussion on having the hard conversations in relationships. We touch on the topics of your partners children and your role in their life, next steps in relationships, cohabitation, finances, and sex. Your partner must be mentally mature enough to have these conversations with you. Always remember it is you and your partner solving an issue not you and your partner against each other.

LADIES, LET YOURSELF BE PURSUED!

There are great guys out there who want to sweep you off your feet. Not giving men the opportunity to pursue us wholeheartedly can potentially shipwreck our relationships. Men were created to chase their desire; but in woman's eager anticipation, they sometimes step into the gap, not trusting that the man can do it all on their on.

On this episode we discuss the new trend of being a hoe for attention. In this culture where if you show your body and talk about sex you become an instant viral sensation, how can the good wholesome women get their needs met. Why are hoes getting the attention? When did standards get so relaxed?

On this episode we discuss all the things that should not be discussed on the internet if you are not ready for the backlash. Why do people feel the need to share everything with everyone no matter what the oversharing will affect. The internet will remain undefeated in its quest to break up families, relationships, and friendships. Even provide a source for people to see how ignorant other people can get.

Trauma chips away at your stability and sense of self, undermining self-worth and often starting in your childhood into adulthood. This trauma can also impact a person into adulthood as they experience feelings of shame and guilt, feeling disconnected and unable to relate to others, trouble controlling emotions, heightened anxiety and depression, anger. Sometimes you have to step back and ask, Who hurt me? How long am I going to allow this hurt to affect me? Where can I go from here?

Lookie here Lookie here, we have been gone for a minute but we are back. On this episode we discuss what we have been doing in the last couple of weeks. We talk about medical issues, dating someone with medical issues, owning your crazy, and knowing when to step up.

On this episode we discuss cheating and the aftermath that comes with cheating. Carrying that baggage into new relationships and learning your worth and knowing when to walk away.

On this episode we discuss how to handle interacting with your ex when it comes to the children, visitation, Dating someone with kids, and co-parenting.